Tawa Baptist

Nose to Tail

Scripture: Genesis 49:29-50:26

Video Link: https://youtu.be/hqiV5tY437E

Structure:

  • Introduction
  • Joseph’s forgiveness
  • Joseph’s death
  • Conclusion

Introduction:

Good morning everyone.

Some of you may have heard of ‘nose to tail’ cooking. ‘Nose to tail’ is about ensuring every edible part of the animal is prepared and eaten, as opposed to using only the high value cuts.

Cousins to the ‘nose to tail’ approach are ‘fin to gill’ (using every part of the fish) and ‘root to shoot’ for fruit and veges. ‘Nose to tail’ cooking utilizes the whole beast, reducing waste and providing greater nutritional value for the eater.

Today, after six months, we conclude our ‘nose to tail’ sermon series in the life of Joseph. Perhaps the key take-away from the Joseph story is that God, in his grace, is able to make something good out of the offal and gristle of human behaviour, as well as the rump and eye fillets.

The Lord uses all of Joseph’s family to bring about his purpose of salvation. God does not waste anything.

Our message is in two parts this morning. The first part deals with Joseph’s forgiveness of his brothers. And the second part tells us about Joseph’s death. From Genesis 50, verse 15, we read… 

15 When Joseph’s brothers saw that their father was dead, they said, “What if Joseph holds a grudge against us and pays us back for all the wrongs we did to him?”  16 So they sent word to Joseph, saying, “Your father left these instructions before he died: 17 ‘This is what you are to say to Joseph: I ask you to forgive your brothers the sins and the wrongs they committed in treating you so badly.’ Now please forgive the sins of the servants of the God of your father.” When their message came to him, Joseph wept. 18 His brothers then came and threw themselves down before him. “We are your slaves,” they said. 19 But Joseph said to them, “Don’t be afraid. Am I in the place of God?  20 You intended to harm me, but God intended it for good to accomplish what is now being done, the saving of many lives. 21 So then, don’t be afraid. I will provide for you and your children.” And he reassured them and spoke kindly to them.

May the Spirit of Jesus illuminate God’s word for us.

Joseph’s forgiveness:

In his book “The Peacemaker”, Ken Sande recalls a joke he once heard.

A woman went to her pastor for advice on improving her marriage and when the pastor asked what her greatest complaint was, she replied, “Every time we get into a fight, my husband gets historical.”

When her pastor said, “Don’t you mean hysterical,” she responded,

“I mean exactly what I said; he keeps a mental record of everything I’ve done wrong, and whenever he’s mad, I get a history lesson.”

Clearly the husband has not forgiven his wife. By continually reminding his wife of the things she has done wrong, he is punishing her and trying to hold her captive to guilt. He is using the past against her.  

Forgiveness is about letting go of past hurts and grievances. With forgiveness we don’t necessarily forget the bad stuff. Rather we make a conscious choice not to hold people’s mistakes against them. We give away our right to get even.

Refusing to forgive someone is like handcuffing yourself to that person. It keeps you both captive. Forgiveness unlocks the handcuffs. Forgiveness breaks the shackles of bitterness, setting you free.

In the passage we just read from Genesis chapter 50, Jacob has recently died and now the brothers are afraid that, without their father around, Joseph will want to make them pay for all the wrong they did to him.

By this stage it had been nearly 40 years since they sold Joseph into slavery. And, for the past 17 years they have been living in Egypt near their brother. But even after all this time they are still afraid of Joseph.

Fear has messed with their perception and caused things to appear other than they really are. Joseph has forgiven his brothers. More than this, he has tested them to re-establish trust. Joseph is ready to move forward, but the brothers are stuck in the past. It seems they haven’t been able to forgive themselves.

If you touch a live wire on an electric fence with the palm of your hand, the current running through the wire causes your hand to clench into a fist automatically, so you can’t let go no matter how hard you try.

Forgiving ourselves can be like trying to let go of an electric fence. We want to find release, but we just don’t seem to be able to achieve it on our own. We need someone to turn the power off.

The disciple Peter found it difficult to forgive himself. Peter denied Jesus three times, the night of his trial. Oh, the torment Peter suffered for that. But later, after his death and resurrection, Jesus restored Peter saying, ‘Feed my lambs’.

There was no reprisal or recrimination from Jesus. To the contrary Jesus turned Peter’s fear off. Jesus reassured Peter with an act of trust.

Joseph points to Jesus. Joseph turns the brothers’ fear off by reassuring them and speaking kindly to them. Joseph wants a right relationship with his brothers, one that is based on love, not fear.

In verses 16 and 17 we read how the brothers tried to deceive Joseph by saying, ‘Our father Jacob gave instructions for you to forgive us’.

Joseph’s response is to weep.

Perhaps Joseph is sad because his brothers have thought the worst of him. They have misunderstood him. It hurts to be judged wrongly, especially by those close to us.

Perhaps also Joseph’s tears are an expression of compassion for his brothers. The sons of Israel have been bullied by guilt and fear for nearly 40 years. They have suffered their own silent torment.

In verse 18, Joseph’s brothers come to him, throw themselves at his feet and offer themselves as his slaves. Joseph’s dream of his brothers bowing to him (all those years ago) is fulfilled again, only now the meaning is clearer.  

The brothers are trying to make amends. They had sold Joseph into slavery and now they are saying they will repay their wrongdoing by becoming Joseph’s slaves. This shows their desperation. They have been slaves to guilt and fear for so long. They see Joseph as a kinder master.

The brothers (collectively) remind us of the prodigal son, in Jesus’ parable. After hitting rock bottom, he came to his senses and decided to return home and beg to work as a hired hand for his father.

He had his speech all planned. ‘Father, I have sinned against heaven and against you. I am no longer worthy to be called your son…’ But before he could ask for a job, his father welcomes him with generosity and joy. The father does not need another hired hand. The father wants his son back.

Joseph does the same for his brothers. Joseph does not need any more slaves. He wants his brothers back.

The first thing Joseph says to his brothers (in verse 19) is, “Don’t be afraid”. He says it twice actually. By accurately naming their fear, Joseph shows his brothers that he understands them, and fear begins to lose its power.

The second thing Joseph says here is, “Am I in the place of God?”

The brothers were afraid that Joseph would exact his revenge. But to Joseph’s mind, judgement and revenge are God’s business.

It’s like Joseph is saying, ‘I am not your judge. I am just a man, like you. Far be it from me to condemn you. God is your judge and mine, and he is more merciful and gracious than you think’.

In verse 20 Joseph says, “You intended to harm me…” Joseph does not deny what his brothers did. Joseph acknowledges the truth that they meant him harm.He doesn’t do this to make them suffer more. He does this to help them feel better.

It’s a paradox you see. Pretending something didn’t happen doesn’t make anyone feel better about it. In fact, it usually makes people feel worse. It becomes an infected wound, breeding mistrust and doubt.

But when we acknowledge honestly what happened, in the context in which it happened (that is, with the people concerned), trust is restored and healing is able to take place.

Although Joseph’s brothers intended to harm him, God intended it for good, to save many lives. This is the main point of the Joseph story.

Joseph is highlighting the amazing grace of God. The Lord used the brothers’ decision, of selling Joseph into slavery, as a means of salvation. By placing Joseph in Egypt, God saved many lives from starvation.

It’s not that God needed the brothers to betray Joseph. If the brothers had been kind to Joseph, then God would have found another way. The point is, God (in his grace and providence) transformed evil intentions into a good outcome.

We are reminded of Paul’s words in his letter to the Romans…

28 And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, whohave been called according to his purpose.

This is ‘nose to tail’ salvation. This is the Lord not wasting anything.

This is God working all things for good. Was God pleased when Joseph’s brothers plotted against him? No, I don’t expect he was. But the Lord saw a way to redeem it.

The brothers had offered themselves to Joseph as slaves, but Joseph wouldn’t have a bar of it. Joseph says he will provide for his brothers and their children. Joseph’s intention is not to get even. His intention is to provide and protect. Jacob made Joseph leader of the family and that is what a leader does. They provide and protect.

Verse 21 of Genesis 50 says that Joseph reassured his brothers and spoke kindly to them. The English translation here disguises the original Hebrew which literally reads… And he spoke to their heart.

Meaning he spoke tenderly and intimately with them. He addressed the deeper things for them. Conveying forgiveness is not just about trying to find the right words. It’s also about using a tender manner. It’s about communicating in a winsome way, with kindness and warmth. Heart speaks to heart.

Martin Luther King said, “Forgiveness is not just an occasional act – it’s an attitude”. As human beings, made in the image of God, forgiveness is meant to be our default setting.

Sometimes we can be lulled into the false idea that forgiveness is something we only need to do once and then everything will be sweet. But the reality with deeper hurts, like the ones suffered by Joseph, is that forgiveness is an on-going decision.

