Tuakana-teina

Scripture: 1^st Peter 2:21-25

Structure:

• Introduction
• Tuakana-teina
• Jesus’ example: innocence, meekness, faith
• Redemptive suffering
• Conclusion

Introduction:

Good morning everyone.

Do you have a favourite sandwich? For me it would have to be a Reuben. Reuben sandwiches are fairly simple: two thick slices of wholegrain bread (toasted) with corned beef and sauerkrauts in the middle. Hard to beat a good corned beef sandwich. 

Today we continue our series in the New Testament epistle of first Peter. We are roughly in the middle of Peter’s letter now, in a section that looks a bit like a sandwich. Not a Reuben sandwich so much; more of a suffering sandwich.

The focus of this morning’s passage (chapter 2, verses 21-25) is Christ’s suffering. Jesus provides the Christian believer with a model for responding to unjust suffering. This is the meat of the sandwich.

It seems that Peter has intentionally sandwiched Jesus’ suffering between instructions to slaves (which we heard about last week) and instructions to wives (which we will look at next week). Slaves and women being two of the most vulnerable and disadvantaged groups at the time Peter was writing. From 1^st Peter chapter 2, verses 21-25, we read…

²¹ To this you were called, because Christ suffered for you, leaving you an example,that you should follow in his steps. ²² “He committed no sin, and no deceit was found in his mouth.” ²³ When they hurled their insults at him,he did not retaliate; when he suffered, he made no threats. Instead, he entrusted himselfto him who judges justly. ²⁴ “He himself bore our sins” in his body on the tree, so that we might die to sinsand live for righteousness; “by his wounds you have been healed.” ²⁵ For “you were like sheep going astray,”but now you have returned to the Shepherd and Overseer of your souls.

May the Spirit of Jesus illuminate God’s word for us.

Peter’s words in these verses draw on Isaiah 53, where the prophet talks about the suffering servant. Peter takes this prophecy from Isaiah and appropriates it to Jesus, whose suffering had a redemptive effect.

Tuakana-teina:

In traditional Maori society there is a concept, or more accurately a relationship, known as tuakana-teina. If you work in education you may be familiar with it.

Tuakana is the Maori word for an older brother, sister or cousin. And teina refers to a younger brother, sister or relation.   

The principle of Tuakana-teina is used in schools as a model for buddy systems, where an older or more expert tuakana helps and guides a younger or less experienced teina. The idea is to create a culture of care and support.

Tuakana-teina is actually part of the DNA of our church also. When we talk about our church being inter-generational, part of what we mean is that we want to be a community of faith where each of the generations is represented and the older more mature believers (the tuakana) help and guide the younger less experienced (the teina). Of course, it’s not just the younger who learn from the older. The older can also learn from the younger. It is a mutually beneficial relationship.    

Last Sunday, being Labour weekend, the BIG and Flock kids (aged 3-12 years) combined for their Sunday school programme. One of the advantages of occasionally combining age groups like this is that it provides the opportunity for tuakana-teina relationships to form. In fact, one child (a 12-year-old boy) was helping a 5-year-old boy with a craft they were doing and said to Robyn, ‘tuakana-teina’. He understood it wasn’t just about completing the craft. Yes, the craft helps one to remember the lesson but, more importantly, it is a vehicle for building relationships of care and support.  

In using an example from Sunday school I don’t mean to suggest that tuakana-teina is just for kids. It is for the whole congregation. Someone in their 20’s can be a tuakana to someone in their teens (as happens in youth group). Just as someone in their 40’s or 50’s can be a tuakana for someone in their 20’s or 30’s, and so on. 

In verse 21 Peter says: To this you were called, because Christ suffered for you, leaving you an example,that you should follow in his steps.  

Verse 20 tells us the this to which we are called is ‘suffering for doing good and enduring it’. 

With our calling in mind, Jesus is our tuakana (our older brother) and we are his teina (his younger siblings). Ours is a tuakana-teina relationship. Jesus shows us by his example how we are to handle ourselves if or when we experience unjust suffering.  

