Persuasion

Scripture: Acts 17:1-10

Video Link: https://youtu.be/Y-PupQ_mVz8

Structure:

  • Introduction
  • Persuasion
  • Protest
  • Persistence
  • Conclusion

Introduction:

Good morning everyone.

One of the things that distinguishes human beings from animals is language. Unlike animals, people are able to communicate using words.

In some ways though, words have become cheap for many people in the western world today. We are bombarded with words in advertising, at work, on TV and the internet. With all the noise and confusion around words and their meaning, we may find ourselves longing for the oxygen of silence.

Words may have become cheap for us but, in the thought world of the Bible, words carry real power.

Today we begin a new sermon series in Paul’s words to the Thessalonians. Paul wrote two letters to the Thessalonians but, before we start into the letters themselves, we are going to take a closer look at Acts 17, which describes how the Thessalonian church got started.  

In Acts 17 we hear about the power of words for good and for harm. From verse 1 we read…  

When Paul and his companions had passed through Amphipolis and Apollonia, they came to Thessalonica, where there was a Jewish synagogue. As was his custom, Paul went into the synagogue, and on three Sabbath days he reasoned with them from the Scriptures, explaining and proving that the Messiah had to suffer and rise from the dead. “This Jesus I am proclaiming to you is the Messiah,” he said. Some of the Jews were persuaded and joined Paul and Silas, as did a large number of God-fearing Greeks and quite a few prominent women. But other Jews were jealous; so they rounded up some bad characters from the marketplace, formed a mob and started a riot in the city. They rushed to Jason’s house in search of Paul and Silas in order to bring them out to the crowd. But when they did not find them, they dragged Jason and some other believers before the city officials, shouting: “These men who have caused trouble all over the world have now come here, and Jason has welcomed them into his house. They are all defying Caesar’s decrees, saying that there is another king, one called Jesus.” When they heard this, the crowd and the city officials were thrown into turmoil. Then they made Jason and the others post bond and let them go. 10 As soon as it was night, the believers sent Paul and Silas away to Berea. On arriving there, they went to the Jewish synagogue.

May the Spirit of Jesus illuminate God’s word for us.

Acts 17, written by Luke, describes Paul & Silas’ experience in the city of Thessalonica. Three things we note. Paul’s mission work is characterised by persuasion, protest and persistence. Let’s start with Paul’s words of persuasion.

Persuasion:

Do you know those toys, for small children, where the child has to fit different shaped blocks through the corresponding shaped hole? There’s no way an oblong block is going to fit through a square hole. You can’t force the blocks.

First, you find the right shape to match the right hole and then you adjust the position of the block so that it lines up correctly. Once you’ve done that the block fits easily.

Persuasion is bit like that. The box that receives the shapes is sort of like the human heart or mind and the shapes that fit into the box are like pieces of the gospel message; ideas and beliefs.

You can’t force someone to accept or believe something that doesn’t fit for them. You have to understand the shape of the person’s heart & mind and then position the idea or belief in a way that person can accept.

Paul understood this. Paul did not coerce or manipulate people into accepting the gospel about Jesus. As verse 4 of Acts 17 tells us, Paul persuaded people.

Paul thought about the shape of his listeners’ hearts & minds and presented the gospel message in a way they could receive, without compromising or changing the gospel and without damaging his listeners’ hearts.

Thessalonica was the capital city of the province of Macedonia. Verse 2 of Acts 17 tells us that Paul went to the synagogue as was his custom. The synagogue was like the local place of worship for people of Jewish faith living in that area.

On the Sabbath (a Saturday) people came together in the synagogue for prayers and singing psalms and hearing the Hebrew Bible (what we know as the Old Testament) read aloud and expounded.

It was Paul’s custom to go the Jewish synagogue on the Sabbath because he had done that all his life. While the Jewish faith is not exactly the same as the Christian faith, the two hold quite a bit in common. The Christian faith grew out of the Jewish faith. The very first Christians were Jews.

From a mission strategy point of view, it made good sense for Paul to preach the gospel of Jesus in the synagogue because the people were starting with a shared understanding of God. This shared understanding included, for example, the belief that there is only one God, the creator of all there is. And he is just and merciful.  

Although Luke tells us Paul talked about Jesus in the synagogue over the course of three Sabbaths, this does not exclude the probability that Paul also talked about Jesus in people’s homes and the market place during the other days of the week. Luke’s account is not a comprehensive report of Paul’s activities. It’s more of a highlights reel.

What we notice in these verses is the way Paul went about persuading people to believe in Jesus’ death and resurrection. Paul understood better than anyone how difficult it was for Jews to believe that Jesus was the Messiah, when Jesus had been crucified.

The idea of a crucified Messiah was a key piece of the gospel that didn’t fit easily with the Jewish mind-set. To suggest that God’s Messiah had to suffer and die on a cross was like trying to fit a square peg through a round hole.