Forgiveness is like giving up an addiction. Not only do we have to decide to give up our revenge once, but we must go on giving up our revenge every moment of everyday. Sometimes the temptation is intense and all we can do is call out to God for grace and strength. ‘Lord, help me to let this go.’ 

Rather than re-playing his brothers’ wrong-doing over and over in his mind, I believe Joseph chose to replay the outcome achieved by God and this became his shield against bitterness.  

The 2010 film, 127 hours, tells the true story of mountaineer, Aron Ralston. Aron goes hiking in Utah’s Canyonlands National Park. Unfortunately, he doesn’t tell anyone where he is going.

While climbing through a slot canyon, a boulder comes loose and traps his right arm against a wall. There is no way for him to move the boulder and he can’t wriggle out of it.

Over the next five days he rations his food and water. Eventually he has to drink his own urine to survive. When it becomes apparent that no one is coming to his rescue, and that he will die if he does nothing, Aron uses his pocketknife to cut off his arm and free himself.

Cutting off his arm, like he did, took real grit, real willpower. Aron’s motivation to do this came from a vision he had of one day becoming a father. Aron imagined his yet unborn son. He focused on the outcome.

If Aron did nothing, he would die. He would lose his whole body and never get to live his life or have children. But if Aron sacrificed his right arm, he would save the rest of his body and have a future.

Forgiveness is essentially about release. It can be tempting to think that forgiveness is achieved with time. That simply by waiting, our feelings of bitterness will eventually go away. This is a myth. Time can help, but by itself it is not enough.

Forgiveness is not a passive thing. Nor is it an involuntary feeling. Forgiveness can be painful. It involves an intentional act of the will.

A decision to cut off your desire to get even, in order to free your mind and soul.    

I imagine for Joseph, the decision to forgive his brothers took real grit, real resolve, like cutting off his arm (metaphorically speaking). But what option did he have? If he held onto the bitterness and hurt, he would die between a rock and a hard place.

Joseph chose to think about the outcome God had created. Joseph magnified God’s grace and imagined a future in which he enjoyed a better relationship with his family. Would Joseph have been able to forgive his brothers if God had not provided a good outcome for everyone? I’m not sure.

Now most things you are required to forgive in this life are not as big as cutting your arm off. Most people are not sold into slavery by their family. More often, forgiveness is smaller, like removing a stone from your shoe so you can walk without hurting yourself.

Forgiveness is usually about little things, like when others leave you in the lurch or snap at you because they’re having a bad day, or you find someone has keyed your car. That sort of thing. Whether it is a big thing or a small thing though, we need God’s grace to forgive others and to forgive ourselves.

Joseph’s death:

Joseph was probably in his mid-fifties when his father died and his brothers asked for forgiveness. Another fifty odd years pass between Jacob’s death and Joseph’s passing. From Genesis 50, verse 22 we conclude the Joseph story…

22 Joseph stayed in Egypt, along with all his father’s family. He lived a hundred and ten years 23 and saw the third generation of Ephraim’s children. Also, the children of Makir son of Manasseh, were placed at birth on Joseph’s knees. 24 Then Joseph said to his brothers, “I am about to die. But God will surely come to your aid and take you up out of this land to the land he promised on oath to Abraham, Isaac and Jacob.” 25 And Joseph made the Israelites swear an oath and said, “God will surely come to your aid, and then you must carry my bones up from this place.” 26 So Joseph died at the age of a hundred and ten. And after they embalmed him, he was placed in a coffin in Egypt.

These closing verses of Genesis tell us that Joseph lived a long and full life. After having been told a lot about the first half of Joseph’s life, we are not told anything about the last half of his life, except that he stayed in Egypt and got to see his grandchildren and great-grandchildren.

In a way, that points to the reality for all of us. We are each like Joseph in a way. We have a public life that people see and a private life that no one really sees (like the dark side of the moon). No one that is but God.

We do well to remember this. None of us knows the whole story of another person’s life and so we should reserve judgement. We don’t know half of what others endure.

In echo of his father Jacob, Joseph’s last words are words of hope, binding the family to God’s promise. Twice Joseph says, ‘God will surely come to your aid’.  Joseph foresees a time when God will lead the people of Israel out of Egypt and back to Canaan, the land of promise.

Do you feel like you are trapped in Egypt at the moment? Could this be a word for you? Can you believe that God will surely come to your aid.

Joseph asks his descendants to take his bones back to Canaan when they go. Joseph’s coffin (a symbol of death) becomes a sign pointing future generations to the hope of returning to their homeland.

Joseph points to Jesus. The cross of Christ (once a symbol of torture and death) has now become a sign of forgiveness and hope for those who believe. A reminder that Jesus will return in glory one day to reveal God’s kingdom in its fullness.  

Conclusion:

The book of Genesis starts with creation and the fall, and it ends with forgiveness and hope. Forgiveness is about letting go of our hurt and hope is about holding on to God’s promises for the future.

Forgiveness puts an end to fear and guilt. It puts the past to rest and in so doing creates a new beginning and new hope. Jesus is the one who makes forgiveness and hope possible. Jesus is the alpha and omega.

He is the beginning and the end and his grace sustains us in between.

May God help us to see the good outcome he is working in this world. Amen.    

Questions for discussion or reflection:

  1. What stands out for you in reading this Scripture and/or in listening to the sermon? Why do you think this stood out to you?
  2. What is forgiveness? What does it mean to forgive someone? Why is it important to forgive?
  3. How might we ask for forgiveness? How might we forgive ourselves?
  4. Discuss / reflect on Joseph’s response to his brothers in Genesis 50:19-21. Why does Joseph say what he says? What might you say (or do) if someone came to you for forgiveness?
  5. Why does Joseph focus on the outcome God has created? What good outcome(s) has God worked in the circumstances of your life? Take some time to thank him for these.
  6. Do you feel like you are trapped in Egypt at the moment? Have you ever felt like this? Are you able to believe that God will surely come to your aid?   
  7. In what ways does Joseph point to Jesus?
Tawa Baptist

Destiny

Scripture: Genesis 49:13-28

Video Link: https://youtu.be/DjrHzeXa9p0

Structure:

  • Introduction
  • Genesis 49:13-28
  • Conclusion

Introduction:

Good morning everyone.

If I were to say, ‘Life is like a box of chocolates, you never know what you are going to get’, who would I be quoting? [Wait] That’s right Forrest Gump.

A box of chocolates normally contains a variety of flavours, some we like and others not so much. The point here is that life is full of unknowns. We don’t always know what’s coming our way. Some experiences will be to our liking and others we may prefer to spit out.

Today we continue our series in the life of Joseph. We’ve come to that part in the story where Joseph’s father, Jacob, is on his death bed saying his last goodbyes to his twelve sons. Jacob’s poem gives each of his sons an insight into their character and the destiny for their descendants.

It’s sort of like Jacob is saying, this is the flavour chocolate I see for you. The sons can do little else but listen and swallow their father’s words. Last week we heard what Jacob had to say to his four eldest sons. This week we hear Jacob’s words to his eight younger sons. From Genesis 49, verse 13, we read…

13 “Zebulun will live by the seashore and become a haven for ships; his border will extend toward Sidon. 14 “Issachar is a raw-boneddonkey lying down among the sheep pens. 15 When he sees how good is his resting place and how pleasant is his land, he will bend his shoulder to the burden and submit to forced labour. 6 “Danwill provide justice for his people as one of the tribes of Israel. 17 Dan will be a snake by the roadside, a viper along the path, that bites the horse’s heels so that its rider tumbles backward. 18 “I look for your deliverance, Lord. 19 “Gadwill be attacked by a band of raiders, but he will attack them at their heels. 20 “Asher’s food will be rich; he will provide delicacies fit for a king. 21 “Naphtali is a doe set free that bears beautiful fawns. 22 “Joseph is a fruitful vine, a fruitful vine near a spring, whose branches climb over a wall. 23 With bitterness archers attacked him; they shot at him with hostility. 24 But his bow remained steady, his strong arms stayedlimber, because of the hand of the Mighty One of Jacob, because of the Shepherd, the Rock of Israel, 25 because of your father’s God, who helps you, because of the Almighty, who blesses you with blessings of the skies above, blessings of the deep springs below, blessings of the breast and womb. 26 Your father’s blessings are greater than the blessings of the ancient mountains, thanthe bounty of the age-old hills. Let all these rest on the head of Joseph, on the brow of the prince amonghis brothers. 27 “Benjamin is a ravenous wolf; in the morning he devours the prey, in the evening he divides the plunder.” 28 All these are the twelve tribes of Israel, and this is what their father said to them when he blessed them, giving each the blessing appropriate to him.

May the Spirit of Jesus illuminate God’s word for us.

Genesis 49:13-28

One of the themes explored by the film Forrest Gump is the question of whether our lives are subject to destiny. Is our storyalready written by some higher power, or is what happens to us just random?

