Scripture: Ephesians 4:17-32
Structure:
- Introduction
- Mind
- Morals
- Conclusion
Introduction:
If we think of the Christian church as a tree; historically the church has two main branches to it
- There is the eastern branch, which stems from the Greek tradition
- And there is the western branch, which stems from the Latin tradition
- We are part of the Latin tradition – the western church
Generally speaking, the Greek church believed that sin was intellectual blindness and that salvation was found in illumination of the mind; by clear thinking about God, or Christ
- The Latin church, on the other hand, believed that sin was moral evil and that salvation is found in right conduct; behaving in a Christ like way
- Consequently, the Greek saint is more inclined to contemplate, while the Latin saint is more inclined to get busy and act [1]
- From our perspective we can see that both are needed
- You wouldn’t cut off one of the main branches
- We can’t really have a conversion in our moral behaviour without having a conversion of our mind
Please turn with me to Ephesians 4, verse 17, page 241 toward the back of your pew Bibles
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- Chapter 4 is like a hinge connecting the two halves of Ephesians
- In the first half Paul talks about what God has done for us in Christ
- And in the second half he talks about what we need to do; our response
- Being ‘in Christ’ requires us to live a life worthy of our calling
- This means a profound transformation of our M&M’s – our mind and our morals. The Christian life involves both contemplation and action
- From Ephesians 4, verses 17-32 we read…
17 In the Lord’s name, then, I warn you: do not continue to live like the heathen, whose thoughts are worthless 18 and whose minds are in the dark. They have no part in the life that God gives, for they are completely ignorant and stubborn. 19 They have lost all feeling of shame; they give themselves over to vice and do all sorts of indecent things without restraint.
20 That was not what you learned about Christ! 21 You certainly heard about him, and as his followers you were taught the truth that is in Jesus. 22 So get rid of your old self, which made you live as you used to—the old self that was being destroyed by its deceitful desires. 23 Your hearts and minds must be made completely new, 24 and you must put on the new self, which is created in God’s likeness and reveals itself in the true life that is upright and holy.
25 No more lying, then! Each of you must tell the truth to the other believer, because we are all members together in the body of Christ. 26 If you become angry, do not let your anger lead you into sin, and do not stay angry all day. 27 Don’t give the Devil a chance. 28 If you used to rob, you must stop robbing and start working, in order to earn an honest living for yourself and to be able to help the poor. 29 Do not use harmful words, but only helpful words, the kind that build up and provide what is needed, so that what you say will do good to those who hear you. 30 And do not make God’s Holy Spirit sad; for the Spirit is God’s mark of ownership on you, a guarantee that the Day will come when God will set you free. 31 Get rid of all bitterness, passion, and anger. No more shouting or insults, no more hateful feelings of any sort. 32 Instead, be kind and tender-hearted to one another, and forgive one another, as God has forgiven you through Christ.
May the Spirit of Jesus illuminate God’s Word for us
Mind:
When I was in my teens my friends and I would sometimes go away for a few days kayaking
- One place we went to was Reid’s Farm on the Waikato River, near Taupo
- Reid’s Farm is about 2 kilometres upstream from Huka Falls
On our first visit to Reid’s Farm, the sun was shining; it was a beautiful day
- We approached the river bank and looked down
- The water was so clear you could see the bottom of the river bed 10 metres below; not at all like the dark brackish water of the same river 200km’s north in Hamilton
- We knelt down to put our hands in the water – it was freezing but the cold made the water seem even more fresh, more pristine
- A voice from behind said, ‘I wouldn’t drink that if I were you. It might look clean but it’s full of effluent. If you swallow even one mouthful, you’ll be puking your guts out for days.’
Having the right advice, knowing the truth, illuminates the mind
- And when your mind is enlightened you are able to make informed choices and take the right course of action
- Actions which will serve, not only your health and wellbeing, but also the health and wellbeing of those around you
- The reason we receive an education and training is so we can learn from other people’s mistakes, and not have to find out the hard way
Now some of you may be wondering, ‘Did we learn the hard way? Did my mates and I ignore the voice and drink the water that day?’
