Scripture: Matthew 26:14-30

Video Link: https://youtu.be/JLDzoRvzf3w

Structure:

  • Introduction
  • Passover
  • Betrayal
  • Covenant
  • Conclusion

Introduction:

Good morning everyone. A question for you…

What would you do if you knew you were going to die tomorrow?

In this scenario you have your health, you have your friends and family close by. You are simply running out of time. You have maybe 20 hours left. How would you spend that time?

Today we continue our series for Lent looking at some of the things Jesus did and said in the week leading up to his crucifixion and death. This morning’s message focuses on Matthew 26, verses 17-30.

In this passage Jesus knows he will die the next day. With this in mind, Jesus chose to have a special meal with his friends. Through this meal, Jesus communicates the meaning of his life and death. From Matthew 26, verse 17 we read…

17 On the first day of the Festival of Unleavened Bread, the disciples came to Jesus and asked, “Where do you want us to make preparations for you to eat the Passover?”

18 He replied, “Go into the city to a certain man and tell him, ‘The Teacher says: My appointed time is near. I am going to celebrate the Passover with my disciples at your house.’”

19 So the disciples did as Jesus had directed them and prepared the Passover. 20 When evening came, Jesus was reclining at the table with the Twelve. 21 And while they were eating, he said, “Truly I tell you, one of you will betray me.” 22 They were very sad and began to say to him one after the other, “Surely you don’t mean me, Lord?”

23 Jesus replied, “The one who has dipped his hand into the bowl with me will betray me. 24 The Son of Man will go just as it is written about him. But woe to that man who betrays the Son of Man! It would be better for him if he had not been born.”

25 Then Judas, the one who would betray him, said, “Surely you don’t mean me, Rabbi?”

Jesus answered, “You have said so.”

26 While they were eating, Jesus took bread, and when he had given thanks, he broke it and gave it to his disciples, saying, “Take and eat; this is my body.” 27 Then he took a cup, and when he had given thanks, he gave it to them, saying, “Drink from it, all of you. 28 This is my blood of the covenant, which is poured out for many for the forgiveness of sins. 

29 I tell you, I will not drink from this fruit of the vine from now on until that day when I drink it new with you in my Father’s kingdom.”

30 When they had sung a hymn, they went out to the Mount of Olives.

May the Spirit of Jesus illuminate God’s word for us.

If I said to you, ‘this reading has more layers than Rachel’s trifle’, what TV series (from the 90’s) would I be referring to? [Wait] That’s right, Friends.

There are many memorable moments from the Friends TV series but one that sticks in my mind is the scene featuring Rachel’s trifle.

Rachel describes the layers of her trifle saying, first there are some ladyfingers, then jam, custard, raspberries, more ladyfingers, beef sautéed with peas and onions, then a layer of custard and bananas topped with whipped cream.

Rachel has never made a trifle before and unfortunately the pages of the recipe book are stuck together, so her trifle is half dessert and half shepherds’ pie. Two recipes, that for most people (except Joey), don’t really go together. 

Matthew 26, verses 17-30, has more layers than Rachel’s trifle. In this last supper, before his crucifixion, Jesus draws on centuries of tradition to explain the meaning of his death. But, mixed in with the dessert of the Passover and the new covenant, we find the shepherd’s pie of Judas’ betrayal.

Let’s start with the bottom layer of this trifle, the lady fingers, jam and custard of the Jewish Passover.

Passover:   

In verse 17, the disciples ask Jesus about preparations for the Festival of Unleavened Bread. This festival, also known as the Passover festival, was celebrated over the course of a week and began with a memorial meal.

The Passover festival recalls God’s deliverance of Israel, from slavery in Egypt.  On the night before the Israelites left Egypt each family was to sacrifice a lamb and paint the blood of the lamb on the door posts of their home. When the angel of death saw the blood on the door posts, he passed over that house without killing the first born male. The blood protected them.

In verse 18, it becomes clear that Jesus has organised a room in advance to eat the Passover meal with his disciples. Jesus knows he is about to die and is using the Passover meal to communicate the meaning of his death.