Towards the end of the movie Forrest says this…

“I don’t know if Momma was right or if it’s Lieutenant Dan. I don’t know if we each have a destiny or if we’re all just floating around accidental-like on a breeze. But I think maybe it’s both.”

With last week’s message in mind, we might want to add that the choices we make affect our lives as well. Yes, there are things in this life that are beyond our control. We don’t always know what flavour chocolate we might get. But the principle that we reap what we sow also holds true.

In verse 13, Jacob says, “Zebulun will live by the seashore and become a haven for ships; his border will extend toward Sidon”.

Zebulun was Jacob’s tenth son, the youngest of the boys born to Leah. In this verse Jacob seems to be indicating the location of the land that will be allotted to Zebulun in Canaan. The problem is that history does not square with Jacob’s prediction.

Zebulun’s territory was landlocked with no sea in sight. Jacob’s prediction (if it is to be taken literally) fits better for Asher. So how do we explain this?

Has something been lost in translation? Did Jacob get it wrong? Did God change his mind? We simply do not know.

Personally, I like the anomaly. It suggests that a people’s destiny is not set in stone. Yes, some things about the future are predetermined. Jesus will return in glory one day. God’s kingdom will be realized on earth in its fullness. There will be a resurrection of the dead and a day of judgment.

But there is also some flexibility, some wriggle room. God, in his grace, gives us options. The choices we make do matter, for this life and the next.

Remembering that this is poetry, Jacob’s words may not be intended to support a literal reading. The image of one of the tribes of Israel being a haven for ships is quite beautiful really. It speaks of welcome and sanctuary for foreigners. It’s about making room for people who are not part of ethnic Israel.

After all, the people of God don’t exist exclusively for themselves. God intended Israel to be a blessing to the nations. Perhaps this is the destiny (or the purpose) Jacob had in mind for Zebulun.

In verses 14-15 Jacob addresses Issachar, his ninth son. Issachar is compared to a donkey lying down. This is a strange image. Donkeys are work animals, the ancient equivalent of a ute. And yet this donkey is resting. Donkeys were also symbolic, in ancient Israel, of peace (in contrast to warhorses).

Is Jacob saying that Issachar’s tribe will be peaceful but lazy? We can’t be sure. Verse 15 sheds more light though, saying, “he will bend his shoulder to the burden and submit to forced labour”, apparently to remain on the land.

The idea of forced labour suggests the tribe of Issachar will be oppressed at some point. If a people are oppressed, they basically have three options:

Fight back, find somewhere else to live or stay and submit.

Issachar’s tribe choose to stay and submit, such was their love for the land.

Submitting probably doesn’t seem as brave or patriotic as fighting back, but the tribe of Issachar’s choice to submit is not dishonourable. This is, in fact, what Jesus instructed his followers to do.

Jesus told the Israelites of his day to submit to Roman rule. Turn the other cheek. Walk the extra mile. Don’t take up arms against Rome for you will lose. ‘My kingdom’, said Jesus, ‘is not of this world.’  

Dan was Jacob’s fifth son, the eldest born to Bilhah. Jacob says that Dan will provide justice for the people of Israel. He will be like a snake that bites the horse’s heels so that its rider tumbles backward.

A snake generally attacks alone and by stealth, taking the horse and rider by surprise. It could be that Jacob is talking about Samson here. Samson was one of the Judges of Israel and part of the tribe of Dan. Samson had superhuman strength and a temper to match.

Samson did not sit in a court of law, following due process and passing verdicts. He wasn’t that kind of judge. Nor did he lead an army. Samson was more like Judge Dread. He acted alone as judge, jury and executioner. Samson’s justice was destructive. Issachar’s tribe submitted to oppression, but Samson (from the tribe of Dan) fought back.   

In verse 18 Jacob pauses to offer a prayer to God saying, “I look for your deliverance, Lord”. This is interesting. Even though Samson dealt some heavy blows to Israel’s enemies, he did not deliver Israel (not properly).

Violence begets violence. Revenge may provide relief from oppression for a short while but eventually the weeds of hate and injustice grow back.

Jacob was looking to the Lord to provide a lasting deliverance. Not an unreliable peace, brought about by brute force, but a permanent peace brought about by justice and mercy. Jesus is God’s answer to Jacob’s prayer for deliverance. Jesus is the Prince of peace.

In verse 19 Jacob says that Gad, his seventh son, the first born to Zilpah, will be attacked by a band of raiders, but he will attack them at their heels. Yet again we read of the sons of Israel facing opposition and attack.

The land allotted to Gad was on the border of Israel and was subject to raids from other people groups. Consequently, the tribe of Gad became renowned as warriors who defended the borders of Israel. Their symbol was a military tent.

The image of attacking the raiders at their heels suggests the raiders will be chased off by the tribe of Gad.  

Given what’s happening in Israel and Gaza at present, we may feel uncomfortable with this military imagery. I don’t understand the politics of the middle east so best not to share my ignorance on that subject.

I will say though that the Bible should not be hijacked or weaponized to serve a contemporary military / political agenda. Nor should we impose our twenty-first century context on the Old Testament. The world we live in is not the same as the ancient near east.  

If you want to take anything from Jacob’s words to his sons, take his prayer for the Lord’s deliverance. As followers of a crucified Messiah (who understands human suffering first hand) our role is to pray for God to deliver all sides from the war.     

In his letter to the Ephesians, the apostle Paul writes…

12 For our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against… the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly realms…

As Christians, who live in New Zealand, our fight is not a geo-political one. Our fight is a spiritual one. Our weapons are not guns and grenades. We protect ourselves with the belt of truth, the breastplate of righteousness, the shoes of peace, the shield of faith, the helmet of salvation and the sword of the Spirit.

They say that geography is destiny. Where you are born and where you live has a huge influence on what happens to you in this life. If you were born in New Zealand, then you won the lottery. Your destiny would look a lot different if you lived in the Ukraine. New Zealand is not perfect, but it is still a relatively good place to live. Our generation has the privilege of not needing to go to war.  

The tribe of Gad were not so fortunate. Located on the eastern border of Israel, they faced more armed conflict (in ancient times) than the tribe of Asher, who were situated out of harm’s way by the Mediterranean Sea.

Jacob says, Asher’s food will be rich; he will provide delicacies fit for a king. This is an image of prosperity. The soil of the land of Asher was particularly fertile.

The tribe of Asher was renowned for the abundance and quality of the olive oil they produced.  This oil was used in cooking and in religious rituals. It made the tribe of Asher rich. I’m reminded of the oil of God’s Spirit who enriches our lives and relationships.

In verse 21 Jacob comes to his sixth son, Naphtali. The name Naphtali means my struggle, my strife or wrestling. (Not the cutest name for a baby.) Jacob had more than his share of struggle and strife. He wrestled with God and man.

So, it is significant that Jacob says, “Naphtali is a doe set free that bears beautiful fawns”.  It’s like saying my struggle is over. My strife is finished. I am released from my wrestling match. The image here is one of deliverance from some ordeal. Jacob sees good things in store for the tribe of Naphtali.

In Luke 4, verse 18, Jesus said…

18 “The Spirit of the Lord is on me, because he has anointed me to proclaim good news to the poor. He has sent me to proclaim freedom for the prisoners and recovery of sight for the blind, to set the oppressed free…”   

It is through Jesus that we too can share in the blessing of Naphtali, to be set free from our struggle and strife.    

And so we come to Joseph, Jacob’s eleventh son and Rachel’s first. We need to remember that Jacob’s blessing for Joseph is also a blessing for Joseph’s two sons, Ephraim and Manasseh, who Jacob had adopted as his own.

In verse 22, Jacob describes Joseph as a fruitful vine near a spring, whose branches climb over a wall. There is some ambiguity with the original Hebrew here which means we should be cautious with our interpretation.

A fruitful vine that is well watered by a nearby spring so that its branches climb over a wall, speaks of vitality and abundance and growth. The vine and its fruit do not exist for its own sake. The vine exists to feed and sustain others. As Prime Minister of Egypt, Joseph’s outreach in feeding the nations was far and wide.

Looking further ahead from the time of Joseph, we note that Joshua (the great leader of Israel mentored by Moses) was descended from Joseph’s son, Ephraim. Joshua led the people of Israel in climbing walls and taking possession of the land.

But, even with this wonderful image of a fruitful vine, life was not plain sailing for Joseph. Joseph faced some serious opposition and so would his descendants. In verse 23 we read how archers attacked Joseph with hostility, but Joseph’s bow remained steady.  

I don’t know if you saw Country Calendar last Sunday. It featured a farmer from Southland who grows veges. The farmer was explaining his attitude to life. He said, when you are running with the ball (in rugby) you can expect to be tackled. When that happens, you get up again and carry on with the game.

When Joseph was running with the ball, his brothers (those on his own team) tackled him. But Joseph didn’t stay down. He got up and carried on with the game. Joseph was not rattled. His bow remained steady and his arms strong.   