Broadly speaking Peter highlights three things about Jesus’ example here: Jesus’ innocence. Jesus’ meekness and Jesus’ faith. When we manage to follow Jesus’ example, of innocence, meekness and faith, we point others to Christ and so glorify him. Our relationship with Jesus is meant to be mutually beneficial.  

Jesus’ example:

In verse 22 Peter alludes to Isaiah 53:9 saying of Jesus: “He committed no sin, and no deceit was found in his mouth.”

This refers to Jesus’ innocence or his righteousness. Jesus is the only human being ever to have lived to adulthood and be sinless. Jesus is the spotless, perfect Lamb of God. The fact that Jesus committed no sin and yet still suffered punishment implies that his suffering was unjust, not fair.

We note here that Jesus was sinless both in word and deed. ‘No deceit was found in his mouth’, tells us that Jesus had a clean heart as well as clean hands. The mouth speaks what the heart is full of. Therefore, no deceit in the mouth implies no deceit in the heart. Jesus did not pretend. He was the same on the inside as he was on the outside.

The fact that Jesus was without sin and was always honest means he is a genuine tuakana who we can trust. His example carries weight. 

Now, it needs to be acknowledged that while Jesus was completely innocent or sinless, we are not. Sometimes (or perhaps often) we fall short. Nevertheless, we need to do our best to be innocent in all our dealings with others, so that if we are wrongly accused we can draw strength from a clear conscience. God, who knows all things and is just, will vindicate the innocent either in this life or the next.     

Jesus had perfect control over himself, which brings us to our next point; Jesus’ meekness. In the first part of verse 23 Peter writes: When they hurled their insults at him,he did not retaliate; when he suffered, he made no threats.

This illustrates Jesus’ meekness. Meekness is often misunderstood these days as being a bit timid or weak. But meekness is not weakness. Quite the opposite. Meekness is great strength, great power, under control. Meekness is akin to gentleness. It takes tremendous strength to control oneself, and not retaliate, in the crucible of injustice.

In 2^nd Samuel chapter 16, a man named Shimei starts cursing David and throwing stones at him and yelling insults. One of the men with David says: ‘Why should this dead dog curse my lord and king? Let me go over and cut off his head.’

And David replies, ‘…Leave him alone; let him curse, for the Lord has told him to. It may be that the Lord will see my distress and repay me with good for the cursing I am receiving today.’ David responded with meekness here; great strength under control. David had the power to kill Shimei but he doesn’t. Instead he trusts himself to God.

In Matthew 26, when Jesus was arrested in the Garden of Gethsemane, one of the disciples responded with the opposite of meekness. He drew his sword and struck the servant of the high priest cutting off his ear. But Jesus intervened saying: Put your sword back in its place, for all who draw the sword will die by the sword. Do you think I cannot call on my Father and he will at once put at my disposal more than twelve legions of angels?

Jesus then healed the servant’s ear and submitted to his unjust arrest because it was God’s will for him in that situation. That is meekness, great power under control. Jesus had the power to easily smash his opponents but he kept that power in check for the well-being of others.   

Later, that night, when Jesus was brought to trial and wrongly accused of all sorts of crimes, he was silent. Then, the next day, when Jesus was hanging on the cross his enemies goaded him saying: If you are the Messiah, come down from the cross and save yourself. But Jesus did not respond with threats. He did not say, ‘My dad is going to get you for this’. No. He said: ‘Father forgive them for they do not know what they are doing’. That is one example of meekness, given to us by Jesus (our tuakana).     

Now, I need to say here that meekness does not always equate to biting your tongue, staying silent and doing nothing. While it is true that Jesus never threatened anyone there were plenty of times when Jesus spoke up to expose the truth.

Jesus called a spade a spade. (There was no deceit found in his mouth.) Jesus said to the Pharisees openly, ‘You white washed tombs. You look good on the outside but inside you are filled with corruption and filth.’ Jesus was not being unkind in saying this. He was not threatening them. To the contrary, he was simply stating the facts; both for the benefit of the people (so they would not waste their lives following the wrong example) but also for the benefit of the Pharisees themselves, so they would clean up their act and return to God.

