Tawa Baptist

Stand

Scripture: 1st Peter 5:6-14

Structure:

  • Introduction
  • Cast off your anxiety
  • Stand firm in the faith
  • You are not alone
  • Conclusion

Introduction:

Good morning everyone.

Today we conclude our series in the New Testament letter of first Peter, focusing on chapter 5, verses 6-14.

When I started this series back in the middle of August last year, I thought this is a relatively short letter, just five chapters. It shouldn’t take too long.

I didn’t quite appreciate how much Peter was able to say in so few words. Peter’s letter is like Dr Who’s Tardis; it is a lot bigger on the inside than it appears on the outside. Excluding the holidays, it has taken 19 weeks to work through. But that is God’s word for you, generous and full of hidden gems.

From 1st Peter chapter 5, verses 6-14, we read…

6 Humble yourselves, therefore, under God’s mighty hand, that he may lift you up in due time. 7 Cast all your anxiety on him because he cares for you.

8 Be alert and of sober mind. Your enemy the devil prowls around like a roaring lion looking for someone to devour. 9 Resist him, standing firm in the faith, because you know that the family of believers throughout the world is undergoing the same kind of sufferings.

10 And the God of all grace, who called you to his eternal glory in Christ, after you have suffered a little while, will himself restore you and make you strong, firm and steadfast. 11 To him be the power for ever and ever. Amen.

12 With the help of Silas, whom I regard as a faithful brother, I have written to you briefly, encouraging you and testifying that this is the true grace of God. Stand fast in it.

13 She who is in Babylon, chosen together with you, sends you her greetings, and so does my son Mark. 14 Greet one another with a kiss of love.

Peace to all of you who are in Christ.

May the Spirit of Jesus illuminate God’s word for us.

The main metaphor Peter has used in his letter, to describe Christian believers, is that of the Jewish exile. In many ways the Christians of the first century were like exiles or resident aliens in a foreign land. As God’s people they were a marginalized minority. They were not in a position of political strength and were vulnerable to the pressure to conform to the pagan way of life around them. In that context it would have been very easy for Peter’s readers to lose faith in God and be assimilated into the cultural soup they found themselves in.

These Christian believers needed to remain very clear about their identity and their future hope, when God would restore them. They needed to stand their ground, without resorting to violence, and without compromising who they are.

While the church in New Zealand today does not have it as hard as the church of the first century in Asia Minor, it is becoming increasingly difficult to hold to Christian faith and values. We need to resist being assimilated into the prevailing culture.  More than ever we need to be clear about who we are and whose we are.

With this in mind, Peter closes his letter with three pieces of encouragement for those who, because of their faith in Jesus, feel like exiles in a foreign land:

Cast off your anxiety, stand firm in the faith and know that you are not alone.      

Cast off anxiety:

Have you ever been swimming in jeans? I don’t recommend it. Swimming in heavy clothes that cling to you is hard work and quite dangerous. You tire more quickly and tend to be dragged under more easily.

Maybe you haven’t swum in jeans but you might have been caught in a surf rip. They say the best thing to do when you are caught in a rip is to not fight it but go with it. Then swim to the side before coming back to shore.

In verse 7 Peter says: Cast all your anxiety on him because he cares for you.

This verse is talking about giving your worry to God rather than stressing out by trying to handle everything yourself.

In some ways anxiety is like trying to swim in jeans – it tires you out and drags you down. The best thing is to cast off the denim of your anxious thoughts before you go swimming. You might do this in prayer, by talking to God and asking him to deal with whatever problem is bothering you.

You might say, for example, ‘Lord, this issue feels too big for me to handle myself. I am looking to you for help. You know all things and you know what is best in this situation. I put it in your hands. Show me what part you want me to take responsibility for and what part I need to let go of.’

Often the next day, after you have prayed about it and slept on it, your perspective returns and the path forward becomes clear. God has a mysterious way of providing a remedy which we usually only see in the rear vision mirror.

Of course, as anyone who has struggled with anxiety will tell you, it’s not always as simple as saying a prayer. After giving our worries to God we might feel a compulsion to take them straight back again.

And so sometimes, anxiety can be like getting caught in a rip. You don’t feel in control and the harder you fight against it the worse it seems to get. The more you try not to think about the thing that is stressing you out the more anxious you become.

If that happens one strategy is to distract yourself by doing something completely different for a while, something you enjoy. In this way you conserve your energy until the fear passes and you can find your way back to solid ground.

You need not wait until you are in the rip tide of anxiety though. It is good practice to have built in routines in your day and week which create circuit breakers for anxiety. The Sabbath (a day of rest) is actually a God given circuit breaker but you may do other things in between as well.

What is your circuit breaker? What is that thing you can do which disrupts the holding pattern of anxious thoughts? It needs to be something quite different from your regular job, something which gives your mind a rest from focusing on the stresses and strains of life? Maybe its gardening or wood working or baking or beekeeping or kitesurfing or music or sewing or something else. Work it into the rhythm and routine of your life. In this way you will find it a bit easier to cast your anxiety on God.

Now I need to point out that casting your anxiety on God is not the same thing as throwing caution to the wind. Casting off anxiety is not a roll of the dice. No. In casting off anxiety we are still holding onto our responsibility.

Peter was a fisherman and with fishing there are no guarantees. Some things are outside of your control. You can’t control the weather, for example, or where the fish are going to be. But you can look after your equipment so that when the weather is right and the fish are teeming, your net doesn’t break and your boat doesn’t sink.

The point is, we take responsibility for those things we can control and we leave the rest to God. We trust God with the outcome knowing that he cares for us. Doing that enables us to stay calm and think more clearly.

Cast off your anxiety but hold on to your responsibility. Don’t throw the baby out with the bath water. You can get rid of the dirty bath water of anxiety. But you have a responsibility to take care of the baby.

One thing that creates anxiety for many people is imagining what other people think of them. But what other people think is outside of your control.

When you are a child you go through life blissfully unaware that other people may have a perception of you that is different from your perception of yourself. But when you go through adolescence your brain becomes aware that other people see you differently from the way you see yourself. This can be difficult to come to terms with and may be one reason why teenagers can be quite sensitive at times.

If you are a teenager and you struggle with angst and social anxiety, then take heart. Those intense feelings won’t last forever. As you get older you tend to be less concerned about what other people think.

As Christians we need to be more concerned with God’s opinion of us than anyone else’s opinion. This is what we call ‘the fear of the Lord’. Fear of the Lord releases us from the fear of people.    

Early Christians could not afford to care too much about what others thought of them. First century society generally looked down on Christians and said things about them that were untrue and unkind. The average believer was routinely prejudged, misunderstood and humiliated by the words of their neighbours. And it hurt. A humble, lowly status was forced on Christians whether they liked it or not.           

It is no accident that Peter’s exhortation to cast your anxiety on God comes straight after the part where says, Humble yourselves under God’s mighty hand, that he may lift you up in due time. It can make us anxious to suffer insult and humiliation. To humble yourselves under God’s mighty hand is to leave your reputation with God. Let him vindicate you in due time. Your responsibility is to manage yourself with a clear conscience.   

Okay, so that’s the first thing: cast your anxiety on him who cares for you.

Peter’s next encouragement is to stand firm in the faith.

Stand firm:

One thing they say to every soldier is, ‘Look after your feet’. Your feet are like the foundation of your physical body. When the foundation is sound you can stand your ground.

From verse 8 Peter writes… 

Be alert and of sober mind. Your enemy the devil prowls around like a roaring lion looking for someone to devour. 9 Resist him, standing firm in the faith,

This is the only time in his letter that Peter talks about the devil. Peter doesn’t give the devil much attention and so we should probably take our cue from that and follow Peter’s example.