The Hebrew Scriptures carried authority for the Jews and so Paul reasoned with them from the Scriptures, explaining and proving that the Messiah had to suffer and rise from the dead. 

Reason, explanation and evidence were key tools in Paul’s toolbox of persuasion. We can easily imagine Paul using passages like Isaiah 53, which predicted the suffering of the Messiah, as a way of proving that Jesus had to suffer and rise from the dead. Isaiah 53 reads…

10 Yet it was the Lord’s will to crush him and cause him to suffer, and though the Lord makeshis life an offering for sin, he will see his offspring and prolong his days, and the will of the Lord will prosper in his hand. 11 After he has suffered, he will see the light of lifeand be satisfied;

Verse 11 is talking about resurrection after death you see. Isaiah continues…

by his knowledge my righteous servant will justify many, and he will bear their iniquities. 12 Therefore I will give him a portion among the great, and he will divide the spoils with the strong, because he poured out his life unto death, and was numbered with the transgressors. For he bore the sin of many, and made intercession for the transgressors.  

Isaiah 53 fits for Jesus, the suffering Messiah.  

While it is Paul’s persuasive preaching that Luke highlights in Acts 17, it wasn’t just Paul’s words alone that convinced people to believe in Jesus.

As Paul himself writes in First Thessalonians chapter 1, verse 5…

…our gospel came to you not simply with words but also with power, with the Holy Spirit and deep conviction. You know how we lived among you for your sake.       

This tells us the Thessalonian believers were persuaded not just by Paul’s words but also by Paul & Silas’ example (their lifestyle and deeds).

More importantly though, the Thessalonians were persuaded by the power of the Holy Spirit. The Spirit of Jesus is a Spirit of truth and grace. The Holy Spirit works in our heart and mind to create the right shaped opening to receive the gospel message, with deep conviction. God’s Spirit enables us to recognise when something is true.

Paul was mindful of his listeners, in the way he presented the gospel message, but he also recognised that ultimately the effectiveness of his message depended more on God’s Spirit than anything else.

Returning to Acts 17. Verse 4, tells us of three groups of people who were persuaded and joined Paul & Silas. In other words, they became followers of Jesus. These groups included Jews, God fearing Greeks and many prominent women.

We might pass over that without thinking much of it, but it’s actually quite illuminating. These days Paul gets quite a bit of criticism for what he writes in relation to women. Paul’s thinking may be misunderstood by people today but the fact that many prominent women responded positively to Paul’s presentation of the gospel strongly suggests that the women of the first century quite liked what Paul had to say.

Protest:

Not everyone liked Paul’s words though. Some of the Jews were not persuaded. In fact, some were so jealous at Paul’s success in winning converts that they organised a protest against Paul & Silas. The jealous ones formed a mob and started a riot. What happened next mirrored (in some ways) Jesus’ experience.     

They rushed to Jason’s house in search of Paul and Silas in order to bring them out to the crowd. But when they did not find them, they dragged Jason and some other believers before the city officials, shouting: “These men who have caused trouble all over the world have now come here, and Jason has welcomed them into his house. They are all defying Caesar’s decrees, saying that there is another king, one called Jesus.”

There are few things less trustworthy than a crowd. The organisers of the protest were basically accusing Paul & Silas of high treason. In today’s terms it would be similar to saying they were terrorists. The accusation was untrue and unfair.   

We are reminded here, of Jesus’ words in Matthew 10…

32 “Whoever acknowledges me before others, I will also acknowledge before my Father in heaven. 33 But whoever disowns me before others, I will disown before my Father in heaven. 34 “Do not suppose that I have come to bring peace to the earth. I did not come to bring peace, but a sword.

Jesus is not promoting war or violence. He is not talking in military or political terms. He is talking in spiritual terms. The point here is that there is no sitting on the fence with Jesus. You have to choose which side you are on, spiritually speaking. And there are real consequences to the choice you make. 

Jason made the choice to show hospitality to Paul & Silas. The eternal (unseen) consequence of this was that Jason was joined to Christ, destined to share in Jesus’ glory. The temporal (felt) consequence, for Jason, was finding himself at the sharp end of a protest and legal action.

When they heard this, the crowd and the city officials were thrown into turmoil. Then they made Jason and the others post bond and let them go.

In other words, the magistrates put a legal obligation on Jason and the other Christian believers to get Paul & Silas to leave town. If Paul & Silas stayed, then Jason and the other believers would face some kind of penalty like losing their homes or going to prison.

Paul & Silas did not want Jason and the new believers to come to harm so they left quietly in the night, without making a fuss. 

Some years ago I worked in a cycle and mower shop. At times we came across nuts and bolts that were seized together with rust and age. If you tried to force the nut off, you ran the risk of breaking the bolt or slipping and skinning your knuckles.

As Aesop once said, it is better to use persuasion, rather than force. Most of the time you can persuade a rusty nut to come off with patience and a squirt of CRC, no damage done.