Jesus is the ultimate Passover lamb. The blood of Jesus, spilled on the cross, protects us from sin and spiritual death.

Let’s pause for a moment to reflect. Jesus has less than a day left. His time is precious. He doesn’t use that time to get even with people who have wronged him. Nor does he use the time to try and avoid his death. Jesus doesn’t go public or stage a massive rally to fire up his supporters to defend him. No.

Jesus enjoys a quiet meal with his closest friends. Jesus chooses food, companionship and intimacy to nourish the bodies and souls of those he loves.

Unlike Jesus, we don’t know when we will die. We can’t live every day as if it were our last, that’s not sustainable. But God, in his wisdom, gives us one day in seven, a Sabbath, set apart for rest, companionship and intimacy, to nourish and restore body and soul. That sacred time is ours to enjoy.    

If the context of the Passover forms the foundation of the trifle, then Judas’ betrayal seems out of place, like beef sautéed with peas and onions in the middle of a dessert.

Betrayal:

No one has the heart to tell Rachel the truth. They all pretend to like her trifle. But when she is out of the room Ross says what he really thinks, ‘It tastes like feet’.

Rachel’s friends are lying to protect her feelings but in doing this they are only postponing the inevitable. It is kinder in the long run for Rachel to know the truth. But how to communicate a difficult truth to someone we care about?

In verse 21, Jesus speaks openly to his disciples saying one of them will betray him. They are naturally sad and all ask, ‘Surely you don’t mean me, Lord’.

Notice how each one makes it about himself. There is a certain selfishness to the disciples’ question. They don’t seem to be concerned for Jesus here. They are more concerned about justifying themselves and making sure they feel better. Jesus is sharing a painful truth and they can’t handle that truth.

Jesus will be dead in less than 24 hours and one of his closest mates will be complicit in his death. How awful would that be. And yet no one says, Lord, I’m listening if you want to talk. Or, what do you need? Instead the disciples behave like little children thinking it’s all about me.

But are we any different? The first thing they teach you in pastoral care 101 is, shut up and listen. It’s not about you. Stay present with the person in front of you. What do they need right now?

In the cultural context of the time, to share a meal with someone was a way of saying, ‘We are friends. I will not hurt you.’ So it is shocking to hear Jesus say, the one who has dipped his hand into the bowl with me will betray me.

Notice though the way Jesus does not expose or shame Judas. Jesus doesn’t say, ‘Judas is going to betray me’. No. Jesus responds in such a way that lets Judas know that he knows the truth, without outing Judas to the others.

Jesus never separates grace from truth. Jesus says the difficult truth in a gracious way; in a way that leaves the door open for Judas to repent. We know, from verses 14-16, that Judas has already made a deal with the religious leaders to hand Jesus over for 30 pieces of silver. But it’s not too late for Judas at this point. He could still choose not to betray Jesus.       

Jesus goes on to say in verse 24: “The Son of Man will go just as it is written about him. But woe to that man who betrays the Son of Man! It would be better for him if he had not been born.”

This is a hard truth, full of grace. I don’t think Jesus is saying this as a threat but rather as a kindness to encourage Judas to turn around, for the path he is on leads to a very bad place. Again, Jesus says this in a discreet way.

Some people argue that God needed Judas to betray Jesus in order for the atonement to happen, but I don’t buy that. Jesus would still have gone to the cross (as it is written about him) regardless of whether Judas betrayed Jesus or not. It’s not like Jesus was hiding. He did not resist arrest.

In verse 25, Judas joins the chorus of voices saying, ‘surely you don’t mean me, Rabbi?’ Jesus answers by reflecting Judas’ words back to him, perhaps in the hope that Judas will hear himself and be shocked at his own duplicity.   

Sadly, Judas did not take the hint. He did not walk through the door of redemption that Jesus was holding open for him.  He handed Jesus over. Why? We don’t know for certain. Was it love of money? Was it disillusionment? Was Judas manipulating the situation to force Jesus’ hand and cause an uprising? We simply don’t know. 