The point is, meekness does not mean avoiding the truth or keeping silent about injustice. If you are suffering physical or sexual abuse, then expose the truth. Tell someone you trust what’s happening to you. Say what is. Do not make threats to the abuser about what you are going to do. Do not retaliate or seek revenge either. Instead be meek and get help. Report the abuse to someone who can help you get free of it. Let the authorities deal with it.

There is wisdom in walking away from an abusive situation. In Luke 4 Jesus stood up to speak in the synagogue and the people there took offense at him, so much so that they decided to throw him off a nearby cliff. In that situation Jesus did not submit to their abuse because his time had not come. But nor did he call down fire from heaven to destroy them. Instead he quietly slipped through the crowd and walked away. That too was meekness.  

Just because it was God’s will for Jesus to die on the cross, it does not automatically follow that it is God’s will for you to suffer abuse too. The fact that Jesus taught us to pray, ‘Your will be done, your kingdom come, on earth as it is in heaven’, tells us that not everything that happens to us, in this world, is God’s will. Jesus died to bring an end to sin and death. Ultimately it is God’s will that abuse stops and people are free to love him and each other.

So meekness can find expression in a variety of ways. Sometimes by keeping silent and other times by speaking out. Sometimes by walking away and other times by making a stand or taking the fall for someone else.

The single thing that enabled Jesus to be meek was his faith or trust in God’s justice. In the second part of verse 23 Peter tells us that Jesus entrusted himselfto God who judges justly.

Jesus had faith that God would see him right. And Jesus’ faith in God was rewarded. God vindicated Jesus by raising him to new life on the third day. Jesus’ resurrection is evidence that God is just and that Jesus was innocent. It is because God is just that we can have confidence that he will right any wrongs or injustices we suffer, if not in this life then in the next. 

Jesus is our tuakana (our older brother) and the example he gives for us to follow is the way of innocence, meekness and faith.

Redemptive suffering:

Can anyone here tell me what a cooper is? [Wait]

That’s right. A cooper is a tradesperson who makes wooden barrels. A very popular trade in centuries gone by but not so much in demand now.

Two or three weeks ago one of my favourite TV shows returned: The Repair Shop. In this series people bring much loved antiques and treasures to a workshop of skilled craftspeople who set about repairing and restoring the items. I like this show because it is essentially about redemption. Redemption means saving or reclaiming something.

One of the items brought in a couple of weeks ago was a small wooden barrel. The barrel was missing some braces and was basically in pieces, so it couldn’t hold liquid.

After the master cooper had put the barrel back together again, he took a bag of salt and poured it into the barrel, followed by some hot water. He then explained how the salt makes the barrel sweet again. The salt draws all the nasties out of the wood and into itself. The salt absorbs the impurities, cleansing the barrel.

This struck me as a parable of what God did, through Jesus, in redeeming us. Jesus came to save us and reclaim us for God. 

In verse 24 of 1^st Peter chapter 2 we read: “He himself bore our sins” in his body on the tree, so that we might die to sinsand live for righteousness; “by his wounds you have been healed.”

If we are like a broken barrel, then God is like the master cooper and Jesus is like the salty water whose life was poured out to cleanse our souls from within.

Jesus bore our sins, in his body, a bit like salt soaks up the impurities in a wooden barrel. Jesus did not do this so we could refill the barrel of our soul with more impurity. He did it so our lives could be filled with the new wine of his Spirit and we could live for righteousness.    

“By his wounds you have been healed” is a poetic way of saying Jesus’ suffering is redemptive. It heals us in a spiritual sense. It saves us and reclaims us for God’s purpose. 

The classic Old Testament story of redemptive suffering is that of Jacob’s son Joseph. If anyone suffered unjust treatment it was Joseph. Although he had done nothing to deserve such treatment Joseph was sold into slavery by his brothers, who were simply jealous of him.