But Joseph did not do this in his own strength. Joseph prevailed because the hand of God steadied him and blessed him and made him strong.

Do you remember Gideon from the time of the Judges, who famously laid a fleece? Well Gideon was also descended from Joseph, through Manasseh’s line. God’s hand steadied Gideon so he defeated thousands of Midianites with just 300 hundred men.

Like Judah, who we heard about last week, Joseph gets five verses, while most of the other brothers get just one or two verses. The descendants of Joseph would rule the northern tribes of Israel, just as the descendants of Judah would rule in the south.

Six times the word blessing is repeated in connection with Joseph and his descendants. Blessings of the skies above and blessings of the deep springs below is a poetic way of saying Joseph’s tribes will be surrounded by blessings wherever they go. It’s like that song, Love is all around me and so the feeling grows…

Blessings of breast and womb refer to sustenance and fertility. Joseph’s tribes will be large in numbers and well fed. And your father’s blessings, which are greater than the ancient mountains, speak to the resilience of the blessing Jacob gave Joseph and his sons. The blessing will last, like the hills.  

The poem finishes with Jacob’s words for Benjamin, his youngest son.

27 “Benjamin is a ravenous wolf; in the morning he devours the prey, in the evening he divides the plunder.”

Wolves have a fearsome reputation. But, as apex predators, they also have an important role to play in protecting the environment for all creatures. Without wolves, grazing animals would become too numerous and destroy the vegetation, upsetting the balance in nature.  

Unlike snakes, which are solitary creatures, wolves are communal. They normally hunt in packs, with a leader. This improves their chances of survival.

The tribe of Benjamin were known as skilled warriors, sort of like the special forces of ancient Israel. Perhaps the most famous descendant of Benjamin was king Saul, the first king of Israel.

Sadly, it did not end well for Saul. While king Saul had some early success, he also had a tendency to go rogue and act without reference to God. So the Lord gave the leadership to David, who was from the tribe of Judah. David was a shepherd, not a wolf.

Conclusion:

When we look back at Jacob’s words to his twelve sons, we notice that most of the descendants of Israel faced a destiny that included fighting or opposition of some kind. While Jacob certainly had good things to say to his boys, the blessings are mixed with hardship and difficulty.

Jesus’ message to his disciples was similar…

11 “Blessed are you when people insult you, persecute you and falsely say all kinds of evil against you because of me. 12 Rejoice and be glad, because great is your reward in heaven, for in the same way they persecuted the prophets who were before you.

This implies that the ultimate destiny for those who follow Jesus is a reward in heaven. But the road to that destiny is marked by opposition. May God give us strength to stand and hope to endure. Amen.

Questions for discussion or reflection:

  1. What stands out for you in reading this Scripture and/or in listening to the sermon? Why do you think this stood out to you?
  2. What did Forrest Gump mean when he said, ‘Life is like a box of chocolates…’? Do you agree? What ‘chocolates’ has life given you?
  3. Do you believe we each have a destiny or is life more random than that? Why do you believe this? What difference do our choices make?
  4. Of the twelve sons of Israel, who do you identify with the most and why? If you had a choice, which tribe would you want to be a part of? 
  5. How do you normally respond to conflict or opposition? What opposition do you face? What is your best strategy for managing this?
  6. What does Jacob mean when he prays, ‘I look for your deliverance, Lord’? What deliverance do you look for from the Lord?
  7. Where were you born? Where do you currently live? How has this shaped your destiny? 
  8. In what ways do the sons of Israel point to Jesus? In what ways are they different from Jesus?
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Character

Scripture: Genesis 49:1-12

Video Link: https://youtu.be/qYC-7kvaLCY

Structure:

  • Introduction
  • Jacob’s character
  • Reuben, Simeon & Levi’s character
  • Judah’s character
  • Conclusion

Introduction:

Good morning everyone.

The philosopher and poet, James Allen once wrote…

“The law of harvest is to reap more than you sow. Sow an act, and you reap a habit. Sow a habit and you reap a character. Sow a character and you reap a destiny.”  

When we talk about character, we mean the mental and moral qualities distinctive to a person. Character can be life giving and good or not.

As a general principle, if you are in the habit of being honest and kind, then you will develop an honest and kind character. And if you have an honest and kind character people will trust you and you will find yourself on the path to friendship and respect. Generally speaking, you will reap what you sow.   

Today we continue our series in the life of Joseph. We have come to that part in the story where Joseph’s father, Jacob, is on his death bed. Jacob knows he doesn’t have long and so he calls his sons together to speak with them.

Jacob gives each son an insight into their character and the destiny of their descendants. This is the future Jacob sees for each of the tribes of Israel. From Genesis 49, verses 1-12, we read…

Then Jacob called for his sons and said: “Gather around so I can tell you what will happen to you in days to come. 2 “Assemble and listen, sons of Jacob; listen to your father Israel. 3 “Reuben, you are my firstborn, my might, the first sign of my strength, excelling in honour, excelling in power. 4 Turbulent as the waters, you will no longer excel, for you went up onto your father’s bed, onto my couch and defiled it. 5 “Simeon and Levi are brothers—their swordsare weapons of violence. 6 Let me not enter their council, let me not join their assembly, for they have killed men in their anger and hamstrung oxen as they pleased. 7 Cursed be their anger, so fierce, and their fury, so cruel! I will scatter them in Jacob and disperse them in Israel. 8 “Judah, your brothers will praise you; your hand will be on the neck of your enemies; your father’s sons will bow down to you. 9 You are a lion’s cub, Judah; you return from the prey, my son. Like a lion he crouches and lies down, like a lioness—who dares to rouse him? 10 The sceptre will not depart from Judah, nor the ruler’s staff from between his feet, until he to whom it belongsshall come and the obedience of the nations shall be his. 11 He will tether his donkey to a vine, his colt to the choicest branch; he will wash his garments in wine, his robes in the blood of grapes. 12 His eyes will be darker than wine, his teeth whiter than milk.

May the Spirit of Jesus illuminate God’s word for us.

Jacob had twelve sons originally, before he adopted Joseph’s sons, Ephraim and Manasseh. We are not going to cover Jacob’s words for all twelve sons this morning. Just the first four, who were born to Jacob by his wife Leah.

Before we look more closely at what Jacob had to say about the character and destiny of Reuben, Simeon, Levi and Judah, first let’s consider Jacob’s character.

Jacob’s character:

The American author, H. Jackson Brown, is quoted as saying…

“Our character is what we do when we think no one is looking.”

Are you the same at church as you are at work or at home? Would you be okay with someone checking the search history on your computer? Have you ever walked out of a restaurant without paying? Or made a mess and left someone else to clean it up?

Our character is what we do when we think no one is looking.

As a young man, Jacob was inclined to deceit. He tricked his older brother Esau out of the birth-right and he lied to his father Isaac to secure a blessing. Jacob did not always demonstrate good moral character.    

Sow a character and you reap a destiny. Jacob’s deceit resulted in him having to run away from home to his uncle Laban. And Laban tricked Jacob out of seven years free labour. Jacob got a taste of his own character and he didn’t like it.  

Fast forward a few years and Jacob’s sons get rid of Joseph, then lie to Jacob to cover their tracks. Eventually the truth came out though. It always does.  

Jacob learned the hard way to be honest. Now, at the end of his life, Jacob does everything out in the open, for all to see and hear. Jacob calls his sons together. His words to them are not spoken in secret. Jacob does not fudge the truth. He speaks with absolute candor.

And as we have heard, some of what Jacob has to say about his sons’ character and destiny is not easy or pleasant.

The point here is that God transformed Jacob’s character. God changed Jacob from being a fraudster and a liar to being a prophet and a truth speaker. God wisely and patiently used the crucible of consequence to teach Jacob and refine his character.

God is able to do the same with us. God gives us the Spirit of Jesus, a Spirit of grace and truth, to help us in our character formation. Jesus’ Spirit gives us insight into the truth about ourselves and strength to form new habits that reform our character and put us on a path to a better destiny.

Okay, so that’s Jacob’s character. Let’s take a closer look now at Jacob’s three eldest sons, Reuben, Simeon and Levi. What did Jacob see in their character and destiny?

Reuben, Simeon and Levi’s character:         

John Locke, the 17th Century physician and philosopher, had this to say about character, “The discipline of desire is the background of character.”

John Locke is talking about self-control here. The ability to exercise restraint is essential to developing good character. Without self-control we can’t sow healthy habits that lead to good character.  

Let me tell you a tale from the Jungle Doctor stories. A small monkey called Tichi was fascinated by the curved beaks of vultures. One day, a vulture landed near Tichi in the family tree. Tichi stared at the bird and, when no one was looking, he threw it some food. Then he clapped and shouted, ‘be gone’.

The vulture flew off but the next day it returned with another vulture.

Again, Tichi threw the birds some food before clapping and shouting, ‘be gone’. This continued for a few days until there were so many vultures, Tichi was scared and started throwing stones at the birds.