Betrayal is essentially the abuse of trust. Betrayal can take many forms. Accepting a bribe. Breaking a confidence. Cheating on your partner. Stealing time or money from your employer. Making promises you have no intention of keeping. These are all examples of betraying others.

Sometimes though we might also betray ourselves. We might laugh at a joke that is repugnant to us. Or hide our Christian faith. Or give in to social pressure and do something we are not really comfortable with. Or go against the grain of our values in some other way.      

In considering how Judas’ betrayal might apply to us, some people will be inclined to remember how other people have betrayed them.

If that is you, then how might you hold grace and truth together? Truth without grace is brutal, like surgery without anaesthetic. Grace without truth is septic, like treating an infection with painkillers only and no antibiotics. We need to hold grace and truth together.  

When our trust has been abused, it’s important for us be honest about what’s happened and not fudge over the facts, nor exaggerate them. At the same time, we need to find the grace to let go of our hurt, so it doesn’t destroy us. Letting go of the hurt means not revisiting the betrayal in your mind, not stewing on it and not seeking revenge.

By the same token, you are under no obligation to trust someone who has betrayed you. Your trust is precious, like pearls. Don’t put your pearls before swine. Don’t give your trust to someone who will trample on it.

In thinking about those who have betrayed us, we need to be careful not to look in the mirror of our hurt for too long. Sometimes we like to take the role of the victim because that gives us the illusion of holding the moral high ground. It insulates us from our own guilt.

The truth is, everyone has a bit of Judas in them. We don’t usually become aware of our capacity for betrayal until we find ourselves in a situation of intense pressure that releases our inner Judas. The instinct for self-preservation can be over powering at times.

Perhaps reading this passage puts you in touch with those you have betrayed in the past. It is a function of mid-life, to think about the mistakes of your youth and wish you could go back and do things differently. Regret. It eats away at your soul, like salt water on naked steel.

If that’s you, then the question has got to be: how do you hold truth and grace together? How do you face the awful truth about yourself and find release from your guilt and regret? God will forgive you in a heartbeat, if you forgive others. But can you forgive yourself? Can you show the same kindness to yourself that you show to others? That’s the hard part I find.

Tragically, Judas was not able to hold grace and truth together. The truth took hold of him after the fact and it shook him hard. But he wasn’t able to find the grace he needed. The weight of his guilt and shame crushed him in the end.

God is generally more gracious than we imagine. I believe Jesus would have forgiven Judas. After all, none of the disciples proved that loyal when Jesus was arrested.

Covenant:

And so we come to verses 26-30, some of the most sacred words in all of Scripture. Words we hear when we share communion. These words of Jesus are like stones polished smooth through centuries of use.

Traditionally, the words spoken during a Passover meal are, ‘This is the bread of affliction, which our fathers ate in the wilderness’. But during his last supper, Jesus changes the script. After taking the bread and giving thanks, he broke it and gave it to his disciples saying: “Take and eat; this is my body.”           

Jesus is not speaking literally here. Jesus is comparing the bread of affliction to his body. In just a few hours Jesus’ body would be afflicted.

Going a little deeper, bread represents life. Bread provides nourishment, strength for the journey and comfort. What’s more, bread is something you share. Jesus is saying, I’m sharing my life with you. My death gives you life.

Another layer of meaning: Faith isn’t just what you think. Faith finds expression in what you do. Eating is an act of faith. Simply looking at the bread won’t sustain you. In order for bread to become life to you, you must eat it, take it into yourself. Likewise, in order for Jesus’ death to be life giving, you must believe in it, trust it. You must take it into yourself by faith. 

From verse 27 we read…

27 Then Jesus took a cup, and when he had given thanks, he gave it to them, saying, “Drink from it, all of you. 28 This is my blood of the covenant, which is poured out for many for the forgiveness of sins. 