The jealous ones, who organised the protest against Paul, did not use reason or truth to persuade the authorities. They used lies and fear. They twisted the facts and manipulated the situation so that Paul & Silas were forced to leave. The problem with using force is that it usually has unintended consequences.

Those who were out to get Paul unintentionally promoted the spread of the gospel. By organising a protest against Paul & Silas, pretty much everyone in the city became aware of Jesus.

Now, it is thought that Thessalonica had a population of about 200,000 people in the first century. At least some of those 200,000 people would have become curious to learn more about Jesus.

Without intending to, the protest organisers actually gave weight and credibility to Paul’s message. They signalled to everyone that the gospel and the name of Jesus is a powerful thing that should be taken seriously.

The gospel is powerful but not in the way the authorities feared. God has a sense of humour. Less than 300 years later the emperor would become a Christian.

One other unintended consequence of the protest was the strengthening of the new believers’ faith.

After a potter has shaped the clay into the vessel they want (a bowl or a cup), they then put the soft clay into a kiln to be fired. The heat of the kiln sets the clay and makes the vessel strong.

By putting heat on Jason and the other believers and dragging them before the authorities, the protest organisers actually made the new believers’ faith stronger. Having suffered for their new found faith, Paul’s converts were more resolved to stick with Jesus.       

Reading between the lines of Acts 17 we see that God has a way of working adverse circumstances for good.

Persistence:

This pattern of persuasive preaching followed by strong protest was not unique to the city of Thessalonica. Time and again (in the book of Acts) Paul and his friends had to flee from one city to the next.

Which brings us to the third ‘P’ in today’s message: persistence. Paul was relentlessly persistent in persuading people to receive Jesus.

Persistence is about never giving up. We see Paul’s persistence in the wider context of Acts.

Before arriving in Thessalonica, Paul had been preaching the gospel in Philippi. With the help of the Holy Spirit, Paul managed to persuade a small group of people to believe in Jesus, including Lydia (the seller of purple cloth). But it wasn’t long before someone protested against Paul and he found himself being flogged and thrown in prison.

Once they had been released from prison in Philippi, Paul and Silas didn’t give up. They carried on, making the 100-mile journey (probably on foot) to Thessalonica, where they were forced to leave again for the next town, Berea. Fortunately, Paul’s reception in Berea was more positive.

Paul’s persistence paid off. As someone once observed, ‘Water cuts through rock, not because of its power, but because of its persistence.’

Of course, even persistence has its limits. The goal is not to be so stubborn that we never give in. The goal is to be sensitive to the leading of the Holy Spirit, that we may go the distance in God’s will for us.

Conclusion:

So what do these three P’s (persuasion, protest and persistence) mean for us as Christian believers today?

Well, persuasion has a number of points of application…

Before we can persuade anyone else that Jesus died and rose from the dead, we must first be persuaded of Jesus’ resurrection ourselves. We must know what it is we believe about Jesus, with deep conviction, and hold to it.

Persuasion also requires us to be respectful of others who have different beliefs from us. What may seem simple and straight forward to you may be incredibly difficult for someone else to accept.

It does no good to force our beliefs on other people. Like Paul, we need to be ready to speak about our faith with gentleness and an understanding of how the other person thinks, trusting the Holy Spirit to create the right shaped opening in their heart and mind.    

We must not be surprised or discouraged by protests against what we believe. When you become a Christian, you choose a side, spiritually speaking. You are not likely to be driven out of town, like Paul was. But there is a good chance you will be misunderstood and misrepresented if you identify yourself as a Christian.

Don’t take it personally. It’s not really about you. The Christian message has often been unpopular and met with resistance. Take heart. God is more than able to use the efforts of those who protest against him for good.

Finally, we must persist in our witness for Jesus. Sometimes that will mean quietly going about our lives, letting our actions speak for us. Other times that will mean proclaiming aloud our deepest convictions about Jesus. Whatever happens, hold to Christ and be sensitive to the leading of the Holy Spirit.   

Let us pray…

Lord Jesus, help us to know you more deeply, to love you more dearly and to share you more freely, with the help of your Holy Spirit. Amen.

Questions for discussion or reflection:

What stands out for you in reading this Scripture and/or in listening to the sermon? Why do you think this stood out to you?

  • The Jews of Paul’s day struggled to accept the idea of a crucified Messiah. How were they persuaded to believe in Jesus?
  • Are there any aspects of the gospel message that you have found difficult to accept? How did you come to accept these aspects? (Who, or what, persuaded you?)
  • Verse 4 (of Acts 17) tells us a number of Jews, God fearing Greeks and prominent women were persuaded to accept Jesus after listening to Paul. What does this indicate to you?
  • What were the consequences for Jason in providing hospitality to Paul & Silas and accepting Jesus? What are the consequences for you personally in accepting Jesus?
  • How did God use the protest, against Paul & Silas, for good?
  • How do you think Paul & Silas might have felt meeting resistance in preaching the gospel and having to flee to the next city? Why do you think they persisted?
  • Take some time this week to prayerfully reflect on the points of application in the conclusion (above). Is there any point of application in particular you feel a deep conviction about? What is the Spirit saying to you? 