The vultures grew bolder and bolder until, eventually, they closed in on Tichi who clapped and screamed in vain. In minutes the vultures had devoured the small monkey. Sadly, Tichi was not able to discipline his desire.

In verses 3 and 4, Jacob addresses Reuben, his eldest son. Reuben showed promise at first, excelling in strength and honour. Jacob had high hopes for Reuben. But those hopes were not realised. Reuben did not discipline his desire. Consequently, his character proved to be turbulent.      

The Hebrew root word, translated as turbulent, means to be insolent, proud, undisciplined, reckless, uncontrollable or unstable.

Reuben forfeited his rights as first-born son because he slept with one of his father’s concubines, Bilhah, the maid servant of his stepmother Rachel.

In other words, Reuben committed adultery with one of his father’s wives.

Reuben’s act of adultery didn’t happen by accident. Adultery doesn’t work like that. Reuben kept feeding the vultures of desire until one day he was overcome.

Reuben’s turbulent undisciplined unstable character resulted in him losing the privilege and responsibility of leading the family. From the perspective of Jacob’s other sons, this was a blessing. You don’t want people with a turbulent character in charge.

What about Simeon and Levi, Jacob’s second and third sons? Well, they didn’t fare much better. Verses 5-7 tell us Simeon and Levi shared a similar character, one shaped by violence and cruelty. Fair warning, what I’m about to say is not easy to hear. 

Simeon and Levi had a sister called Dinah. Back in the land of Canaan, Dinah made friends with some of the local girls. A young man by the name of Shechem took a fancy to Dinah and forced himself on her. Afterwards, he approached Jacob asking if he could marry Dinah.

Dinah’s brothers acted deceitfully. They insisted that Shechem and all the males in his family be circumcised first, before Shechem married Dinah. So, the men of Shechem were circumcised and, while they were still in pain, Simeon and Levi took their swords and killed every male in the town.

Then they carried off all their wealth and their women and children. This was an evil thing to do. Simeon and Levi did not discipline their desire for revenge and so they too forfeited the privilege and responsibility of leadership.

Now at the end of his life, Jacob says of Simeon and Levi, ‘Let me not enter their council, let me not join their assembly…’ Jacob wants nothing to do with that kind of behaviour.

Jacob was so disgusted with his sons that he cursed their anger. Notice though that Jacob does not curse his sons. He curses their anger and cruelty. Jacob is sending a clear message of what is acceptable for the people of God and what is not.   

Simeon and Levi had ended Shechem’s family line and so their own descendants would be scattered. This in fact happened. Centuries later, the Simeonites ended up living in various places throughout Canaan, while the Levites were dispersed throughout the land, serving as priests.

Two things we note with Jacob’s words to Reuben, Simeon and Levi. Firstly, Jacob does not cover up his sons’ crimes. Jacob does not sweep their evil deeds under the carpet. Nor does he excuse them.

Jacob brings what they did out into the open. As painful as this must have been it was necessary, like draining an abscess to prevent the infection from spreading.

We are reminded of the Royal Commission of Inquiry who, this past week, delivered its final report into abuse in care. This report is about bringing the truth into the open. Through pain and trauma. From darkness to light.

The second thing we note, is that despite Reuben, Simeon and Levi’s poor choices, Jacob did not exclude them or their descendants from the family or the nation of Israel. They still belonged to the people of God. This is grace. Truth with grace.

Judah’s character:

When Jacob comes to his fourth son, Judah, we note a positive change. Reuben, Simeon and Levi get five verses between them. Judah gets five verses all to himself. And it is good stuff too. Top shelf. No reprimand.

Kahlil Gibran once wrote, ‘Out of suffering have emerged the strongest souls; the most massive characters are seared with scars’. Is Kahlil Gibran saying that suffering develops character? Or is he saying that suffering reveals character?

Hmm? I’m not sure we can make a formula out of it. Too much suffering, at the wrong time, risks destroying good character, rather than building it. That said, God is able to use suffering to shape a person to serve his purpose.

Judah was a massive character, seared with scars. Some of those scars were his own doing, like when he sold Joseph into slavery and had to live with the guilt of causing his father Jacob untold grief.

Or the time he slept with his daughter-in-law (Tamar) thinking she was a prostitute. Judah tried to cover it up, but the truth came out and he was humiliated.

Other scars were not his doing though. Judah’s wife died before her time and then he lost two of his sons in short succession. Not his fault. But instructive all the same. Now he knew how his father felt losing Rachel, then Joseph.

Perhaps this was why Judah offered himself as a slave in Benjamin’s place, to save his father (Jacob) from further suffering. Would Judah have done this if he hadn’t suffered personal loss and humiliation? It is beyond our knowing.

What we do know is the future looked bright for Judah and his descendants.

Jacob’s words, in verses 8-10, make it clear that the tribe of Judah will lead the nation of Israel. In verse 8, Jacob says Judah’s brothers will praise him and bow down before him.

Also, that Judah’s hand will be on the neck of his enemies. This literally happened with king David, one of Judah’s descendants. David killed the Philistine, Goliath, cut his head off and lifted the giant’s head in victory.

The leadership imagery continues in verse 9 where Jacob refers to Judah as a lion. A lion is the king of the jungle, symbolic of sovereignty, strength and courage. Judah’s descendants (through the line of David) would become the ruling tribe among the southern tribes of Israel.

Jesus is the greater descendant of Judah though, for Jesus is the King of kings. In the book Revelation (at the end of the Bible) the apostle John has a vision in which one of the elders says to him, ‘Do not weep! See the Lion of the tribe of Judah, the Root of David, has triumphed…’  The Lion of the tribe of Judah refers to Jesus who has triumphed over sin and death.

Returning to Genesis 49, we find more leadership metaphors in verse 10 where Jacob says, ‘The sceptre will not depart from Judah, nor the ruler’s staff from between his feet, until he to whom it belongsshall come and the obedience of the nations shall be his’.

Many commentators believe this verse refers to Jesus, the Messiah, who will reign over all the nations of the earth. These words are pregnant with hope. Jacob foresees a time when people everywhere will obey God. This will be heaven on earth.     

The donkey in verse 11 is an image of peace. To ride a donkey (as opposed to a war horse) was a sign that the king comes in peace. David rode into Jerusalem on a donkey as did Jesus many centuries after him.

Tethering the donkey to a vine speaks of a settled life. The vine is often used as a metaphor for Israel. So, the idea here is that the people of God will one day enjoy stable peaceful government through the Messiah.

The picture of washing his garments in wine indicates abundance, like bathing in milk or feeding eye fillet steak to your dog. Excess wine also points to a time of great joy and celebration. 

We are reminded of Jesus’ first miracle at the wedding in Cana, where the Lord transformed over five hundred litres of water into fine wine. Jesus’ coming heralded abundance and joy.

In verse 12 Jacob says, ‘His eyes will be darker than wine, his teeth whiter than milk’. This is poetry. If your eyes and teeth are healthy then you are in good shape inside and out. Jacob is painting a picture of good health and vitality.

Not just good physical health but spiritual vitality as well.

Conclusion:

When we consider the character of Jacob and his sons we notice two things.

Firstly, character is not one dimensional. Human character has layers. We are a mixture.

When we are young, we don’t always know our own character very well.

We may think we are decent enough human beings until circumstance throws us a curve ball and we respond in a way that proves we are not as good as we thought we were. Most people as they get older have fewer illusions about their character. We call this process, ‘growth in self-awareness’.

In those moments, when you realise some flaw in your character, try to be kind to yourself. Know that God’s grace is sufficient for you. Yes, we each have shortcomings and gaps in our character. But we also have a basic God given goodness, for we are made in the image of God.

The second thing we learn from Jacob’s insights, in Genesis 49, is that character is not fixed. Human character is malleable, it can change, like clay in the potter’s hand. God in his wisdom is able to reform and refine our character. But it will probably hurt.

To be a Christian is to be on a journey with Jesus. This journey will inevitably change us if we stick with it. Our destiny is to become more Christ-like in our habits and character. To be transformed into his likeness, without losing our uniqueness.  

While some effort is required of us, I don’t believe we can achieve Christ-like character in our own strength. We need the help of God’s Spirit and God’s people. More than that, we need to rely on the goodness of Jesus’ character.

Let us pray…

Gracious God, grant us the serenity to accept the things we cannot change, the courage to change the things we can and the wisdom to know the difference. Through Jesus we pray. Amen.