Suffice to say the term ‘devil’ means slanderer or accuser. This was quite pertinent to Peter’s readers who suffered slander and false accusation from the prevailing society in which they lived as spiritual exiles.

A roaring lion is something which provokes fear. The devil, who personifies evil, works by trying to intimidate believers. Unlike God, who cares for people, the devil wants to devour and destroy.

I said a couple of weeks ago that our faith is incredibly precious to God. He treasures our faith. Faith makes love possible and that is why the devil seeks to destroy faith.

But the devil is not like a lion in every respect. Peter says we are to resist the devil, standing firm in the faith. You can’t really resist an actual lion, in the wild, by standing your ground. The lion is too strong. It will overpower you. If you hear a lion in the wild you need to quietly get out of its way.

The devil is not like an actual lion though, because we can resist him by standing our ground. Because Jesus has defeated the devil we are able to resist him. Faith in God is the devil’s kryptonite. When we make faithful obedience to Jesus the foundation of our life (when we build our life on Christ and his teachings) the house of our soul stands firm through the storm. 

To put it more plainly, Peter seems to be saying, “Don’t be intimated by the devil’s roar (his slander, his false accusation and his threats). Stand your ground. Maintain your belief and trust in Jesus. Don’t modify your behavior in order to fit in. Don’t assimilate to the pagan culture around you and don’t renounce your faith. Keep trusting Jesus. Remain loyal to him.”

It is interesting that Peter prefaces this stuff about the devil by saying, Be alert and of sober mind. Evil often looks for a way in through the mind. A mind which is alert and sober can act like a gate keeper for the soul, keeping out the Trojan horses and poison thoughts.

When discerning which thoughts to follow and which to ignore you could apply the THINK acrostic (T.H.I.N.K.) I’ve mentioned this on other occasions. Before you walk down a particular path in your mind ask yourself…

Is it true? Is it helpful? Is it inspiring? Is it necessary? Is it kind? If the answer to any of those questions is ‘no’ then it’s probably best not to pursue the thought.       

Peter’s encouragement to stand firm in the faith was tested more than once. On the night when Jesus was arrested Peter tried to stay close to Jesus. He managed to position himself in the courtyard of the house where Jesus was being questioned.

Despite his great enthusiasm, only hours before, Peter buckled under pressure and denied the Lord three times before the cock crowed. He was bitterly ashamed of himself but, as we heard last week, Jesus didn’t hold it against Peter. Jesus restored Peter and made him steadfast and strong.

Peter’s story gives us hope. Like Peter we may deny our Lord and assimilate to the surrounding culture in a hundred different ways, large and small. We may be right to feel guilty about that. But we do no one any favours if we allow our guilt to paralyze us. It is how we respond to failure that matters. It is not how one starts but how one finishes that really counts. 

Several weeks after denying Christ, Peter boldly testified to Jesus’ death and resurrection, on the day of Pentecost. Then, after leading the church for many years, and I imagine suffering many trials, Peter’s faith was tested one last time and proved true. The Bible does not tell us how Peter died but tradition says that he was martyred for his faith. He did not count himself worthy to die in the same way as Jesus and so they crucified him upside down.

Standing firm in the faith goes hand in glove with casting your anxiety on the Lord.

Peter’s third piece of encouragement, in these closing verses of his letter, is to remember you are not alone.

You are not alone:

Sometimes at weddings you hear that reading from Ecclesiastes that a rope of three strands is not quickly broken. It is very appropriate for marriage and for life generally. We are stronger together than alone.

If I take a single piece of paper it is very easy for me to tear it in two, like this. (Hopefully that sound effect comes through on-line.) But if I take two or three pieces of paper and fold them a few times, it becomes a lot more difficult to tear the paper. We are stronger when we are folded together than when we are alone. 

Sometimes when we suffer we think we are the only ones and that creates a very lonely feeling. Loneliness makes us vulnerable to anxiety and despair. Loneliness discourages us. It makes us want to give up. Feeling that we are on our own makes us fragile, like a single piece of paper, easily torn. 

In verse 9 Peter reminds his readers they are not alone in their suffering. Other believers throughout the world are suffering in similar ways. There is a certain solidarity in knowing that.

I’m not sure about you but it actually doesn’t make me feel better to know others are suffering. It’s hard to enjoy life when you know others are doing it tough. But knowing others are suffering for their faith does motivate me to stand strong with and for them.   

As Christians we are all connected. We may not always be aware of this connection consciously but I believe it operates on a subconscious level. If a fellow believer drops out of the faith, then we may feel a certain sadness or loneliness about that. But when a believer hangs tough for Jesus we can feel a certain solidarity or strength and can take courage from that.      

Peter reinforces the point that his readers are not alone (with another fold of the paper) in verse 10, where he says…

And the God of all grace, who called you to his eternal glory in Christ, after you have suffered a little while, will himself restore you and make you strong, firm and steadfast.

Not only do we stand in solidarity with other Christians all over the world, God also stands in solidarity with us.

Verse 10 reminds us of the past, the present and the future of God’s grace. God has called you, so you have history with God. In the light of eternity, your suffering is just for a little while, that is the present dimension. And the future looks bright, for God will restore you. In other words, God will complete his work in you and make all things new. Your present situation of weakness is not permanent.   

Peter’s letter ends with a number of greetings which further reinforce the fact that his readers are not alone. Peter sends greetings from Mark and Silas. We can’t be sure but most likely this is the same Mark who wrote Mark’s gospel. Peter refers to him as a son, not in a biological sense, but in a spiritual sense.

Silas is most probably the same person we read of in Acts, who travelled on mission trips with Paul and others. It appears that Silas was the one who delivered Peter’s letter to the house churches in Asia Minor. His physical presence in delivering Peter’s letter would have demonstrated to the church how they were connected to the wider family of believers.

In verse 13 Peter gets poetic saying, She, who is in Babylon, …sends you her greetings. In all likelihood the ‘she who is in Babylon’ refers to the church in Rome. Babylon being a cryptic way of referring to Rome. (The actual city of Babylon lay in ruins at the time Peter was writing.)

All these greetings underline the point that the church in Asia Minor is not alone, they are connected. Peter’s last instruction, to Greet one another with a kiss of love, is an encouragement for believers to remain connected with each other.

This kiss of love is a form of family like affection. Sort of like we might give someone a hug or shake their hand. It is a physical reminder that we are not alone. And it is not a difficult instruction to carry out. It is something pleasant. 

Conclusion:

Having read and studied this letter of Peter’s we can see the apostle has come a long way. In the gospels Peter comes across as a bit brash and somewhat of a blunderer. Sincere and well intentioned, for sure, but often putting his foot in it. He had the tendency to speak before thinking and to make grand claims he could not support. Sometimes his words hit the mark but just as often they were out of place.

The letter of 1st Peter reveals something of Peter’s personal transformation. His words are thoughtful and his attitude is humble. He is uncompromising in his loyalty to Jesus but quite gracious and kind in the way he writes.

There is a winsomeness to this Peter that we don’t see so much in the gospels. It is truly lovely that he should close his correspondence with the threefold encouragement to cast your anxieties on the Lord, to stand firm in the faith and to know that you are not alone.

In the journey of Christian faith, it is not how one starts but how one finishes that really counts. 

Peace to all of you who are in Christ.

Questions for discussion or reflection:

What stands out for you in reading this Scripture and/or in listening to the sermon? Why do you think this stood out to you?

  • Why do Christian believers need to be clear about who they are and whose they are? 
  • How might we cast all our anxiety on God? What are some practical strategies that work for you? What is your circuit breaker?
  • What does it mean to stand firm in the faith? How can we avoid assimilating to the world’s values?
  • How might we vet or sieve our thoughts in order to protect our mind?
  • How do you feel when other Christians suffer? What might you do to stand in solidarity with them? How do you feel when a fellow Christian turns away from their faith in Jesus? What might you do to stand firm in your faith in that situation?
  • What practical things can you do to strengthen your connection with other Christian believers?
Tawa Baptist

Leadership

Scripture: 1st Peter 5:1-5

Structure:

  • Introduction
  • What?
  • Why?
  • How?
  • Conclusion

Introduction:

Good morning everyone.