- Well, we were 16 years old at that time and didn’t always make good choices, but we did heed that piece of advice
- I remember watching someone, from a distance a day or two later, who did drink the water and it wasn’t pretty
- Had we hardened our hearts and stubbornly refused to accept the truth then our trip to Reid’s Farm would have been ruined, futile, wasted
In today’s reading Paul contrasts the Ephesians’ old way of life with their new life in Christ
- Verses 17-19 describe the mind-set and lifestyle of the heathen.
- A heathen is someone who doesn’t adhere to a religious system; they ignore God
According to Paul, four things characterise the heathen:
- Hardness of heart (stubborn)
- Darkness of mind (ignorant)
- An unfeeling conscience (insensitive)
- And a self-indulgent lifestyle (dissolute)
I have here a square of concrete and a container of soil
- Which of these two is better for growing a seed in, do you think? [Wait]
- That’s right the container of soil
- If I drop a seed on the concrete slab it won’t go in. It will either be blown away by the wind or eaten by a bird
- But if I drop a seed in the soil, it will go in, the soil receives it
- The seed might lay dormant in the soil for some time but eventually, when the conditions are right, the seed will germinate and grow
The seed represents the truth and the soil and concrete each represent the human heart in different states
- The concrete slab is a hard heart and the soil is a receptive heart
- Someone who is hard of heart refuses to listen or be taught – they are unreceptive to the truth
- Hardness of heart is the opposite of an open, trusting heart
- Jesus celebrated little children and said, …the kingdom of God belongs to such as these, because children normally have a heart like soft soil, which is open and trusting and receptive, not a heart of stone
- If we receive the truth and contemplate it in the soil of our mind, then God will grow it
- But if we don’t let the seed of truth into our heart and mind, then our mind will be shrouded in darkness
Hardness of heart leads to ignorance
- It is a tragic irony that sometimes very intelligent people can have minds which are in the dark spiritually speaking
- Sometimes a great intellect gets in the way of an enlightened mind
When a person’s mind is unreceptive and ignorant of the truth, their conscience loses feeling
- If we cut our foot our body heals that wound through blood flow
- If blood is prevented from flowing to and from the foot the cut won’t heal and will become infected
- At first the wound will hurt, but after a while (if the cut is left untreated) we will lose feeling in our foot and then our leg
The truth is to our conscience what blood flow is to the body
- Truth heals wounds in our mind and soul
- If the truth isn’t allowed access to our mind, then eventually our conscience will stop hurting (we will stop feeling guilt and shame at wrong doing) and become reckless in our behaviour; insensitive toward others
- Without a properly functioning conscience, anything goes and self-indulgence reigns – we lose feeling and compassion for others
- We become a slave to our appetites
Now, there’s a couple things I want to say about Paul’s description of the heathen, as it relates to our experience
- Firstly, not all non-Christians fit Paul’s description of the heathen
- We are all on a moral spectrum; most people have some conscience, some residue of the image of God, some redeeming quality, whatever their religion or lack of
- And even we Christians have a bit of heathen left in us still
- With this in view, it seems to me, Paul is describing the extreme end of the moral spectrum
- This is the destination one arrives at if they go down the path of pure heathenism (of totally rejecting God)
- Paul’s description of the outcome of a heathen lifestyle is pretty accurate
In the last couple of years, during the summer holidays, I’ve noticed car wrecks on the side of the road, positioned where drivers can easily see them
- This is part of a road safety campaign designed to warn motorists to drive carefully
- The smashed up cars are a picture of the worst that can happen if we don’t slow down or if we drive carelessly
- In today’s reading Paul is describing the moral car crash that a heathen lifestyle leads to
- He is warning his readers to not return to that way of life; to not drink the water at Reid’s Farm (even though it looks beautiful and clean); because ultimately a life without God is meaningless – it has you puking your guts out
In contrast to a heathen mind-set and lifestyle Paul also describes the Christian pathway, in verse 21. A more literal translation of this verse reads… [2]
- You learned Christ
- You heard Christ
- You were taught in Christ
You learned Christ, means that Jesus himself is the content of the teaching; he is the curriculum
- You heard Christ, means the Ephesian believers heard Jesus’ words through the gospel stories they were told; so Jesus is the teacher