Acceptable Worship (Ewan)

History

The early church faced many problems in presenting the gospel message.  Judaism was a barely known religion in the Roman empire, restricted to a fairly small group of people of Hebrew descent in Palestine.  It was unknown elsewhere and of no concern to those that knew of it.  Christianity was new, and even though it was related to Judaism it was a complete unknown.  What strange activities Christian converts might indulge in was a matter of speculation and even slander among those who became aware of it.

Imagine then the attitude of a new convert in those days.  They have heard the gospel message, that God (the only true God) loves us so much that He sent His Son Jesus to die so that we might be reconciled to Him.  And the proof that Jesus was the Son of God was that Jesus was raised from death!  Once they came to believe this, how should they live their life?  What did God expect them to do?  How should they worship God?  Other religions of the day featured sacrifices, and even orgies.  Did God want those?

Micah was one of the prophets who tried to set Israel straight on worshipping God.  He said: He has showed you, O man, what is good. And what does the Lord require of you? To act justly and to love mercy and to walk humbly with your God.” (Micah 6:8)

However, the early church had relatively few who knew the Jewish scriptures.  And the Jews were poor examples in their worship.  Despite many efforts by the prophets, Israel repeatedly failed to meet God’s requirements.

Paul spent a lot of his time and writings trying to explain what the Christian life meant.  He emphasised love as the guiding principle as in 1 Cor 13.  If God loved us so much, then we should show love to others.  For Jews, this went back to the second commandment “You shall love your neighbour”.  Jesus also taught that your “neighbour” was anyone you may encounter, with the story of the good Samaritan.  Your neighbour’s appearance or beliefs are not important, but their need is.

Christian teaching

So how did this work in the church?  In his letter to the Galatians, Paul pointed out that (Gal 3: 26-29):

“You are all sons of God through faith in Christ Jesus, 27 for all of you who were baptized into Christ have clothed yourselves with Christ. 28 There is neither Jew nor Greek, slave nor free, male nor female, for you are all one in Christ Jesus. 29 If you belong to Christ, then you are Abraham’s seed, and heirs according to the promise.”

Clearly then our lives and worship should reflect our attitude to other Christians in particular, because we are all one in Christ. 

This teaching made a difference, but even today we see Christians who do not put it into practice.  Our Old Testament shows that loving your neighbour was never a guiding principle for the Jews over the centuries since the commandments were given, and mankind does not practice it readily today.  Christians find it hard to regard all Christians as one in Christ regardless of status or sex, let alone treat non-Christians as neighbours.  For that matter, Christians are not all in agreement as to what constitutes a Christian, because we cannot know the heart as God does.  Agreeing how to treat those who are not Christian is a step further.

James tackled one aspect of this weakness in his letter.  He said (James 2:1-4):

My brothers, as believers in our glorious Lord Jesus Christ, don’t show favoritism. 2 Suppose a man comes into your meeting wearing a gold ring and fine clothes, and a poor man in shabby clothes also comes in. 3 If you show special attention to the man wearing fine clothes and say, “Here’s a good seat for you,” but say to the poor man, “You stand there” or “Sit on the floor by my feet,” 4 have you not discriminated among yourselves and become judges with evil thoughts?”  

Between them, James and Paul dealt quite firmly with discrimination between Christians.  Paul demolished the foundation of discrimination by pointing out that Christians are all one in Christ.  James took a specific example of discrimination and pointed out how wrong it was.  Living lives that reflect these points is another matter!

Jesus, however, had gone further.  In his story of the good Samaritan, he told us that anyone who is in need is our neighbor.  You see, Jews and Samaritans were enemies and normally would go out of their way to avoid each other.  Yet Jesus talked about a Samaritan who was prepared to see a Jew as his neighbor in need, and helped him.  The Jews who heard him would rather restrict the definition of neighbour to a more comfortable group.

We are not neighbors only to Christians.  Jesus taught that anyone in need is our neighbour, and challenges us today to meet their needs.

The why

The reason we find it hard to follow the teaching of Paul and James, let alone Jesus teaching, is because of our limitations.  The only person we can know really well is ourselves, and to each of us comes a bit of self-belief that says that we – and our ideas – are always “right”.  We look at others and see their outward appearance, words and behaviour, and we base our opinions of them on those.  And they have “different” ideas from us that are probably “wrong”!

However, God does not look on our outward appearance.  He is not concerned about whether we are smartly dressed, male or female or even clean.  He sees our heart.  If our heart truly belongs to Him, then we are one of His “sons” – as Paul puts it.  John records Jesus saying:

“John 4:23 23 Yet a time is coming and has now come when the true worshipers will worship the Father in spirit and truth, for they are the kind of worshipers the Father seeks. 24 God is spirit, and his worshipers must worship in spirit and in truth.”