Dee Dee Myers once made the wry comment…

“I am endlessly fascinated that playing football is considered a training ground for leadership, but raising children isn’t.”

Dee Dee worked in the white house during the Clinton administration. Her observation reveals the western world’s often misplaced values when it comes to the question of what makes a good leader.

Today we continue our series in the New Testament letter of first Peter, focusing on chapter 5, verses 1-5. In this passage the apostle Peter addresses the elders of the church, giving guidance on the what, why and how of church leadership. Peter’s wisdom shows us what we need to look for in a leader.

From 1st Peter 5, verse 1 we read…

To the elders among you, I appeal as a fellow elderand a witness of Christ’s sufferings who also will share in the glory to be revealed: 2 Be shepherds of God’s flock that is under your care, serving as overseers—not because you must, but because you are willing, as God wants you to be;not greedy for money,but eager to serve; 3 not lording it overthose entrusted to you, but being examples to the flock. 4 And when the Chief Shepherdappears, you will receive the crown of glory that will never fade away.

5 In the same way, you who are younger, submit yourselves to your elders. All of you, clothe yourselves with humilitytoward one another, because,

“God opposes the proud but gives grace to the humble.”

May the Spirit of Jesus illuminate God’s word for us.

In these verses Peter lays out the what, why and how of church leadership. First let’s consider what the role a Christian leader is.

What?

There is a lovely term in cricket called ‘shepherding the tail’. The tail here refers to the lower order batsmen, those who are usually better at bowling than batting and therefore more vulnerable when at the cress.

Shepherding the tail is when the more skilled batsman, in this scenario, supports and protects the weaker batsman. This support may come in the form of words of encouragement and advice between balls. It may also mean the stronger of the two batsman facing more of the strike.

In verse 2 Peter appeals to the elders of the church to be shepherds and overseers of God’s flock.    

What is the role of the elders or leadership of the church? To be shepherds.

The thing we notice here is that Peter doesn’t get into a detailed job description about what the leaders of the church are to do. He doesn’t start with the specific tasks of leadership. No. He starts deeper than that, at the level of their being. Peter’s logic is that if the leaders of the church get their being right, the doing will take care of itself.  

People tend to do what they are. Doing comes out of being. If you are a builder, you will naturally be inclined to lay a good foundation, measure twice and cut once. If you are an accountant, you will look to reconcile things and take a prudent approach. If you are a nurse, you will want to provide practical care for people.

A shepherd is inclined to watch, protect, feed, care for, count and heal their flock. Shepherds are used to long hours, hard work and difficult conditions. A shepherd thinks in terms of the whole flock collectively as well as the individual sheep and lambs. A shepherd is vigilant, aware and present.

Shepherding is like parenting. It is a better training ground for leadership than playing football.     

God seems to have a thing for shepherds. Abraham, Isaac and Jacob were all shepherds, as were Moses and king David. Jesus was a carpenter but he described himself as the good shepherd. God often chose shepherds to lead his people because shepherds are wired up to take care of living things.

Earlier in the service we heard a conversation between Jesus and Peter, from chapter 21 of John’s gospel. The risen Lord Jesus appears to his disciples and has breakfast with them. After breakfast Jesus takes Peter aside and asks him three times to care for his sheep. (Some versions say ‘feed my sheep’)

Peter had it imprinted in the very fiber of his being that Jesus wanted him to be a shepherd to other believers in Christ. Peter is asking the leaders of the church to do the same – to be shepherds to the people entrusted to them.  

The image of the early church as a flock of sheep and the elders of the church as shepherds was very appropriate to Peter’s readers. Sheep are basically defenseless. They can’t run very fast, they are not naturally camouflaged and they don’t have sharp teeth or claws to defend themselves.

As we have heard over the past few months, the church in Asia Minor during the first century, was small and vulnerable, like sheep. Christians were marginalized, misunderstood and hated. Eventually Peter’s readers would be persecuted. They didn’t need a CEO style leader or a military commander. They needed leaders with the heart of a shepherd who would care for, guide, feed and protect them.

So how does this translate to our church context today? Shepherding is more of an attitude, or a mind-set, than a task. Doing comes out of being.

The equivalent of elders or leaders at Tawa Baptist are our Deacons and pastors. One of the Deacons’ tasks is to make decisions in the life of the congregation. Making decisions in itself is not necessarily shepherding. What makes the Deacons shepherds is their care for the congregation. So when the Deacons make a decision they are thinking about the welfare of the people in parallel with God’s will & purpose.

One of the classic expressions of shepherding a congregation is preaching. It is not the preacher’s job to entertain you or make you laugh, although it is okay if he or she does. It is the preacher’s job to lead you to the green pastures and still waters of God’s word, in the Scriptures, so you can find the guidance and nourishment you need for your souls.

Not everyone can preach but most of you can visit. When you make a pastoral visit to someone the main purpose is to listen and seek to understand the person you are visiting. You can’t help someone unless you know them. You may feel a bit useless just sitting and listening and drinking tea, but actually your presence has more power than you think. Your listening with empathy is a salve for loneliness. It creates a connection that God can use.

Of course, shepherding is not limited to preaching & visiting. There is a lot of administration and compliance involved with church leadership these days. A shepherding attitude does not ignore the necessary admin but rather looks to see how it can serve the well-being of the people. For this reason, health & safety is important to us, not because we like paper work, but because we want to protect people.

You may have twigged by now that shepherding isn’t just something the deacons and pastors do. In reality we all have a shepherding role to play. If you are the leader of a home group or if you are a Sunday school teacher or a crèche worker or youth leader, then you are a shepherd to those in your care.

But even if you don’t have an official role in one of our church programmes, you can still be a shepherd to someone in an informal way. Maybe by being present when someone is going through a difficult time. Or helping in a practical way with a meal. Or looking after their kids. Or simply noticing a change in them and asking, ‘Are you okay?’

Doing a particular set of tasks does not make you a shepherd. Shepherding is an attitude, or a mind-set, out of which a task of care is born.

Having addressed the what of church leadership (to be shepherds), Peter then talks about the why of leadership.              

Why?

The question of why one should be a leader has to do with motivation and purpose. Peter says…

Be shepherds of God’s flock… not because you must, but because you are willing, as God wants you to be;not greedy for money,but eager to serve…

Leadership is not easy. Like being a shepherd, the hours are long, the work is hard and the conditions are often difficult. There are certain pressures, both internal and external, that come with leadership. Often in leadership one is caught between a rock and a hard place. Sometimes a leader has to make decisions that are unpopular and lonely.

As Max Lucado says, “A man who wants to lead the orchestra must turn his back on the crowd.”

Being a leader in the church of the first century was not easy. The elders Peter was addressing were coping with enormous pressures from the society around them. Being a leader in that context required them to turn their back on the crowd in order to lead the orchestra of the church. It took real commitment.

Before you accept the mantle of leadership, you need to be very clear about why you are doing it. You can’t afford to go into leadership half-hearted. You need to embrace the commitment fully. You need to be willing.

It appears from verse 2 that ‘the church felt an obligation to provide financially for those whose Christian service prevented them from earning what they needed to live.’ [1] So some of the church leaders probably received a modest stipend.

While there is nothing wrong with paying people for their service to the church (don’t muzzle an ox while it treads the grain and all that), money in itself is not an adequate reason to serve in Christian leadership. You have to find an intrinsic motivation.