- And, you were taught in Christ, means that Jesus was the environment or the classroom in which they learned
Robyn is doing a Maori language course at the moment as part of her professional development
- This course involves 4 days’ total immersion in the Maori language – which means no speaking English, only speaking Maori for 4 days
- To be taught in Christ means total immersion in the language and kaupapa of Jesus
- Christ is the curriculum, he is the teacher and he is the environment in which we learn how to relate with God and each other
Verse 23 continues the mind theme…
- Your hearts and minds must be made completely new…
- Or more literally, You were taught… to be renewed in the spirit [or the attitude] of your minds
- We can’t live right until we’ve been taught how to think right
- We can’t behave in a moral way until our minds have been renewed by God
- This is why the Greek church’s emphasis on contemplation is so important
- The purpose of Christian contemplation is not to empty our minds but rather to learn to put our thoughts and thought processes in good order
Unlike the heathen who are too stubborn to learn, the Christian disciple is open and receptive to learn
- Unlike the heathen whose minds are darkened in ignorance, the mind of the Christian disciple is enlightened and informed in the ways of God
- Unlike the heathen whose conscience has lost all feeling, the conscience of the Christian disciple is sensitive to right and wrong
- And unlike the heathen who are self-indulgent and dissolute, the Christian disciple is supposed to exercise self-control and purity
As verse 24 says: we must clothe ourselves with the new self which is created in God’s likeness and reveals itself in the true life that is upright & holy.
- Paul’s image here is of the Christian believer taking off an old pair of rags and putting on a new set of clothes
- The new clothes represent a new morality
A number of times over the years I’ve visited people in prison
- When I used to go to Rimutaka the prisoners in the visiting area were dressed in bright orange boiler suits to distinguish them from the visitors
- Most of the time I think the prisoners just wore grey sweat pants and tops
- When the prisoner is released they put away their old prison clothes and put on new clothes to wear in their freedom
- It’s like that when we become a Christian – we leave behind our old way of life and put on our new self
The new self isn’t a uniform that makes us look the same as everyone else
- The new self is a unique set of clothes, custom made for us by God
- The new self is our true self, our best self, as God intended us to be
- To put on our new self is to live in our own soul, to be our authentic self
- When we put on our new self we are doing away with pretence and we are embracing what is real and genuine
- The clothes of our new-self fit perfectly; they aren’t too tight or too loose
- And because they fit perfectly we feel comfortable and at home in them; we don’t have to pretend to be something we’re not
It is important to note here that we can’t create our new self any more than we could cause our self to be born.
- God makes the clothes. All we do is put them on
Morals:
A renewed mind will affect our moral behaviour
- Christian contemplation ultimately leads to Christian action
- Right thinking about God will lead to right living with our neighbour
- In verses 25-32, Paul describes a number of very practical ways in which we put away the old self and get dressed in our new morality
The word ‘morality’ has fallen out of favour in recent years
- People tend to associate being moral with being a prude or ultra conservative or being oppressive and denying people their freedom
- This is unfair and misleading – morals are helpful
I like the kind of thinking Eugene Peterson brings to the subject of morals [3]
- Peterson says, (and I paraphrase his words a bit here) morality is both beautiful and functional
- Just as a vase holds a flower arrangement in an artful way, revealing the flowers’ beauty, so too morality lends function and beauty to our lives and relationships
Or to use another example; I can drink this grape juice straight out of the box or I can pour it into a glass like this [pour juice into a nice glass]
- Not only is drinking out of the glass more functional than drinking out of the box, the glass (of morality) holds the grape juice in a beautiful way
Morality might also be compared to a cornet or a bugle
- Just as the brass instrument gives shape to sound as air passes through it, so too good morals give a pleasant sounding shape to the words and feelings and behaviours that pass through us
In verse 25, Paul writes: Don’t lie, instead speak the truth.
- This moral is about being honest with people, not deceiving others
- Honesty and truth create trust and trust is the foundation of relationships
- But in speaking the truth we need to remember verse 29, where Paul encourages his readers to use kind, helpful words that build others up and do good to those who hear them.