Questions for discussion or reflection:

  1. What stands out for you in reading this Scripture and/or in listening to the sermon? Why do you think this stood out to you?
  2. What is character? How is character formed?
  3. How did Jacob’s character change over time? Why did Jacob speak his deathbed words to his sons in the open for all to hear?
  4. What role has suffering played (if any) in the (re)formation and refinement of your character? Can you think of a specific example?
  5. Discuss / reflect on the imagery of Jacob’s words to Judah, in verses 8-12.  In what ways do Jacob’s words here point to Jesus?
  6. What layers are you aware of in your character? Can you think of a time when you became aware of a character flaw? What happened? How did you deal with it? Would you handle things differently in future?
  7. If there was one thing about your character you would like to be different, what would it be? Is this something to change or something to accept? Give this to God in prayer.
Tawa Baptist

Blessed

Scripture: Genesis 48:13-20

Video Link: https://youtu.be/a4dc1e1e3Rs

Structure:

  • Introduction
  • Words of blessing
  • Hands of blessing
  • Conclusion

Introduction:

Good morning everyone.

“A bell is no bell ‘til you ring it. A song is no song ‘til you sing it. And love in your heart wasn’t put there to stay. Love isn’t love ‘til you give it away.”

Who can tell me what stage musical that song line comes from? [Wait]

That’s right, The Sound of Music. ‘Love isn’t love ‘til you give it away.’

This morning we continue our series in the life of Joseph. Last week we heard how Jacob adopted Joseph’s sons. In today’s reading Jacob blesses Joseph and his sons, Ephraim and Manasseh. We could say, “A blessing isn’t a blessing ‘til you give it away.” From Genesis 48, verse 13, we read…

13 And Joseph took both of them, Ephraim on his right toward Israel’s left hand and Manasseh on his left toward Israel’s right hand, and brought them close to him. 14 But Israel reached out his right hand and put it on Ephraim’s head, though he was the younger, and crossing his arms, he put his left hand on Manasseh’s head, even though Manasseh was the firstborn.  15 Then he blessed Joseph and said, “May the God before whom my fathers Abraham and Isaac walked faithfully, the God who has been my shepherd all my life to this day, 16 the Angel who has delivered me from all harm—may he bless these boys. May they be called by my name and the names of my fathers Abraham and Isaac, and may they increase greatly on the earth.” 17 When Joseph saw his father placing his right hand on Ephraim’s head he was displeased; so he took hold of his father’s hand to move it from Ephraim’s head to Manasseh’s head. 18 Joseph said to him, “No, my father, this one is the firstborn; put your right hand on his head.” 19 But his father refused and said, “I know, my son, I know. He too will become a people, and he too will become great. Nevertheless, his younger brother will be greater than he, and his descendants will become a group of nations.”  20 He blessed them that day and said, “In yourname will Israel pronounce this blessing: ‘May God make you like Ephraim and Manasseh.’” So he put Ephraim ahead of Manasseh.

May the Spirit of Jesus illuminate God’s word for us.

In these verses Jacob (also known as Israel) uses his words and his hands to bless Joseph’s sons. Let’s begin with Jacob’s words of blessing.

Words of blessing:

When I think of what it means to bless someone, I imagine some kind of tangible action which makes another person’s life better, or at least less difficult. For example, mowing their lawns or cooking them a meal or listening with understanding or doing some act of service to support them. In my mind, a blessing is a practical expression of love.

But this is not exactly the kind of blessing we find in Genesis 48. Jacob doesn’t do anything practical to make Ephraim and Manasseh’s life less difficult. Jacob simply speaks good words over their lives and places his hands on them. In this process though, something unseen yet powerful & lifegiving is communicated.

At the end of the service each week, someone (usually me) speaks a benediction (or a blessing) over the congregation. The word benediction has Latin origins. ‘Bene’ means well and ‘diction’ means speaking. So, a benediction is literally, ‘speaking well’ or ‘saying good things of someone’. [1] 

Our society today tends to discount words. We often use words carelessly or cheaply. But words have a certain power of their own, like seeds planted in our soul. We need to be sowing the seed of good words in people’s lives.  

Some years ago, when I was training for ministry, I spent a summer working as a chaplain at Greenlane Hospital, visiting patients. There was one man there, around my age, who was recovering from a stab wound.

He told me he was from Maketu, in the Bay of Plenty, not far from where I used to live. Sadly, he believed he was cursed. When he was young, an old woman pointed the bone at him and said some bad words over his life, the opposite of a benediction. Since then, he had been in and out of prison.

Words can be powerful things. What he needed was a blessing. What if that woman had spoken good words over his life, words of peace conveyed with warmth and love.

In verses 15 and 16 we read the words of blessing Jacob speaks over Joseph’s sons and, by extension, Joseph himself.

What we notice with Jacob’s blessing is the way God is front and center throughout. Four times God is referred to in the space of two verses. Jacob does not try to bless Ephraim and Manasseh in his own strength. He calls upon God Almighty to bless them.

Sometimes we Christians carry a heavy burden. We may feel like the weight of responsibility for blessing others rests squarely on our shoulders. It doesn’t. Any blessing (whether in word or deed) is done by God’s grace and in his power. We are simply vessels for carrying and imparting God’s blessing.

If the blessing is the tea, then you are the tea pot. The pot does not make the tea.  The pot merely holds the blessing while it brews. God makes the tea (or the blessing) and pours it out at the right time. 

As Paul says in his letter to the Corinthians, we have this treasure in jars of clay to show this all-surpassing power is from God and not from us.     

In verse 15, we notice how Jacob’s words about God are not an abstract theory with no grounding in life’s realities. Jacob’s blessing comes from his own experience of God and the experience of his fathers.

Jacob begins by saying, ‘May the God before whom my fathers Abraham and Isaac walked…’

This speaks of a God who transcends time and geography. The God who blesses people through Jacob was around a long time before Jacob came on the scene, and he will continue to be around long after Jacob has gone.

What’s more, God is not fixed in one place like a statue or a building.

God moves around with his people. He walks with them wherever they go.

When Jacob talks about his father and grandfather walking faithfully before God, he is probably alluding to God’s covenant with Abraham. God’s covenant called for loyalty and trust. Jacob wants Ephraim and Manasseh to understand that being blessed carries a responsibility to honour the covenant with God.  

In the next line Jacob gets personal saying, ‘…the God who has been my shepherd all my life to this day…’

Jacob, who made his living as a shepherd, talks about God being his shepherd.

I wonder if David took inspiration from Jacob when he wrote the 23rd Psalm. ‘The Lord is my shepherd, I shall not want…’

The image here is one of security. To be blessed by God means having God lead, feed and protect you, like a shepherd. This means, for the blessing to be effective, Joseph’s sons must trust God enough to follow where he leads.

In verse 16, Jacob talks about the angel who has delivered me from all harm.

Most commentators think the angel here is a poetic way of referring to God. The key word though is delivered. It can also be translated as redeemed.

As in the ‘kinsman redeemer’. The close relative who gets you out of trouble, who redeems your life from slavery and financial ruin. Boaz (in the story of Ruth) is the classic example of a kinsman redeemer.

Jacob knew God’s deliverance and redemption on more than one occasion. God delivered Jacob from Esau who wanted to kill him. God delivered Jacob from Laban, who wanted to cheat him. And God delivered Jacob from grief and despair by redeeming Joseph’s life.  

What we notice here is the way the God of Jacob closely resembles Jesus.

Jesus is the good shepherd who lays down his life for his sheep. Jesus is our kinsman redeemer.

Jacob frames God’s blessing of Ephraim and Manasseh in terms of great increase on the earth. This probably means having lots of descendants, which did happen over the centuries that followed.

The underlying principle at work in God’s blessing is abundant life. Abundant life may blossom in a whole variety of ways. Often ways that transcend the physical.   

When we think of Jesus, we note he died relatively young and had no biological children. Nevertheless, he has millions of spiritual descendants.

Jesus came that we may have life in all its fullness. Jesus was all for abundant life and fruitfulness. However, the path to life and blessing is not always smooth or pleasant. Jesus turns our understanding of blessing on its head.

Jesus described those who are poor in spirit as blessed because the kingdom of heaven belongs to them. Likewise, those who mourn are blessed because they will be comforted. And so on.

To be poor in spirit and to mourn is obviously not an ideal state of being.

But, as painful as it feels, being emptied by suffering and grief prepares us to receive God’s blessing. ‘A heart that is broken is a heart that is open.’ [2]

Okay, so those are Jacob’s words of blessing for Joseph’s sons. What about Jacob’s hands of blessing.

Hands of blessing:

Are you left or right-handed? Historically the left hand often carried negative connotations. The Latin word for ‘sinister’ means ‘on the left side’. And in English the word ‘left’ comes from the old Anglo-Saxon word for ‘weak’. In contrast, the right hand is associated with virtue and honour and being right.

In the Middle Ages lefties were, at times, thought to be cursed and in league with the devil, which resulted in burning at the stake.

The stigma and superstition of being left-handed carried over into the following centuries. King George the sixth, who was monarch of England from 1936 to 1952, was left-handed but his father (king George the fifth) forced him to write with his right hand.

Even today there is a certain negativity attributed to the left hand. For those who are familiar with the dating app, Tinder, you swipe right (so I’m told) if you like someone and you swipe left if you don’t. Right for accept’. Left for reject. Sounds quite brutal.  