Although Peter doesn’t explicitly say in these verses, the motivation of love must surely have been in his mind. You remember that when Jesus asked Simon Peter to feed his lambs (in John 21), Jesus prefaced that request each time with the question: ‘Simon, son of John, do you love me?’

In this way Jesus helped Peter to be clear about his why. The primary motivation for any Christian leader has to be love for Jesus. You might start out enjoying the tasks of Christian ministry but that won’t be enough to sustain you. You might feel a certain affection for people but people will inevitably let you down.

The number one priority for any Christian leader is to keep the fire of their love for Christ alive. Love for Jesus is our why.       

There is a plant that produces a lovely deep coloured flower, known as the Amaranth plant. The name Amaranth derives from a Greek word meaning ‘the unfading flower’. The Amaranth flower is so called because it does not fade. It retains its rich deep colour.

In ancient times the Greeks would show honour to someone by putting a wreath or crown of flowers on that person’s head, much like we might award a medal to an Olympic champion. The wreath could be made of any kind of foliage but an Amaranth wreath was special because it did not fade in the same way other crowns did.

The Amaranth doesn’t just look good though, it is also good for your health. People use the plant to make medicine to treat ulcers, diarrhoea, swollen mouths and to reduce high cholesterol.  

In verse 4 Peter gives another reason why Christian leaders should serve…

4 And when the Chief Shepherd appears, you will receive the crown of glory that will never fade away.

A more literal translation of the original Greek reads…

4 And when the Chief Shepherdappears, you will obtain the amaranth crown of glory.

The ‘amaranth crown’ is paraphrased by most English translations as ‘the crown of glory that will never fade’, because the metaphor is lost on modern readers. The Chief Shepherd refers to Jesus and the amaranth crown is the eternal reward Jesus gives to those who go the distance in God’s will for them.

The Lord is no one’s debtor. He does not expect his servants to work for nothing. Those who shepherd God’s people have much to look forward to.

So then, we have two answers to the why of Christian leadership. Our motivation needs to be love for Christ and the hope of glory.

We have heard about the what and the why of church leadership. Now let’s consider how a church elder is to lead or shepherd God’s people?

How?    

There is a Chinese Proverb which says: ‘Not the cry, but the flight of a wild duck, leads the flock to fly and follow’.

I take this to mean that the best way to lead is by your example.

One of the shepherds, in my life when I was younger, was a man called Gus Row. Gus was the director of Youth for Christ Waikato when I was involved with YFC during the late 1980’s and early 90’s.  He was nicknamed ‘the Ox’.

Among his many gifts Gus was a wonderful speaker. He fed us with his words.  One of Gus’ illustrations was of a pair of oxen. He said in days of old, when oxen were used to plough fields, they would often pair an old ox with a young ox. The young ox had the strength and vigour to spur the older ox on. While the older ox had the patience and steadiness to guide and pace the younger ox so it could go the distance. The older ox acted as an example to the younger ox.

Gus used this metaphor to encourage older leaders to come alongside and mentor younger ones. There is a mutual benefit.

In verse 3 Peter appeals to the elders of the church not to lord it overthose entrusted to you, but be examples to the flock.

This recalls Jesus’ words to his disciples in Matthew 20:25-28…

“You know that the rulers of the Gentiles lord it over them, and their high officials exercise authority over them. 26 Not so with you. Instead, whoever wants to become great among you must be your servant, 27 and whoever wants to be first must be your slave— 28 just as the Son of Man did not come to be served, but to serve, and to give his life as a ransom for many.”

How are Christian elders to lead the church? By coming alongside and being an example of the way of Christ.

Or, to put it another way, “Leaders don’t inflict pain, they share pain.” [2]

Peter practiced what he preached as well. In verse 1 of chapter 5, Peter comes alongside his readers saying…

To the elders among you, I appeal as a fellow elderand a witness of Christ’s sufferings who also will share in the glory to be revealed:

Notice how Peter does not pull rank on his readers here. Peter is the premiere apostle but he doesn’t issue an edict or a command from on high. He doesn’t lord it over them or use his status to demand obedience. No. He humbly comes alongside and appeals to the elders of the church in Asia Minor as a fellow elder on the same footing.

In effect Peter says, “I’m an elder like you. I know what it’s like. I feel your pain. We are on the same side with the same goal. We both share in Christ’s sufferings and will share in his glory too.”

Peter learned the how of Christian leadership directly from Jesus of course. After Peter had denied Jesus three times, the Lord did not stand on high and reprimand Peter. He did not use the guilt Peter obviously felt to leverage Peter into doing him a favour. He didn’t say to Peter, ‘Look, you let me down and now you owe me. But you can make it up to me by taking care of my flock. Then we’ll be even.’

No. As we heard in John 21 earlier, Jesus came alongside Peter and restored him. No recrimination, no guilt, no shame, no leveraging, just the undeserved trust of a second chance. That is grace. That is the way of Jesus. That is the how of Christ’s example.

When we think of coming alongside and being an example to others we are reminded of the philosophy of 24-7 youth work. 24-7 uses a presence based (shepherding type) model. The idea is for youth workers to come alongside students and be hand holders, not problem solvers.

Now in saying that the how of Christian leadership is to come alongside and be an example, we do not mean to imply that church leaders can’t speak difficult truths to those in their care. Sometimes it is necessary for shepherds to discipline the flock. But to discipline means to teach, more than to punish. And the most powerful teaching method is our example.

Conclusion:

Sam Rayburn is quoted as saying, “You cannot be a leader, and ask other people to follow you, unless you know how to follow, too.”

Our reading today concludes with Peter’s appeal to young people and indeed to all people in the church. Peter says in verse 5…             

In the same way, you who are younger, submit yourselves to your elders. All of you, clothe yourselves with humilitytoward one another, because,

“God opposes the proud but gives grace to the humble.”

We have talked about humility a bit recently so there is no need to labour the point now. Suffice to say that humility is not putting yourself down. Humility requires a healthy self-awareness, not thinking too much or too little of yourself.

Humility is the necessary companion to Godly submission. Submitting to others is not popular. We are too infatuated with the illusion of personal freedom. We need to recover a right understanding of what Christian submission is.

Peter is not suggesting believers should submit to immoral leadership, without question. The kind of leadership Peter is asking his readers to submit to is a shepherding style of leadership modelled after the example of Christ.

As Joel Green reminds us, to submit is to find and occupy responsibly one’s place in the community of faith. To submit oneself is the opposite of withdrawal. Submission is not about numbing or negating yourself. Submission is about embracing one’s personhood. [3]   

Likewise, humility is about going with the grain of who you are, who God made you to be. The way of Christ is not to revolt and rebel. The way of Christ is to understand who you are and where you fit in God’s purpose.

By appealing to the young people to submit to their elders, Peter is in fact putting them on a path to becoming leaders themselves one day. Submitting to legitimate authority is one of the lessons every leader needs to learn.   

“You cannot be a leader, and ask other people to follow you, unless you know how to follow, too.”

This morning we’ve heard Peter’s what, why and how for Christian leaders.

A Christian leader is a shepherd. Their motivation is love for Christ and the hope of unfading glory. A Christian leader leads by coming alongside and being an example. 

Whether you are a leader or not we all need God’s grace. With this in mind let’s stand and sing Gracious Spirit dwell with me. Make this your prayer…         

[If you would like prayer, there will be someone available to pray with you after the service at front on the north side of the auditorium.]

Questions for discussion or reflection:

What stands out for you in reading this Scripture and/or in listening to the sermon? Why do you think this stood out to you?

  • What leadership lessons might we learn from raising or caring for children?
  • Why do you think God often chose shepherds to lead his people?  
  • What does it mean to be a shepherd leader? Who has God entrusted to your care and how do you shepherd them?
  • Why is love for Jesus so important for a Christian leader? What can you do to keep the fire of your love for Jesus alive?
  • What does it mean to ‘come alongside’?
  • Why does Peter appeal to the young people to submit to their elders? How does submission to legitimate authority prepare us for leadership?
  • Take some time this week to reflect on your own style of leadership. What might those in your care be learning from your example? 