- Remember, the truth is like blood flow which heals wounds
Verse 28 continues the theme of creating trust through honesty and kindness
- The man who used to rob must stop robbing and start working, in order to earn an honest living for himself and be able to help the poor
- This verse holds together the twin concepts of justice and mercy
- Like a vase it gives shape to the flower arrangement of our relationships
Paul’s concern for right moral behaviour isn’t just focused on our words and deeds though, it also involves our feelings
In verse 26 Paul says: If you become angry, do not let your anger lead you into sin, and do not stay angry all day.
- This tells us that anger (within certain limits) is not a sin
- Jesus got angry on occasion but his anger was over injustice
- He became indignant when the disciples tried to prevent the little children coming to him and he became furious when the merchants in the temple prevented the heathen Gentiles from coming to God to pray
- The interesting thing is that Jesus didn’t become angry when people treated him unfairly – he took that on the chin
Anger is one of the many emotions of love
- If we don’t get angry over injustice done to others, then we don’t really care about others
- The trick is using the energy of anger in a constructive way, not a destructive way
- Housework is a good vent for anger – take it out on the mould in your bathroom, or the grease in your oven. Chop some wood or prune some trees
- When Jesus became angry with the money changers in the temple he expressed his anger by cleaning up his Father’s house
- He decluttered the courtyard and took out the rubbish
- Next time you visit someone with a really clean house, make a note; this person knows how to handle their anger
In verse 31 Paul touches on some more emotions:
- Get rid of all bitterness, passion, and anger. No more shouting or insults, no more hateful feelings of any sort.
- The kind of anger in view here is the unrighteous kind
- Bitterness speaks of resentment (nursing a grudge)
- We need to find ways to let go of our hurt and not hold on to grievances
- Our morality should shape the sounds that come out of us like a bugle shapes the air that passes through it
In reading these verses we notice three common threads with Paul’s morality:
- They all have to do with personal relationships
- (How are your relationships? Are they functioning well and are they pleasant? If not, maybe take a look at your morals)
- They all require us to exercise self-control,
- (Self control is the opposite of self indulgence)
- And they all affect the Holy Spirit (the Holy Spirit feels our morality)
Verse 30 tells us that when our morality is bad this grieves the Holy Spirit
- The Holy Spirit connects us to God and each other, so when relationships go sour the Holy Spirit feels it
- We don’t just practise good morality for our own well-being, we do it also for the sake of the Holy Spirit
- If someone treats you badly that makes the Holy Spirit sad
- If we retaliate or try to get even that just adds to the Spirit’s grief
- But when we behave in ways that bless others I imagine the Spirit must take some comfort and joy from that
Conclusion:
Our reading this morning finishes on a positive note:
- Instead, be kind and tender-hearted to one another, and forgive one another, as God has forgiven you through Christ.
This instruction to forgive one another reminds us that we are all on a journey with the renewing of our minds and the reformation of our morals
- None of us is perfect yet and so we all stand in need of grace
Questions for discussion or reflection:
- What stands out for you in reading this Scripture and/or in listening to the sermon?
- Why do you think this stood out to you?
2.What are you most drawn to: contemplation or action?
- How might we keep these two things together?
3. What does it mean to be hard hearted?
- How does Paul’s description of the heathen fit with your experience / observation of the world?
4. Why is it important to receive the truth and contemplate on it?
- What is the purpose of Christian contemplation?
5. Discuss / reflect on verse 21: ‘You learned Christ. You heard Christ. You were taught in Christ’. What does this mean and how might we apply it in our context today?
6. When is it right to feel angry?
- What strategies do you have for dealing with your anger?
7. What do Paul’s morals have in common?
- Take some time this week to reflect on the quality of your relationships with others. Is there anything you would like to do differently?
[1] Refer Lynn White’s article ‘Historical Roots of Our Ecological Crisis’, Science, 10 March 1967, Vol 155, Number 3767, page 1206.
[2] Refer John Stott’s commentary on Ephesians, page 179.
[3] Refer chapter 10 of Eugene Peterson’s book, ‘Practise Resurrection’.