If we worship God in spirit, our outward appearance is not important.  God wants our love and worship to come from our heart, not from our appearance.  If our heart belongs to Him, then our worship is acceptable to Him and our appearance is of no concern.

There is an Old Testament story that illustrates this point further, when David welcomed the ark of the covenant into Jerusalem. (2 Samuel 6 16-23)

12 Now King David was told, “The Lord has blessed the household of Obed-Edom and everything he has, because of the ark of God.” So David went down and brought up the ark of God from the house of Obed-Edom to the City of David with rejoicing. 13 When those who were carrying the ark of the Lord had taken six steps, he sacrificed a bull and a fattened calf. 14 David, wearing a linen ephod, danced before the Lord with all his might, 15 while he and the entire house of Israel brought up the ark of the Lord with shouts and the sound of trumpets.

16 As the ark of the Lord was entering the City of David, Michal daughter of Saul watched from a window. And when she saw King David leaping and dancing before the Lord, she despised him in her heart.

17 They brought the ark of the Lord and set it in its place inside the tent that David had pitched for it, and David sacrificed burnt offerings and fellowship offerings before the Lord. 18 After he had finished sacrificing the burnt offerings and fellowship offerings, he blessed the people in the name of the Lord Almighty. 19 Then he gave a loaf of bread, a cake of dates and a cake of raisins to each person in the whole crowd of Israelites, both men and women. And all the people went to their homes.

20 When David returned home to bless his household, Michal daughter of Saul came out to meet him and said, “How the king of Israel has distinguished himself today, disrobing in the sight of the slave girls of his servants as any vulgar fellow would!”

21 David said to Michal, “It was before the Lord, who chose me rather than your father or anyone from his house when he appointed me ruler over the Lord’s people Israel—I will celebrate before the Lord. 22 I will become even more undignified than this, and I will be humiliated in my own eyes. But by these slave girls you spoke of, I will be held in honor.”

Personally I take my hat off to David.  If I were to leap and dance in my worship, you would think I was crazy, and I would probably fall over.  But David’s heart belonged to God.

Let’s look again at James in more detail (James 2:1-13):

“My brothers, as believers in our glorious Lord Jesus Christ, don’t show favoritism. 2 Suppose a man comes into your meeting wearing a gold ring and fine clothes, and a poor man in shabby clothes also comes in. 3 If you show special attention to the man wearing fine clothes and say, “Here’s a good seat for you,” but say to the poor man, “You stand there” or “Sit on the floor by my feet,” 4 have you not discriminated among yourselves and become judges with evil thoughts?

5 Listen, my dear brothers: Has not God chosen those who are poor in the eyes of the world to be rich in faith and to inherit the kingdom he promised those who love him? 6 But you have insulted the poor. Is it not the rich who are exploiting you? Are they not the ones who are dragging you into court? 7 Are they not the ones who are slandering the noble name of him to whom you belong?

8 If you really keep the royal law found in Scripture, “Love your neighbor as yourself,” you are doing right. 9 But if you show favoritism, you sin and are convicted by the law as lawbreakers. 10 For whoever keeps the whole law and yet stumbles at just one point is guilty of breaking all of it. 11 For he who said, “Do not commit adultery,” also said, “Do not murder.” If you do not commit adultery but do commit murder, you have become a lawbreaker.

12 Speak and act as those who are going to be judged by the law that gives freedom, 13 because judgment without mercy will be shown to anyone who has not been merciful. Mercy triumphs over judgment! “

James is pretty strong in his comments.  He bases his comments on the second commandment “love your neighbor as yourself”, just as Jesus had done, although his context is a Christian audience.  Paul took a different approach saying we are “all one in Christ Jesus” to give a reason against discrimination, but again his words were in a Christian context.  Clearly they sought to first keep the Church’s house in order.  However, we must further remember that Jesus taught that anyone in need is our neighbour.

Fortunately, the early church accepted that your neighbour is anyone in need, not just Christians.  Helping needy non-Christians was one of the significant ways the church overcame paganism in the Roman empire.

The other side

However, there is another side to this story.  How we appear to others can affect how others view God.  Michal’s response to David shows what can happen.  We are God’s children, and how we behave can change the reputation of our Father in the eyes of non-Christians.  Our behaviour may also influence other Christians who are less strong in their faith.  Non-Christians may think less of God because of our appearance in worship.  The self-belief that can lead us astray is also an influence on non-Christians.

Paul had occasion to advise the Corinthians on this problem in relation to food offered to idols (1 Co 8 4-17):

4 So then, about eating food sacrificed to idols: We know that an idol is nothing at all in the world and that there is no God but one. 5 For even if there are so-called gods, whether in heaven or on earth (as indeed there are many “gods” and many “lords”), 6 yet for us there is but one God, the Father, from whom all things came and for whom we live; and there is but one Lord, Jesus Christ, through whom all things came and through whom we live.