[1] Refer Howard Marshall’s commentary on 1st Peter, page 163.

[2] Quote by Max Depree.

[3] Refer Joel Green’s commentary on 1st Peter, page 171.

Tawa Baptist

Suffering

Scripture: 1st Peter 4:12-19

Structure:

  • Introduction
  • Manage your expectations
  • Suffering is evidence
  • Entrust yourself to God
  • Conclusion

Introduction:

Good morning everyone.

Today we continue our series in the New Testament letter of first Peter, focusing on chapter 4, verses 12-19. Peter was writing to encourage the fledging church in Asia Minor who were suffering because of their faith in Jesus.

In today’s reading Peter gives some practical advice on how Christian believers can handle suffering for their faith in a positive way. From 1st Peter, chapter 4, verse 12 we read…

12 Dear friends, do not be surprised at the fiery ordeal among you that is taking place to test you, as though something strange were happening to you. 13 But rejoice inasmuch as you participate in the sufferings of Christ,so that you may be overjoyed when his glory is revealed. 14 If you are insulted because of the name of Christ, you are blessed,for the Spirit of glory and of God rests on you. 15 If you suffer, it should not be as a murderer or thief or any other kind of criminal, or even as a meddler. 16 However, if you suffer as a Christian, do not be ashamed, but praise God that you bear that name. 17 For it is time for judgment to begin with God’s household;and if it begins with us, what will the outcome be for those who do not obey the gospel of God? 18 And, “If it is hard for the righteous to be saved, what will become of the ungodly and the sinner?”

19 So then, those who suffer according to God’s willshould entrust themselves to their faithful Creator and continue to do good.

May the Spirit of Jesus illuminate God’s word for us.

As I mentioned at the beginning, this reading contains Peter’s advice on how Christians can handle suffering for their faith in a way that is life giving.

Three things Peter suggests: Manage your expectations. Think of suffering as evidence and entrust yourself to God.   

Manage your expectations

Peter, as you know, was a fisherman by trade. Fishing can be a fickle business and involves a fair bit of suffering. It is heavy, dangerous work. Sometimes you can be out all night and come home cold, wet and tired, with nothing to show for your efforts. It doesn’t seem fair. Eventually though, if you persevere, you get a reward. I guess through his work as a fisherman Peter learned to manage his expectations. 

Some of you, over the holidays, may have completed a jigsaw puzzle. Those puzzlers who like a bit of a challenge might be familiar with the Wasgij range of puzzles. Wasgij is simply the word ‘Jigsaw’ spelt backwards.

With a regular puzzle you have the advantage of seeing the picture you are putting together on the box. You know what to expect. But with a Wasgij the picture on the box is not the same as the picture you are assembling. So you don’t know what to expect. Often it is the inverse of the image you are given on the box.

In some ways the journey of Christian faith is a bit like working on a Wasgij. When we become a Christian we may (for whatever reason) have this picture in mind about how our life is going to be. We may think life will be easier now that we believe in Jesus because we have God on our side. We might imagine people will be okay with our decision to become a Christian and want to join us, but that is not necessarily a realistic expectation.

While it is true that God is on our side when we put our faith in Jesus, it does not automatically follow that our life will get better or that others will welcome our decision. Your life may improve in some ways but it will probably get harder in other ways. Some people may be tolerant of your decision to follow Christ, but you may also lose some friends.

Jesus of course was very clear that following him would be no picnic. He did not mislead anyone.

In verses 12 & 13 of chapter 4 Peter writes…

Dear friends, do not be surprised at the fiery ordeal among you that is taking place to test you, as though something strange were happening to you. 13 But rejoice inasmuch as you participate in the sufferings of Christ,   

Peter, the veteran fisherman, is gently telling his readers to manage their expectations. People are naturally surprised when something does not happen as they expect. Peter is removing the element of surprise by reminding them that they can’t expect everyone to celebrate their decision to follow Jesus. They should expect a bit of push back. Christ suffered, therefore as his followers, you can expect to suffer as well, although probably not to the same extent.

Christianity, at that stage in history, was a brand new religion. It was not an established tradition and so the general population did not really know it or trust it. Most of the people Peter was writing to were Gentiles. For them converting to Christianity meant a comprehensive change of lifestyle.

At the time of Peter’s letter, it wasn’t that Christians were systematically persecuted as such. That came later. It was more that they were socially marginalized. People spoke against them to heap shame on them.    

Peter describes the rejection they are facing as a ‘fiery ordeal to test them’. This is a metaphor. Just as precious metals, like silver and gold, are tested and proved through fire, so too the precious metal of Christian faith is tested by the fiery ordeal of being insulted and put to shame. If Peter’s readers stayed loyal to Christ, even though people who were once their friends and family rejected them, then the metal of their faith was proved true.

Now in saying that we need to manage our expectations Peter does not mean always thinking the worst will happen. If we do that we will soon lose hope. Peter wants his readers to replace their surprise (or disappointment) with the joy that comes from hope. So, while we need to be prepared to suffer in the short to medium term, we still remain confident that God will work things for good in the long run. That is our hope and that is where our joy comes from.  

Last year we baptized a new believer here in our church. A few weeks ago we prayed for him as he had to return home to India. His prayer request was that he be able to confess the name of Jesus before his family and his community and that this would go well. But even if he was rejected he wanted to stay true to Jesus. This man was managing his expectations, just like Peter said. He was expecting a fiery ordeal but still hoping for the best.

Most of us have not had to suffer the kind of test of faith that many of our Christian brothers and sisters overseas have. But even so we still do come under some scrutiny and pressure for our faith in Jesus. The wider NZ society in which we live is not as friendly toward Christians as it once was. There is a certain loss of face and loneliness that comes with following Jesus, which is one reason why we need to love one another. 

I remember when I left my job in Tauranga to train for ministry in Auckland, I got a mixed response. Some people were encouraging and supportive. Some couldn’t understand it and told me so. Others didn’t really care. Then there were one or two who, after I had left, said some things that were unkind and untrue. We can’t expect everyone to like us let alone understand or accept us.

The journey of faith is like a Wasgij puzzle. The picture we have in our mind beforehand is seldom, if ever, the same as the reality we end up experiencing. One strategy for handling suffering is managing our expectations. Another strategy is to think of suffering as evidence.            

Suffering is evidence

When we suffer in some way we tend to ask ourselves, why? Why is this happening to me? Why does this sort of thing happen to anyone?

If you are a person of faith, then your mind may take you down one of a number of different paths. If you have a sensitive conscience you might, for example, ask, ‘What have I done wrong? Is God angry with me? Am I being punished, is that why I’m suffering?’

On the other hand, you could go down another path in your mind and think to yourself, ‘This isn’t fair. God must have abandoned me. He doesn’t care.’

Or you might try to give meaning to your suffering by telling yourself, ‘This is character building. What doesn’t kill you makes you stronger.’

Peter’s first century audience were suffering injustice for their obedience to Christ and Peter offers a completely different way to think about it. Peter’s advice is not to think of suffering as a mystery or a problem to be solved. (Don’t go down that rabbit hole. You risk getting lost.) Instead think of suffering as evidence. In particular, suffering for Christ is evidence that the Spirit of God is with you. It’s also evidence that you belong to the household of God. From verse 14 Peter writes…

14 If you are insulted because of the name of Christ, you are blessed,for the Spirit of glory and of God rests on you.

Now when Peter says, if you are insulted for the name of Christ, you are blessed, he does not mean that suffering and insult are a blessing. They are not. Suffering and insult hurt. Under certain circumstances suffering can be character building but it is more likely to destroy character. It is more accurate to say that suffering reveals character. Suffering provides evidence of what a person is like on the inside.