Centuries earlier, the prophet Jeremiah had spoken of a new covenant that God would make with his people. In Jeremiah 31 we read…

33 “This is the covenant I will make with the people of Israel…” declares the Lord. “I will put my law in their minds and write it on their hearts. I will be their God, and they will be my people. 34  …they will all know me, from the least to the greatest. For I will forgive their wickedness and will remember their sins no more.”

Jesus is saying that his death on the cross seals the new covenant God had spoken of through the prophet Jeremiah. This covenant is a sacred relationship in which our sins are forgiven, we know the Lord personally and God’s law of love is written on our heart and mind, so we keep the law from the inside out.  

Jesus’ words in Matthew 26 also connect with Isaiah 53, where the prophet says: 12 Therefore I will give him a portion among the great… because he poured out his life unto death and was numbered with the transgressors. For he bore the sin of many, and made intercession for the transgressors.

Life is in the blood. To pour out one’s blood is to pour out one’s life unto death. Jesus is going to the cross to bear the sin of many; that is, for the forgiveness of our sin.

Jesus uses his last supper to show his disciples the meaning of his death on the cross. Jesus died so that all who believe in him may have life. Not mere existence but abundant life, life free from sin and free from the fear of death. Life defined by righteousness and friendship with God.

Conclusion:

Jesus concludes on a note of hope, saying: “I tell you, I will not drink from this fruit of the vine from now on until that day when I drink it new with you in my Father’s kingdom.”   

‘Fruit of the vine’ is a poetic way of talking about wine. Jesus is looking forward here, beyond his death, to that time when he and his friends will sit down in the Kingdom of Heaven and enjoy the Messianic banquet together. We read about this banquet in Isaiah 25…

On this mountain the Lord Almighty will prepare a feast of rich food for all peoples, a banquet of aged wine—the best of meats and the finest of wines. On this mountain he will destroy the shroud that enfolds all peoples, the sheet that covers all nations; he will swallow up death forever.

The last supper is not actually Jesus’ last supper. Jesus’ death swallows up death forever. Jesus’ death and resurrection is our hope of eternal life. Our hope of sharing in the Messianic banquet in heaven. This is the cream on top of the trifle. Or perhaps it is more accurate to say, eternal life is the whole trifle, as it should be, without the shepherds’ pie of betrayal.

Let us pray…

Lord Jesus, our life is hidden in you. You are our hope, our righteousness, our loyalty. You open the door of redemption. You seal the covenant of friendship with God. Help us to remember you, holding together grace and truth, especially when the trifle of this world tastes like feet. Amen.  

Questions for discussion or reflection:

What stands out for you in reading this Scripture and/or in listening to the sermon? Why do you think this stood out to you?

  • What would you do if you knew you were going to die tomorrow?  How would you spend your time? Why would you spend your last hours like this?
  • What does the Jewish Passover communicate about the meaning of Jesus’ death? 
  • Why is Jesus discreet about Judas’ plan to betray him? 
  • How do we hold grace and truth together when someone betrays us? How do we hold grace and truth together when we realise we have betrayed someone else?
  • Discuss / reflect on Jesus’ words in verses 26-30. What are these words saying about the meaning of Jesus’ death? What do these words mean in the context of Jeremiah 31 and Isaiah 25 & 53? What do these words mean for you personally?
  • You may like to share communion with those in your small group. 

Outtakes

As part of the same (Passover) meal the people were to bake unleavened bread. Unleavened bread is bread without yeast in it. It’s sort of like flat bread. Baking bread with yeast takes quite a bit of time. The people were told to make unleavened bread because they had to leave Egypt in a hurry and unleavened bread is relatively quick to make. One of the rituals of preparation for the Jewish Passover was going through the house and getting rid of any yeast. Yeast, in that context, was symbolic of sin.  

Notice though how Judas addresses Jesus as Rabbi, when all the other disciples have addressed Jesus as ‘Lord’. In the gospel of Matthew, the disciples normally address Jesus as ‘Lord’ and those outside the group of Jesus’ followers tend to address him as ‘Rabbi’, which means teacher. Matthew is making the point that Judas is addressing Jesus here as an outsider, not as a true disciple.