7 But not everyone knows this. Some people are still so accustomed to idols that when they eat such food they think of it as having been sacrificed to an idol, and since their conscience is weak, it is defiled. 8 But food does not bring us near to God; we are no worse if we do not eat, and no better if we do.

9 Be careful, however, that the exercise of your freedom does not become a stumbling block to the weak. 10 For if anyone with a weak conscience sees you who have this knowledge eating in an idol’s temple, won’t he be emboldened to eat what has been sacrificed to idols? 11 So this weak brother, for whom Christ died, is destroyed by your knowledge. 12 When you sin against your brothers in this way and wound their weak conscience, you sin against Christ. 13 Therefore, if what I eat causes my brother to fall into sin, I will never eat meat again, so that I will not cause him to fall.

Paul took the position that “ if what I eat causes my brother to fall into sin, I will never eat meat again, so that I will not cause him to fall”, but clearly the issue is wider than meat offered to idols.  He also makes the more general comment “Be careful, however, that the exercise of your freedom does not become a stumbling block to the weak”. 

We have a freedom in Christ that means we are not bound by earthly customs and beliefs, but we remain bound by love.  A neighbour who is weak in Christ or who is not a Christian needs our love, and Jesus calls us to be a “Samaritan” to them.

How we behave affects others.  Both James and Paul address this point.  Anything we do that might cause a fellow Christian to be weakened in faith is a failure of our love.  Further, if our behaviour affects God’s reputation, we might stop someone from becoming a Christian in the first place.

Clearly Paul is saying that our heart is known by God and our behaviour is understood by God in the light of our faith.  However, what we do influences others who cannot know our heart.  We need to think about how our behaviour is seen by others, and how they may be influenced by it. 

This does not mean we must live lives dictated by the highest common denominator of acceptable behaviour.  We don’t need to wear our smartest clothes to church to establish God’s reputation in the sight of others.  We do need to ensure our behaviour, yes and perhaps even sometimes our dress, does not diminish God’s reputation in the eyes of others.  Remember that Paul put it like this “Be careful, however, that the exercise of your freedom does not become a stumbling block to the weak.”  Our behaviour does not change how God sees us, but it can influence others, and the key is love.  We need to show love to all we encounter, our neighbors both Christian and non-Christian.

There are occasions where we can use the freedom that is part of our faith, but there are also times when we need to restrain our freedom in order to express our love to our neighbours.  One possible recent example of this seen on the news, has been when non-Muslim women meeting Muslims have worn head scarves. 

How should we worship God

So how should we worship God?  What does it mean to worship him in spirit and in truth? 

We tend to think of worship in the context of a church service.  However, if our bodies are God’s temple, our whole life should be an act of worship.  When we gather in a church service, we are sharing together in worship, because each of us brings something in our heart that brings us closer to God.

David gave us what may be the purest guide to worship.  In Psalm 24 he wrote:

         3      Who may ascend the hill of the LORD?

         Who may stand in his holy place?

         4      He who has clean hands and a pure heart,

         who does not lift up his soul to an idol

         or swear by what is false.

         5      He will receive blessing from the LORD

         and vindication from God his Saviour.

         6      Such is the generation of those who seek him,

         who seek your face, O God of Jacob.

We live our lives before God, and our lives should be part of our worship.  Where David’s worship was focused on the ark of the covenant and Israel’s worship came to be focused on the temple, our bodies are God’s temple.  Our worship should be from the heart and founded in love.  It should be part of our spirit. 

We can only approach God because His love made it possible. Despite the commandments given to Israel being based on love for God and for your neighbour, it was only with the coming of Christ that mankind had a clear picture of the importance of love in our relationship with God.

As Paul wrote (1 Cor 13: 13)

And now these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love.

Let our worship reflect our love for God, and for our neighbour, as we live our lives daily.  This is how we worship God in spirit and in truth.  When we gather to worship, it does not matter if we gather in silence or in chaos if our worship clearly shows our love for God and for our neighbour.

Jesus’ early life (Neville)

A few weeks ago we celebrated Christmas, the time God became a human baby called Jesus. The New Testament doesn’t tell us a great deal about Jesus as he was growing up – it concentrates on the three years of ministry that started when he was 30. And on his death and resurrection.

Because not much seemed to happen, some people nowadays ask the question “Why did Jesus come as a baby, not a 30 year old?” We do so hate to be kept waiting, don’t we? Whatever happened to the saying that “Anything worth having is worth waiting for”? After all, the Jews of Israel waited many, many years for the birth of their Messiah, because God worked to a long-term plan for humankind.

Jesus was a gift that God gave to the world – and gifts are best enjoyed by taking time to unwrap them carefully, rather than just ripping the paper off and missing things hidden in the folds and layers. So I thought I’d have a go at unwrapping some of the early Jesus.

It’s that time of year when monarch butterflies are busy in our garden. You’ll know the main life stages of a monarch butterfly:

Egg

Caterpillar

Pupa

Adult butterfly

You can divide the human life span into stages too. People who study human development use up to 12 stages, but I think four is enough for today:

Infancy

Childhood

Youth

Adulthood.