In any case the blessing is not in the suffering. The blessing is in the presence of God’s Spirit. 

Suffering for Christ is no cause for guilt or shame. God is not punishing you. To the contrary, being insulted for the name of Christ is evidence of the Spirit of glory. Suffering injustice, in a noble way, is the prerequisite of glory.  

What’s more, suffering for your association with Jesus does not imply that God has abandoned you. Far from being abandoned, suffering for Christ is evidence of God’s presence. The Holy Spirit being the manifestation of God’s presence.

Most of you would have heard of the story of Goldilocks and the Three Bears. The thing that people seem to overlook about Goldie Locks is that she was a burglar, a vandal and a meddler. She broke into someone else’s house, ate their porridge, wreaked their furniture and messed up their beds. Being blonde and cute is no excuse for bad behavior. You have to ask yourself, what was a small child doing on her own in a bear’s house? I expect her family and friends told her to go and play in the woods because she was annoying them. 

The real heroes in this story are the three bears because (in one version of the story at least) they showed Christian love and forbearance to the delinquent child. Despite the bad reputation bears get in the media they didn’t eat her or take revenge in anyway. They didn’t even file a complaint with the police or try to press charges. They simply let Goldilocks go, cleaned up her mess and quietly got on with their lives.  

In verses 15 & 16 Peter makes it clear that not all suffering qualifies for the blessing of God’s Spirit. Peter says…

15 If you suffer, it should not be as a murderer or thief or any other kind of criminal, or even as a meddler. 16 However, if you suffer as a Christian, do not be ashamed, but praise God that you bear that name.

We all have a bit of Goldie Locks in us, don’t we. You know, we are not easily satisfied. We want things ‘just right’. It’s like Peter is saying, ‘Don’t be like Goldilocks. Be like the three bears’.

The label ‘Christian’ was not thought up by the followers of Jesus. The nickname ‘Christian’ was coined by unbelievers. It was not a term of endearment either. It was an insult. Like bears, Christians had a bad reputation. People hated them because they were different. Christians wouldn’t bow to idols or participate in pagan rituals.

To most people in the first century Christians were a detestable lot and lumped in the same category as criminals. Not because they broke any laws or did anything wrong. But simply because their religion was new and unusual.  

Peter’s point is that you cannot expect the blessing of God’s Spirit, the Spirit of glory, if you do things that are clearly wrong (like murder and theft). Nor can you expect God’s blessing if you do things that are simply annoying (like meddling in other people’s business). If someone suffers for being bad or foolish (like Goldilocks did) then they are not suffering according to God’s will; they are suffering by their own hand and deserve what they get.     

The suffering Peter has in mind is suffering for bearing the name of Christ. It is undeserved suffering, similar to what the bears endured as a result of Goldilocks’ visit. 

But wait, suffering provides even more evidence. Suffering for Christ now (in this life) proves you are part of the household of God and therefore will be saved in the long run. From verse 17 Peter writes…

17 For it is time for judgment to begin with God’s household;and if it begins with us, what will the outcome be for those who do not obey the gospel of God?

Judgment has become almost a swear word in the English language today. It has undertones of condemnation and punishment. However, there is more to God’s judgment than that. Judgment also includes the process of discerning or sorting or deciding. And that is probably the sense in which Peter is using the word in relation to God’s household.  

Peter is implying that the hostility his readers are experiencing is an integral part of God’s end-times judgment. [1] It has the effect of sorting out those who are loyal to Christ and those who are not. If it was too easy to obey Jesus everyone would do it and how would you know who was truly loyal.  

Everyone, whether they are a Christian or not, must face God’s judgment at some stage. Believers get judged first but if we remain loyal to Christ we do not need to fear. Suffering for Christ now is, in fact, evidence that you belong to God’s household and that is something to celebrate.

Okay, so Peter’s first two pieces of advice for handling suffering are:

Take the element of surprise out by managing your expectations, and

Don’t approach suffering as though it were a mystery to be solved, rather think of suffering as hard evidence that God is with you and for you.

Peter’s third piece of advice is, entrust yourself to God.

Entrust yourself to God

When you reach a certain age, or when you get married or when you have children, it is advisable to update your will. When you go to the solicitor they normally ask you who you would like to appoint as your power of attorney. And if you have children they want to know who you will entrust with the care of your children.

You go to the solicitor imagining it is going to be a quick appointment and you come away thinking who can I really trust with my children and my money? 

In verse 19 of chapter 4 Peter says quite plainly…

19 So then, those who suffer according to God’s willshould entrust themselves to their faithful Creator and continue to do good.

In the first Century they didn’t have banks like we do today. So if you wanted to go away for a while you had to find a friend (someone you trusted completely) to look after your life savings. You committed or entrusted your nest egg to that person and on your return they were honour bound to give it all back to you.

The Greek word Peter uses for entrust, in verse 19, is the technical word for depositing money with a trusted friend. It is the same word used by Jesus on the cross, in Luke 23:46, when he said: “Father, into your hands I commit (or entrust) my spirit.”  

Peter is saying, when we suffer according to God’s will (and not as a murderer or a thief or a meddler) we should entrust ourselves to our faithful Creator and continue to do good.

The implication is that God is a close friend to those who suffer according to his will; close enough to be your power of attorney and banker all rolled into one. Except it isn’t just your money you are entrusting to God. It is your reputation, your job, the rightness of your cause, your family and your very life you are placing in God’s hands.

Peter describes God here as a faithful Creator. This speaks of God’s trustworthiness and also his wisdom and power to make things new and to restore order to the world.

The message here is that we are not defined by what others say about us or do to us. Therefore, we do not need to waste our time and energy trying to justify ourselves to others. We have nothing to prove. God will vindicate us in the end. So we can invest our time and energy into doing good now.

Suffering drains life and vitality from you. Too much suffering is soul destroying; it weakens your character. Doing good, on the other hand, nourishes your soul; it affirms your identity in Christ and builds character.               

Conclusion:

This morning we have heard three pieces of advice, from Peter, for those who suffer for being a Christian.

Do not let suffering take you by surprise. Manage your expectations.

Do not try to solve the problem of suffering in some deep philosophical way. Instead think of suffering as hard evidence that God is with you and for you.

And thirdly, when you suffer injustice, entrust yourself to God and do those things that are good for you and good for others. In this way you will restore what the locusts have eaten.

May God give us the strength to remain loyal to Christ when our faith is tested and the grace to apply Peter’s advice when we suffer.

If you are going through a hard time at the moment and would like prayer, then there will be someone available to pray with you after the service at the front by the water cooler.

The musicians will lead us now in our closing hymn.  

Questions for discussion or reflection:

What stands out for you in reading this Scripture and/or in listening to the sermon? Why do you think this stood out to you?

  • Have you ever suffered because of your association with Christ? What happened and how did you feel?
  • How might we manage our expectations, without always thinking the worst?
  • When you suffer, what path does your mind go down? (E.g. do you think you are being punished or do you think God has abandoned you or do you think this is character building or something else?)
  • What difference does it make thinking of suffering for Christ as evidence that God is with you and for you? What is the blessing in being insulted for bearing the name of Christ?    
  • What does it mean to entrust yourself to God and do good? How might we do this? What good things can you do for yourself and others that will nourish your soul and build your character?

[1] Karen Jobes, Commentary on 1st Peter, page 292

Tawa Baptist

Lifestyle

Scripture: 1st Peter 4:7-11

Structure:

  • Introduction
  • Pray with clarity
  • Love with forbearance
  • Eat with others
  • Serve with faithfulness
  • Conclusion

Introduction:

Good morning everyone.