Perhaps all this prejudice and superstition is because left-handed people are in the minority. It is thought that somewhere between 85-90 percent of people are right-handed, with only 10-15 percent being left-handed.

Now let me say, there is nothing wrong with being left-handed. You are not bad or cursed or anything else if you happen to be left-handed. Our handedness is simply a product of the way God makes us, like eye colour or being good with numbers or preferring savoury to sweet. God likes diversity.

In verse 13 we read how Joseph took great care to line his sons up correctly for Jacob. Joseph made sure his eldest son, Manasseh, was positioned to receive the right hand of blessing and Ephraim, the younger son, was positioned to receive Jacob’s left hand. Joseph believed (like most people of his time and culture) that the right hand of blessing was somehow better than the left hand.

But Jacob upset Joseph’s careful arrangement by crossing his hands over,

so the right hand of blessing went to Ephraim (the younger son) and the left hand of blessing went to Manasseh. Jumping ahead to verse 17, we read how Joseph was displeased by this.

The English translation is a bit soft here. The original Hebrew is stronger.

It says more literally that what Jacob did was evil in Joseph’s eyes. [3] 

It was like using the wrong name at a wedding.

Do you remember that episode from the TV show, Friends, when Ross is getting married to Emily but instead of using Emily’s name in his vows he uses Rachel’s name. (Rachel was one of Ross’ old girlfriends.) What Jacob did, in blessing the younger son with his right hand, was like that. A major faux pas. 

Joseph, who we know by now is very proper and righteous in all his ways, tries to correct his father, Jacob. Joseph tries to move Jacob’s right hand off Ephraim’s head and onto Manasseh’s head. Maybe Jacob is confused. Maybe his blindness has caused the mistake.

But the old man, Jacob, knows what he is doing. This is no mistake. Jacob says to Joseph, “I know, my son, I know. He too will become a people, and he too will become great. Nevertheless, his younger brother will be greater than he, and his descendants will become a group of nations.”

The text does not explain why Jacob crosses his hands. His actions are inexplicable just as God’s actions are often inscrutable. The hand of God is free to move and bless and shape history as he wishes.  God’s reasons do not bow to our cultural norms or traditions. God does not need to explain himself.

Jacob is not startled or angry with Joseph for interrupting him.

Jacob understands Joseph’s concern, without changing the decision.

The blessing is irreversible.

To his credit Joseph, now the ruler of Egypt, does not force Jacob’s hand.

In faith Joseph humbly accepts the father’s will, even if he cannot understand it. Note though that Ephraim and Manasseh both get the same words. Both brothers are blessed for the sake of Joseph. Only the younger is put first. 

In verse 19, Jacob talks about the younger brother (Ephraim) becoming greater than his older brother. What is greatness?

I’m reminded of the request of James and John, in Mark 10, to sit on Jesus’ left and right in his glory. It seems James and John had ambitions of greatness.

Jesus is not angry or impatient with them. Jesus graciously points out that they don’t know what they are asking. Then the Lord goes on to define greatness…

“…whoever wants to become great among you must be your servant, 44 and whoever wants to be first must be slave of all. 45 For even the Son of Man did not come to be served, but to serve, and to give his life as a ransom for many.”

According to Jesus the greatest is not the most powerful or the most successful or the most popular. Rather the greatest is the servant of all.

Joseph was the Prime Minister of Egypt and yet that did not make him the greatest. Joseph was the greatest among his brothers because he was the servant of all. God blessed many thousands of people through Joseph.

Conclusion:

Love in your heart wasn’t put there to stay. Love isn’t love ‘til you give it away.

On hearing that again we might focus on the giving it away part. But before we can give love away, we must first have it put there by someone. We must be open to receive love.

Jacob puts his love in Joseph’s heart by giving Ephraim and Manasseh his blessing. And, to their credit, they receive Jacob’s blessing in an attitude of quiet trust, just as they humbly accepted Jacob’s adoption of them.

It’s quite difficult in kiwi culture to properly receive words of love and blessing. When people speak good words to us, we often deflect or minimize their comments. Good words raise a red flag. Can I trust what they say or is this a sucker punch? Tall poppies get cut down in New Zealand.

As difficult as it may be, we need to learn to accept the blessing God wants to give. We cannot give to others something we have never experienced or received ourselves. We cannot conjure up blessings out of thin air.

If the tea pot refuses to let the tea and water in to brew, it will have nothing to pour out. Before you can bless others, you must be open to receiving God’s blessing. You must let God put his love in your heart.   

God’s blessing is often communicated by the power of his Spirit, through ordinary people. So, receiving God’s blessing means letting honest, trustworthy people speak good things into your life, into your soul.

May you be blessed this week with knowing and feeling God’s love and grace for you personally, deep in your heart. Amen. 

Questions for discussion or reflection:

  1. What stands out for you in reading this Scripture and/or in listening to the sermon? Why do you think this stood out to you?
  2. What do you think it means to bless someone? What does it mean to be blessed by God?
  3. What difference have good words (or bad words) made in your life? What was said to you and how did that affect you?
  4. What is Jesus’ take on blessing? With Jesus’ beatitudes in mind, are you on a path to blessing?
  5. Are you left or right-handed? What difference does it make?
  6. Why does Jacob cross his hands over when blessing Ephraim and Manasseh? What might this reveal about God’s ways? 
  7. What is Jesus’ take on greatness? Why was Joseph great?   
  8. Why is it important to receive the blessing God wants to give? How might we remain open to receive God’s blessing?

Outtakes

When Jacob says, in verse 16, ‘may they be called by my name’, he means may Ephraim and Manasseh be reckoned among the twelve tribes of Israel, with a share in God’s covenant promises to Abraham. This is an affirmation of Jacob’s adoption of Joseph’s sons, which we heard about last week.

[1] Refer Henri Nouwen’s book, ‘Life of the Beloved’, page 56.

[2] This is a lyric from a U2 song, by Bono.

[3] Refer Bruce Waltke’s commentary on Genesis, page 600.

Tawa Baptist

Adopted

Scripture: Genesis 48:1-12

Video Link:  https://youtu.be/nSRh04MBs78

Structure:

  • Introduction
  • Why Jacob Adopts (1-7)
  • How Jacob Adopts (8-12)
  • Conclusion

Introduction:

Good morning everyone.

Last week we had a dedication ceremony for Micah. And next week we have a graduation ceremony for those children moving up a level in Kids’ Church.

Ceremonies like this help to mark special occasions. Ceremonies are a way of saying this is important. This matters. More than that, ceremonies bring things into effect. They make it official. 

We have ceremonies for all sorts of occasions. Weddings, funerals, baptisms, becoming a citizen, bestowal of awards, ANZAC day, powhiri, and so on.

While people of faith usually value ceremonies and find meaning in them, mainstream society, in general, is relatively casual in its approach. Most people today don’t think the ceremony is that important.   

This is quite different from the attitude of people in the ancient world. In Biblical times things were not complete, they weren’t done properly, until a ceremony had taken place. Ceremonies were a must have.

This morning we continue our series in the life of Joseph. Last week we heard about the ceremony Jacob used to update his Will. And next week we will read about Jacob’s special blessing ceremony. Today’s reading though focuses on an adoption ceremony. From Genesis 48, verse 1, we pick up the story…    

Some time later Joseph was told, “Your father is ill.” So he took his two sons Manasseh and Ephraim along with him. 2 When Jacob was told, “Your son Joseph has come to you,” Israel rallied his strength and sat up on the bed.

3 Jacob said to Joseph, “God Almighty appeared to me at Luz in the land of Canaan, and there he blessed me 4 and said to me, ‘I am going to make you fruitful and increase your numbers. I will make you a community of peoples, and I will give this land as an everlasting possession to your descendants after you.’ 5 “Now then, your two sons born to you in Egypt before I came to you here will be reckoned as mine; Ephraim and Manasseh will be mine, just as Reuben and Simeon are mine. 6 Any children born to you after them will be yours; in the territory they inherit they will be reckoned under the names of their brothers. 7 As I was returning from Paddan, to my sorrow Rachel died in the land of Canaan while we were still on the way, a little distance from Ephrath. So I buried her there beside the road to Ephrath” (that is, Bethlehem).

8 When Israel saw the sons of Joseph, he asked, “Who are these?”

9 “They are the sons God has given me here,” Joseph said to his father.

Then Israel said, “Bring them to me so I may bless them.” 10 Now Israel’s eyes were failing because of old age, and he could hardly see. So Joseph brought his sons close to him, and his father kissed them and embraced them. 11 Israel said to Joseph, “I never expected to see your face again, and now God has allowed me to see your children too.” 12 Then Joseph removed them from Israel’s knees and bowed down with his face to the ground.

May the Spirit of Jesus illuminate God’s word for us.

In this passage Jacob adopts Joseph’s two sons, Ephraim and Manasseh.