Actually, my favourite way to think of human development is a lot less scientific, and doesn’t apply to everyone!

Stage 1: You believe in Santa

Stage 2: You don’t believe in Santa

Stage 3: You are Santa

Stage 4: You look like Santa!

Let’s go back to the idea of childhood, infancy, youth and adulthood.

No stage is more important than any other, so to be fully human, Jesus had to experience all of them. Of course, his three years of adult ministry were vital, and his death on the cross was a necessary sacrifice. But his early years living as a human were important too, preparing him for what was to come.

Like us, he was born virtually helpless, unable to walk, to talk or feed himself. Like us, Jesus would have watched and mimicked people, learnt to walk and talk and soak up what was going on around him.

When Jesus was about 40 days old, Luke 2:22-24 tells us:

The time came for Joseph and Mary to perform the ceremony of purification, as the Law of Moses commanded. So they took the child to Jerusalem to present him to the Lord, as it is written in the law of the Lord: “Every firstborn male is to be dedicated to the Lord.” They also went to offer a sacrifice of a pair of doves or two young pigeons, as required by the law of the Lord.

This tells us that the family Jesus was born into was a devout one that followed the Jewish laws and traditions. By presenting Jesus in this way, they showed that he was part of the covenant between God and Israel.

In case you were wondering, the ceremony of purification referred to Mary, who by Jewish law was considered unclean for 40 days after the birth of her son.

Something else special happened at the temple during this visit.

Luke 2:25-32 records:

At that time there was a man named Simeon living in Jerusalem. He was a good, God-fearing man and was waiting for Israel to be saved. The Holy Spirit was with him and had assured him that he would not die before he had seen the Lord’s promised Messiah. Led by the Spirit, Simeon went into the Temple.

When the parents brought the child Jesus into the Temple to do for him what the Law required, Simeon took the child in his arms and gave thanks to God:

“Now, Lord, you have kept your promise,

and you may let your servant go in peace.

With my own eyes I have seen your salvation,

which you have prepared in the presence of all peoples:

A light to reveal your will to the Gentiles

and bring glory to your people Israel.”

Simeon had waited many years to welcome Jesus. He set us an example of how to welcome Jesus and to give thanks to God for his gift. He reminds us not to become tired of trusting in God, just because things are maybe taking too long. He must have believed in “Anything worth having is worth waiting for”, after all, he got to hold the baby Jesus in his arms.

Jesus’s infancy wasn’t over yet, as recorded in Matthew 2:13-23. Back in Bethlehem, wise men from the East arrived, with special gifts fit for a king. Then Mary and Joseph had to flee to Egypt to escape King Herod and his plans to kill Jesus – the infant Jesus experienced being a refugee. It would have been unsettling too, when they returned from Egypt after Herod’s threat was gone, this time settling in Nazareth.

So, like any human infant, Jesus was influenced by the events and people around him:

  • His parents brought him up according to strong religious beliefs
  • People around him recognised how special he was, and expected great things from him
  • He was a refugee, and experienced the trauma suffered by his family

Now we come to Jesus’ childhood, which he spent in Nazareth, in Galilee. The Bible tells us of only one specific event of Jesus as a child, but we can fairly speculate on other aspects.

In Jewish families at the time, it was the responsibility of the parents to provide early education. Just about as soon as they could speak, Jewish children were taught the alphabet and some Bible verses. As he grew up, Jesus would have learnt other life skills from his parents – as well as scripture, he’d have learnt the rules of his culture and society, and how to behave in an acceptable manner. It’s good when children today do the same. The difference being that Jesus, who had to lead a completely sinless life, was presumably never naughty!

In Jesus’ time, all Jewish boys from the age of 6 or 7 were offered a free public education. This covered scripture and law, reading and writing, history and their equivalent to science and maths. This education was for boys from all backgrounds, so Jesus would have gone to school and made friends with other boys from all walks of life.

I went to school in the UK, and from the age of 5 my parents received an annual report of my progress. For some reason I have all these reports, and they make for interesting reading!

Here are few examples:

Aged 6: Neville speaks clearly and has a good mastery of words.

Aged 7: Has produced very good results in art and handwork, but prefers to keep clean!

Aged 12: He has made good progress in most subjects. Perhaps a more sustained effort would improve the overall standard of his work.

What do you think Jesus might have had on his school reports? Take a couple of minutes now to talk amongst yourselves about it.

Actually, the Bible does give us a report of sorts.

After the presentation in the Temple, Luke 2:39-40 tells us that

The child grew and became strong; he was full of wisdom, and God’s blessings were upon him.

What an example to follow!

When Jesus was 12, he went to Jerusalem with his parents for the Passover festival, as they did every year. Luke 2:41-49 tells of how, after his parents left on the long journey home, Jesus stayed behind in the Temple without telling his parents, who thought they’d lost him.