In 2010 a movie came out called Eat, Pray Love, based on a book by the same name.  I never got round to watching it so I can’t make any comment on its content but the title of the film connects in some ways with today’s Scripture reading.

This morning we pick up our series in the New Testament letter of 1st Peter, which we began last year. You may remember the apostle Peter was writing to encourage the fledging church in Asia Minor who, in the first century, were initially marginalized and then later persecuted for their faith in Jesus.     

We continue our series in 1st Peter from chapter 4, verses 7-11. In this passage Peter instructs his readers to pray, love, eat and serve. From verse 7 of chapter 4 we read…

7 The end of all things is near.Therefore, be clear minded and self-controlledso that you can pray. 8 Above all, love each other earnestly,because love covers over a multitude of sins. 9 Offer hospitalityto one another without grumbling. 10 Each of you should use whatever gift you have received to serve others,as faithfulstewards of God’s grace in its various forms. 11 If anyone speaks, they should do so as one who speaks the very words of God.If anyone serves, they should do so with the strength God provides,so that in all things God may be praised through Jesus Christ. To him be the glory and the power for ever and ever. Amen.

May the Spirit of Jesus illuminate God’s word for us.

Apart from being the title of a book and a movie, Eat, Pray, Love, sounds like good general lifestyle advice. It speaks of finding a healthy balance for your whole self, body & soul. Peter’s advice, in chapter 4, isn’t exactly the same though. The priority order is different. It’s not Eat, Pray, Love but rather Pray, Love, Eat and Serve. Peter starts with prayer. In essence he says, pray with clarity.         

Pray with clarity:

School has started back for many this past week and with it homework and assignments. One way or another we all tend to be motivated by a deadline or a goal to aim for. Some people like to get organized a long way in advance and others become more motivated as the date for handing in the assignment gets closer.

When we were at University, Robyn used to sit down at her type writer and smash out an essay the night before it was due. This was before we could afford a computer. Every time, without fail, she would get an A. It was astonishing.

When I asked her how she did it Robyn explained that for about two weeks beforehand she would lie awake at night organizing the ideas in her head. Then at the last minute, when she was clear in her mind what she wanted to say, she typed it all out.

My process is a bit different to that. I can’t hold too many things in my mind at the same time. In fact, it is in the process of writing that ideas and clarity come. Writing unblocks my mind in a way.

In verse 7 of chapter 4 Peter says: The end of all things is near.Therefore, be clear minded and self-controlledso that you can pray.   

‘The end of all things’ refers to the goal of salvation history. The nearness of the end is defined by Christ’s resurrection. [1] The resurrection of Jesus is the motivation to get your act together so you can pray with clarity. That is, with a clear mind and self-control.  

When we are young we imagine we can do almost everything because we have energy to burn and time is on our side. But as we get older we begin to realise that we don’t have all the time in the world to achieve everything we had hoped. So, in mid-life, we feel the need to prioritize. We say to ourselves, I may only have 15-20 good years left. What’s important to me, what’s the goal here, and how am I going to spend that precious time?

There’s nothing like a funeral to give you clarity. As the end draws near we become more clear minded, more focused, about what we need to do with our lives.

This is not to imply that we are to be reckless or careless, far from it. When the great reformer Martin Luther was asked what he would do if the end were to come today, he replied that he would plant a tree and pay his taxes. Planting a tree is something you do for the future and paying your taxes is about meeting your obligations in the present. ‘Luther meant that he lived every day in light of the end and hence he would do the appointed task of that day.’ [2]

Stepping back and taking a broader look at the arc of human history, Jesus’ coming (2000 years ago) signals a kind of mid-life crisis for humanity. Peter is saying, given where we stand in history (in relation to Jesus’ resurrection), we need to get some clarity on what really matters and therefore what to give our lives to. And we need to pray; we need to talk about this with God, because God stands on both sides of the divide.

Prayer isn’t just asking God for stuff in this life. Prayer is primarily about strengthening our relationship with God, by communicating with him. Prayer, in that sense, helps us in this life and the next.

Okay, so that’s the first thing Peter says: understand where you are in relation to the end goal, get things clear in your mind and pray. Pray with clarity.

The next thing is love – love with forbearance.

Love with forbearance

When you cook a roast dinner it always pays to make plenty of gravy. If you don’t quite get the timing right, if you over cook the meat so it dries out, then covering it with gravy saves the dinner. 

In verse 8 Peter writes: Above all, love each other earnestly,because love covers over a multitude of sins.

Now the kind of love that is in view here is not an emotional warm fuzzy feeling, like falling in love. It is deeper than that. The love in view here is a thoughtful commitment to the well-being of others, even when they irritate you. Love, in this context, means treating others in the Christian community in a way that takes care of relationships. It is an earnest love that persists despite little rubs and difficulties.

If our relationships in the church together are like a roast dinner, then earnest love is like the gravy; it covers over a multitude of sins.

This does not mean that if we love others God will forgive or cover our sins. No, our sins were taken care of by Jesus on the cross. Nor is Peter saying that serious sin in the church should be ignored or denied or covered up. [3] Rather sin needs to be dealt with in a way that sets people free to live righteous lives.  

Peter is probably drawing on Proverbs 10:12 which says: Hatred stirs up dissension but love covers over all wrongs.

The point seems to be that when we love someone we don’t allow the little irritations to create a rift or bitterness between us.

In the church hall kitchen, we have a fire blanket. If something catches alight, you can throw the fire blanket over the flames and it suffocates the fire. Love covers sins sort of like a fire blanket covers flames and extinguishers the fire before it gets out of control. Love suffocates sin to stop it from spreading.

Or, to use another metaphor, you might go out for lunch with someone and when it comes time to pay they realise they have left their wallet behind. Because you love the person (because you care about the relationship more than money) you don’t give way to irritation but quietly cover the cost for them, without making a fuss. Love covers over a multitude of sins.

Quite a lot of the tensions we experience in our relationships, whether in the church or at work or school or in the home, aren’t actually sins. They are merely differences in personality or simple misunderstandings.

For example, some people like to be organized well in advance. Others are real last minute, seat of your pants types. It’s not a sin to be last minute but it can be irritating to those who like to have things settled days beforehand. Personality differences like this can be covered or overlooked with earnest love.

Many years ago, before we lived in Tawa, we had some friends over to our house. I happened to be folding towels at the time, putting the washing away, and one of our friends pointed out that I was doing it all wrong. Apparently my towel folding was offensive (or at least mildly irritating) to her. It didn’t bother me, nor was it sinful. It just wasn’t worth getting into an argument about. So I waited until she left and folded the washing in my own unique (Will) way.

An ounce of prevention is better than a pound of repair. Earnest love prevents those little irritations from getting a foothold and turning into full blown sins.  

Some of you may remember JP. JP passed away a couple of years ago but when he was alive I would sometimes visit him at his home in W. On more than one occasion, as men are inclined to do, we ended up talking in his shed. JP’s garden tools, his spade and trowel especially, were quite old and well used but he always kept them pristine and gleaming.

A coastal environment can be quite corrosive on metal tools but JP prevented any rust by always washing his tools after he had used them and then applying a thin coat of oil on the exposed metal.

Love that covers all wrongs is like the oil on JP’s tools. The oil of love actually protects relationships from corrosion and prevents sin from getting a foothold in the first place.         

Pray with clarity, love with forbearance and eat with others.

Eat with others

To be more accurate, Peter doesn’t literally say, ‘Eat with others’. He says offer hospitality to one another, or as the Good News translation puts it, open your homes to each other without complaining. Eating with others is of course something that normally accompanies the offer of hospitality.

In practical terms hospitality could mean giving people a meal or a bed for the night. But at a deeper level hospitality is about making room for people, creating a comfortable space for others, where they can feel safe to be themselves. In this deeper sense, making space to listen to others is one of the primary expressions of hospitality.   