To his credit Joseph did not allow this injustice to make him resentful or bitter. Instead he went about meekly proving himself a good worker in the house of his master, Potiphar. Potiphar promoted Joseph putting him charge of all the other household servants.

But there was more injustice coming Joseph’s way. When Potiphar’s wife took a fancy to Joseph, and Joseph refused to sleep with her, she falsely accused him of sexual assault and Joseph was thrown into prison. The fact that Potiphar did not have Joseph killed indicates that he knew Joseph was innocent but, like Pilate before Jesus, his hands were tied.

God gave Joseph the grace to endure the hardship in prison and, as he had done with Potiphar, Joseph went about meekly proving himself a trustworthy servant to the man in charge of the prison. After 3 and half years, God then provided a way out for Joseph.

Long story short, Joseph interpreted Pharaoh’s dream and Pharaoh made Joseph Prime Minister of Egypt. This put Joseph in a position to redeem many lives from starvation, including the lives of his brothers who had sold him into slavery in the first place.       

Joseph points to Jesus, in that his suffering was redemptive. God used Joseph’s unjust suffering to save many, just as he used Jesus’ suffering to save many more.

Our Scripture reading today finishes with verse 25 where Peter says:

For “you were like sheep going astray,”but now you have returned to the Shepherd and Overseer of your souls.

This echoes Isaiah 53:6 which reads: We all, like sheep, have gone astray, each of us has turned to his own way; and the Lord has laid on him the iniquity of us all. In other words, none of us are completely innocent. We are all sinners.

The Shepherd and Overseer of our souls refers to Jesus. Jesus is the good shepherd who goes after the lost sheep and indeed who musters the flock for their redemption.

Often, when we think of Christ as the good shepherd, we picture the image of Jesus tenderly carrying a lamb on his shoulders. And while tenderness is one layer of the meaning here, it is not the only layer.

Peter is quick to call Jesus the Overseer of our souls which indicates Jesus’ authority over our lives.  Jesus has every right to require us to respond to unjust treatment with innocence, meekness and faith because that is what he has done in redeeming our souls. 

Conclusion:

Returning to The Repair Shop for a moment. Another item brought in for redemption was an old fashioned set of scales for weighing babies. The cradle in which the babies were laid was a basket made from willow canes. This cane basket was in a bad state.  

The basket weaver who fixed the cradle explained that, before she could work with the willow canes, she had to soak them in water to soften them up and make them flexible. Otherwise the canes would be too brittle and would snap in her hands when she tried to weave them together.

It made me think, we are a bit like the willow canes in God’s hand. We need to be soaked for a while before we are flexible enough to be useful to the Lord’s purpose. But what is it we soak in? Is it the water of unjust suffering or is it the water of God’s grace?

Well, I suspect it is both, depending on what we need. Suffering, in small doses, can make us softer and more compassionate but too much suffering can dry us out, making us hard and brittle. In which case we probably need to soak in the water of God’s grace for a bit.

Just as actual water (H2O) is two parts hydrogen and one-part oxygen, I imagine the metaphorical water God uses to soften us up is two parts grace and one-part suffering.      

In a few moments we will share communion together. Communion is a time to remember the example of our tuakana, Jesus. It is a time to soak in the water of Christ’s suffering and grace for us. May God’s grace and peace attend you.

Questions for discussion or reflection:

What stands out for you in reading this Scripture and/or in listening to the sermon? Why do you think this stood out to you?

• What is your favourite sandwich? In what way is today’s Scripture reading like a sandwich?

• What is tuakana-teina? Can you think of any tuakana-teina relationships that have been mutually beneficial in your own experience? In what sense is Jesus our tuakana?

• Discuss / reflect on the example Jesus has given us – that is Jesus’ innocence, meekness and faith. Which of these facets of Jesus’ character do you find most appealing? Which is most disturbing or challenging for you?

• What are some of the ways that meekness can find expression? How might we know when to be quiet and when to speak up? Or when to walk away and when to stand our ground?

• Why did Jesus bear our sins in his body?

• How has God used suffering and grace to redemptive effect in your life?