On the third day they found him in the Temple, sitting with the Jewish teachers, listening to them and asking questions. All who heard him were amazed at his intelligent answers. His parents were astonished when they saw him, and his mother said to him, “My son, why have you done this to us? Your father and I have been terribly worried trying to find you.”

He answered them, “Why did you have to look for me? Didn’t you know that I had to be in my Father’s house?” But they did not understand his answer.

After this reminder that he obeyed a heavenly father, Jesus went back with his parents to Nazareth, where he was also obedient to his earthly parents. Here, from the age of 12 to 30, Luke 2:52 tells us

Jesus grew both in body and in wisdom, gaining favour with God and people.

Already, by the age of 12, Jesus was not just growing and learning, he was setting a good example. He was teaching lessons that we can learn from today. His main ministry started when he was 30, but in a sense this was really the continuation of something that had started many years before.

So what do we know about Jesus as a child?

  • He obeyed God, and his parents, and pleased both
  • He became physically strong
  • He got to know and understand the scriptures inside out
  • He learnt to listen and ask questions
  • He set a good example

The Bible tells us virtually nothing about the teenage years and young adulthood of Jesus – yet it was during this period that he must have met many of the treasure store of characters who gave him an insight into the minds and lives of humans. Perhaps knowing something about where Jesus lived will help us fill in some gaps.

Modern Nazareth is a large and busy city, but archaeologists have been able to find and excavate the remains of the old Nazareth, from the time of Jesus. It seems that in those days Nazareth was a small village with a population of about 500, surrounding by many smaller agricultural settlements. Archaeologists have found artefacts associated with agriculture, glass working, cloth production, other crafts and food processing. Quarrying of limestone was also a busy local industry. Surrounding settlements had lots of roman artefacts, but despite Nazareth being quite close to an important roman city, very few roman artefacts have been found in the village. So Nazareth would have had an exclusively Jewish character, though no remains of a synagogue have been found yet.

This all suggests that in and around Nazareth, Jesus would have had the opportunity to speak with a wide range of people and observe their behaviours. His job as a carpenter or builder may well have taken him to surrounding settlements too. Men and women, young and old, poor and rich, shepherds, craftsmen, bakers, farmers, fruit and vine growers, tax collectors, widows, beggars – what an education in being human! And he certainly drew on these experiences later – he knew exactly how to communicate his teachings in the most relevant manner for different audiences.

Jesus as a youth and young adult experienced a ‘normal’ family life. His family was deeply religious, so Jesus grew up in a home centred on God’s love. He was the oldest of at least 7 children, so he was probably given some responsibilities over his younger brothers and sisters. He would have been glad to escape and hang out with others of his own age too.

So what do we know about Jesus as a teenager and young adult?

  • He continued to live in a God-centred, loving home
  • He knew about the ups and downs of having brothers and sisters
  • He continued to study scriptures
  • He probably got to know many different kinds of people, so he understood about relationships

If we add up all that we’ve heard about Jesus growing up human, we can begin to understand why it had to happen this way. He came to earth to sacrifice himself for us, but he also came to teach the truth about why that sacrifice was necessary. And to do that, he had to understand us, identify with us and sympathise with our weaknesses.

One attempt to make sense of Jesus’ early life was made by Irenaeus, who was a priest in what is now the South of France only about 150 years after the death and resurrection of Jesus. He thought that:

Jesus passed through every stage of life:

He was made an infant for infants, sanctifying infancy. That is, he declared all infants to be holy, set apart for a sacred purpose.

He was made a child for children, sanctifying childhood. That is, he declared all children to be holy, set apart for a sacred purpose. He set an example of family love, righteousness and obedience.

He was made a young man for young men, an adult for adults, sanctifying youth and adulthood. That is, he declared all youths and adults to be holy, set apart for a sacred purpose.

During his ministry, Jesus drew on all those relationships from his younger days, all those people skills, all those experiences of what makes humans tick. And he has never lost them, only added to them, so that whoever you are, he knows how to relate to you. It doesn’t matter what age you are, what sex or gender, what your background is, what your circumstances are – Jesus knows how to relate to you in a human way. And as God, he relates to you in the very personal way that only God can.

After God appeared to humans in human form, they had to wait for him to grow up before he was ready for his great ministry, his death and resurrection. But he was worth waiting for.

Jesus told his disciples, in John 14:1-3, that he will return to complete his mission of salvation for mankind:

“Do not be worried and upset,” Jesus told them. “Believe in God and believe also in me. There are many rooms in my Father’s house, and I am going to prepare a place for you. I would not tell you this if it were not so. And after I go and prepare a place for you, I will come back and take you to myself, so that you will be where I am.”

He was saying “I’m worth waiting for”.

Jesus is patiently waiting to come back, because he is giving humanity as much time as possible to choose and follow him. He wants as many people as possible to repent and return to heaven with him. He knows we are worth waiting for.