In the context of the first century, hospitality was essential to the survival of the church. Missionaries and apostles relied on the hospitality of others as they travelled around preaching the gospel. The person who delivered Peter’s letter to the churches in Asia Minor would also have trusted the Christian community to give him a bed for the night.

Not only that but the early church didn’t have dedicated buildings for gathered worship. People used to meet in one another’s homes. It was a house church arrangement, sort of like when we were in level 2 lockdown and small groups of you got together for on-line services in each other’s living rooms.

For most of Jesus’ ministry he and his disciples were guests in other people’s homes. Luke 10 famously describes Jesus’ stay in the home of Mary and Martha. Martha became upset because she was left to do all the house work by herself while Mary sat at Jesus’ feet. Poor Martha was too frazzled to see that Mary was showing a greater form of hospitality by making space to listen to Jesus. Jesus defended Mary, without condemning Martha. 

Jesus wasn’t always the guest though. He showed hospitality to others as well. Jesus made himself available. He created a safe space in and around himself. He fed people with the word of God and he restored lost souls.

Jesus took the role of host on a number of occasions, most notably when he fed the multitudes in the wilderness and at the last supper when he washed the disciples’ feet. In some traditions the priest actually calls the communion bread ‘the host’ because it represents Christ’s body. When we share communion, Jesus is the host and we are his guests.

Hospitality, when it is preceded by prayer and love, creates the opportunity for intimacy and intimacy dissolves loneliness.

Pray, love, eat and serve. Servewith faithfulness.  

Serve with faithfulness

In verse 10 of chapter 4 Peter writes:

Each of you should use whatever gift you have received to serve others,as faithfulstewards of God’s grace in its various forms.

A steward is a manager. Management or stewardship is about the effective and efficient use of resources. In this case the resources are the gift God has given you. To be a faithful manager, one must be thoughtful and diligent.

The thing about being a manager is that you don’t own the resource yourself. Someone else owns it and you are responsible for taking care of it and making the most of it. That means being clear in your own mind about what the purpose of the gift is and discerning in the way you use it.

Let me tell you a story to illustrate what it means to be a faithful manager.

Once, in the days before electricity and automation, there was a lighthouse keeper who had but one job – to keep the lamp burning at night so ships could find their way and not come aground on the rocks.

The lighthouse keeper was given an allowance of oil as fuel for the lamp. Each week he received a new batch of oil, just enough to keep the lamp of the lighthouse burning for seven nights until a new batch came. He could not afford to spare any oil or the lamp would go out.

One day a travelling merchant came by and asked the lighthouse keeper to sell him some oil at a fair price. But the lighthouse keeper refused and the merchant went away complaining about how unreasonable the lighthouse keeper was.

The next day a farmer came and asked to borrow some oil for the wheels of his wagon. But the lighthouse keeper refused and the farmer went away grumbling about how mean spirited the lighthouse keeper was.

Then on Saturday the minister of the local church came by asking for oil for the evening service the next day. But the lighthouse keeper refused him too and the minister went away to preach a vigorous sermon on the evils of greed.

The following day a poor widow came and asked the lighthouse keeper for some oil for her stove, because her children were hungry and her house was cold. The lighthouse keeper made an exception for her but he didn’t touch the oil set aside for the lighthouse lamp. Instead he gave her oil from his own stove and went hungry himself that night. He only had one condition: that she didn’t tell anyone.

Every day someone came wanting oil for some good reason or other and, except for the poor widow, the lighthouse keeper turned them all away empty handed. The lighthouse keeper remained faithful to his calling, always keeping the lamp lit.       

One night the merchant, the farmer and the minister all found themselves on a ship off the coast of where they lived. As they sat together, each with a glass of brandy in hand, complaining about the lighthouse keeper and the price of oil, a strong wind picked up and the seas began to swell.

Thick clouds blotted out the moon and stars, casting a heavy darkness over the sea and their thoughts. How would the captain find the harbour? How would he avoid the rocks? The conversation grew quiet.

Just then they saw it – the slow arc of the lighthouse keeper’s beacon, reaching out its giant arm of hope. Now they understood why the lighthouse keeper refused them oil. Now they were thankful. Never again would they say a word against the lighthouse keeper.

The ship made it safely to shore and over the next few days the three men put things right. The merchant brought a gift of oil to the lighthouse keeper for his stove. The farmer left ham and eggs on the lighthouse keeper’s door step and the minister preached a sermon on ‘Jesus the light of the world’, giving thanks for the keeper of our souls.           

What I like about this story is that it shows us we don’t have to be all things to all people. We are each given oil (a particular gift from God) in some form another. Our job is to be faithful managers of that oil, clear minded about the purpose of our gift and discerning about how best to use it in service to others.    

From verse 11 of chapter 4 Peter continues…

If anyone speaks, they should do so as one who speaks the very words of God.If anyone serves, they should do so with the strength God provides,so that in all things God may be praised through Jesus Christ.

Peter is saying here that we have all been given a different gift from God. Our job is to be faithful managers of what God has entrusted to us. We are not to hoard our gift or hide it away. Nor are we to waste it or treat it cheaply. We are to be thoughtful in how we make the most of it in service to others.    

If God’s gifts to us are like water, then we are like a smart tap. A tap that knows when to turn on and when to turn off. We don’t produce the water ourselves, God does that. Our job is to release the water when it is needed. We don’t leave the tap running unnecessarily. Nor do we shut off the water supply altogether. We give drink to the thirsty and cleansing to the filthy.  

You may have heard me compare preaching to making a cup of tea. If the sermon is the tea, then the preacher is the tea pot. God puts the tea bags and hot water of his word into the preacher and lets it brew during the week. It is not comfortable for the preacher but it is necessary to the process. Then, on a Sunday, the preacher pours the tea. (Biblical preaching is one form of God’s hospitality for you.)

The purpose of our faithful service is that God may be praised through Jesus Christ. God gives a meaning and dignity to our service of others which makes it all worthwhile. Like the townsfolk in the story of the lighthouse keeper, people may not appreciate the way you manage the gift God has given you. But you are not doing it just for them. You are doing it primarily for God.     

Conclusion

Today’s passage ends with a doxology,

To him be the glory and the power for ever and ever. Amen.

A doxology is a short hymn of praise to God, a declaration of his glory.

A declaration of God’s glory often follows the contemplation of his gifts.      

Pray, love, eat and serve. This is Peter’s lifestyle advice for his readers.

What we notice with these practices is that they are ordinary everyday things. There are no grand gestures in view here, just small things done with great love.

In a few minutes we will share communion together.

Communion is a time to pray, love, eat and serve.

The musicians will come now to lead us in song as we prepare our hearts.

We love him because he first loved us…

Communion

If you would like prayer there will be someone available to pray with you after this morning’s service, at the front by the water cooler.   

Questions for discussion or reflection:

What stands out for you in reading this Scripture and/or in listening to the sermon? Why do you think this stood out to you?

  • What helps you to be ready and able to pray? How does a clear mind and self-control support prayer?
  • What would you do if the end were to come today?
  • What does Peter mean by ‘earnest love’, in verse 8? What does he mean when he says, ‘love covers over a multitude of sins’?  
  • Why is hospitality important to the Christian community? What is at the heart of true hospitality? How did Jesus practice hospitality? How do you practice hospitality?
  • What gift has God given you? What is the purpose of this gift? How are you managing the gift/grace God has entrusted you with?
  • Take some time to reflect on Peter’s four pieces of lifestyle advice: pray, love, eat and serve. Which of these do you sense needs your attention?  

[1] Refer Karen Jobes’ commentary on 1st Peter, page 275.

[2] Refer Thomas Schreiner’s commentary on 1st Peter, page 211.  

[3] Refer Karen Jobes’ commentary on 1st Peter, page 279.