In verses 1-7 Jacob explains why he is adopting two of his grandsons. And in verses 8-12 we read how Jacob adopts. That is, the ceremony of adoption. Let’s begin with Jacob’s explanation of why he is adopting Ephraim and Manasseh.  

Why Jacob adopts:

Normally when we think of adoption, we imagine a couple who want to have children but for whatever reason can’t, so they go through the long and difficult process of adopting kids. 

Or we might think of Whaangai, a Maori tradition, in which a child is raised by grandparents or someone in their wider whaanau.

Jacob’s adoption is not the same as either of these scenarios. It does have a formal, legal aspect to it and it is a family type adoption. However, Ephraim and Manasseh are no longer small children in need of care. Nor is Jacob able to take care of them.

We know from the end of Genesis 47 that Jacob was near death and verse 1 of Genesis 48 tells us that Jacob was ill. This is the first time in the Bible that illness is mentioned.  

Sometimes we get a warning that death is imminent. Other times death comes out of the blue, as a complete shock. Illness can serve as a prompt to get our affairs in order. It also gives family members the opportunity to say goodbye.   

In any case, Jacob is in no condition to take care of grandchildren. He needs his family to take care of him. So why is Jacob (at a 147) wanting to adopt Joseph’s sons, who are now in their early 20’s and hardly in need of looking after.

Well, in ancient times it was common practice that the eldest son received a double portion of the estate when the father died. By adopting Joseph’s sons, Jacob is effectively blessing Joseph with a double portion of the inheritance, even though Reuben is the eldest of Jacob’s sons.

To put it another way, Joseph’s two eldest sons will be reckoned as Jacob’s two eldest sons. So, the descendants of Manasseh and Ephraim will receive an allotment of land in Canaan. In this way, Jacob gives Reuben’s double share to Joseph. Reuben and Simeon don’t miss out though. They still get a share.

So as to avoid a family dispute later on, Jacob sets out a sound spiritual and legal basis for his decision.

In verses 3 and 4, Jacob remembers God’s promises to him. Although Jacob is not currently in possession of the land, he looks forward in faith to that time when God will increase his numbers and give his descendants the land as an everlasting possession.

Jacob is connecting his adoption of Joseph’s sons to God’s promises. This adoption is an example of Jacob’s faith expressing itself in love. You can’t get a better reason than that.

By quoting what God said to him, Jacob is also reminding people of his credentials. None of Jacob’s sons can say they have heard God speak to them in the way Jacob has. And since there is no higher authority than God Almighty, Jacob’s decision cannot be contested by his sons. 

In verse 7 Jacob talks about the premature death of his wife Rachel. At first glance we might think this is an old man getting a bit lost in his memories and digressing from his main point. But it’s not. Jacob is right on point with this comment about Joseph’s mother.

Jacob is drawing attention to the fact that, because Rachel died relatively young (while still of childbearing age), he missed the opportunity to have more children by her.

In the cultural thinking of the ancient near east, when Jacob adopted Joseph’s sons, Manasseh and Ephraim also become Rachel’s sons. And as such they take the place (posthumously) of other children Rachel may have had to Jacob, if she had lived longer. [1]

That argument wouldn’t stand up in the family courts today, but it made for solid case law in Old Testament times.      

Did you know the head of a dandelion actually consists of many small flowers. A single dandelion head is a community of flowers. Jacob’s family in Egypt was a bit like a dandelion. It was a community of people soon to multiply and grow.

When we think of this adoption from Manasseh and Ephraim’s point of view, we begin to appreciate what Jacob did for them personally.

Joseph’s sons were not like their cousins. They had never set foot in Canaan. They had been born and raised in Egypt and they had an Egyptian mother. Maybe they struggled to speak the Hebrew language. Perhaps they felt like strangers in their own family.       

Being adopted by their grandfather would have given Manasseh and Ephraim a deep sense of belonging. It would have strengthened their Hebrew identity, giving them an honoured place in the dandelion head of Jacob’s family.   

Okay, so we have heard why Jacob adopts Joseph’s sons. Now let’s consider how Jacob adopts Ephraim and Manasseh. In verses 8-12 we catch a glimpse of the adoption ceremony.

How Jacob Adopts:

What do these four things have in common: a wedding, a baptism, a powhiri and a funeral? [Wait]

That’s right, they are all ceremonies. Each of these ceremonies involves spoken words and symbolic actions. And you’ll notice that each of these ceremonies create connections. They bring people together and form a bridge from one state of being to a new state of being.  

With a wedding, two people’s lives become one and two families come together. As the couple exchange vows and rings and a kiss, they enter a new state of being, marriage.

With a baptism, the person being baptized is joined to Christ and they become a part of the people of God, the church. Words are pronounced over the baptismal candidate and water is used as a symbol of cleansing and rebirth.

With a powhiri the manuhiri (or the guests) are properly welcomed onto the Marae and are joined with the mana whenua (the people of that place). Speeches and waiata are exchanged and then people line up to hongi before having a kai.  

With a funeral ceremony the body of the deceased is being returned to the earth and their spirit is committed to God. A funeral marks the transition from one state of being to another. From this life to the next. Eulogies are given, words of committal are spoken and flowers or dirt are put on the coffin.

In verses 8-12 of Genesis 48, we catch a glimpse of the formal ceremony Jacob uses to adopt Joseph’s sons. This adoption ceremony is serious business. It has all the gravity and sacredness of a marriage ceremony or a baptism. Manasseh and Ephraim enter a new state of being. They become Jacob’s sons. 

When Jacob says, in verse 8, “Who are these?” It’s not that Jacob doesn’t know who Manasseh and Ephraim are (even if he is a bit blind). It’s simply that the adoption ceremony follows this formal ritual.

Sort of like a wedding ceremony when the celebrant says, “Who gives this woman to be married?” And the parents say, “We do”.  Everyone in the room knows who the parents of the bride are but you still say the words to complete the protocol.

Joseph answers his father saying, “They are the sons God has given me here”.

Then Joseph brings his sons close to Jacob. If the boys weren’t grown men, Joseph might put them on Jacob’s knees. More likely, in this situation, Manasseh and Ephraim stand between Jacob’s knees, while Jacob sits on the edge of the bed.

The symbolism here is of a child coming from a parent’s loins. It’s like saying, ‘You have the same standing as a biological child. You are my blood’.

Jacob then embraces and kisses Joseph’s sons. Again, this might be a symbolic gesture similar to a wedding ceremony when the celebrant says, “You may kiss the bride”. Except the kiss of adoption will be that of a father and not a spouse.

And, as verse 11 indicates, the embrace and the kiss are not just for show. Jacob is expressing real warmth and love for Ephraim and Manasseh. He is also expressing gratitude to God.

For people of faith, a ceremony is empty if God is not in it. Although God is unseen, he is the most important person in the room and needs to be acknowledged as such.  

We are talking here of the sacramental aspect of ceremonies. In simple terms, a sacrament is something which conveys the presence and power of God. Christians believe it is the presence of God which makes the ceremony effective.

By way of analogy, imagine a bottle of wine. The ceremony is like the bottle and God’s presence and power is like the wine. A ceremony without God’s presence is like an empty bottle of wine. The purpose of the ceremony is only fulfilled when the wine of God’s Spirit is present.

Sacraments come in many forms. Marriage can be a divine sacrament when the Spirit of Jesus is active in the relationship to foster respect and intimacy.

Likewise, musical worship can be a sacrament when the Spirit of Jesus transports us to a place of deeper communion with God.

Enjoying a cup of tea and a good chat with a friend can also be a sacrament, when words of grace and truth are spoken, and loneliness is cast out. 

The church, the people of God, are a sacrament to the world

With any sacrament there is an element of mystery. We don’t know how God conveys his presence and power, but on a spiritual level we sense the Lord has communicated something of himself.

With Jacob’s adoption ceremony, God’s presence and power is honoured throughout. In verse 9, Joseph acknowledges that his children are a gift from God. And, in verse 11, Israel (aka Jacob) acknowledges God with gratitude for allowing him to see Joseph again and to adopt Joseph’s sons.

God’s presence and power is around us all the time, at church, at home, at school, at work, in the car or on the train. Sometimes though we are in too much of a hurry to notice the sacred in the everyday. Sometimes we need to slow down and be still so we can enjoy God’s presence in the simple things.

In verse 12, the adoption ceremony ends when Joseph removes his sons from (between) Jacob’s knees, before bowing down with his face to the ground.

It is unclear whether Joseph is bowing down to honour his father, Jacob, or to worship God. Perhaps it is both.

Joseph is thanking his father for blessing him with a double portion, by adopting his sons. And, at the same time, Joseph is acknowledging God Almighty who made this possible.

We note that Ephraim and Manasseh say nothing. They are led by their father Joseph and humbly receive what their grandfather Jacob wants to give them. Throughout the process they trust themselves to Joseph and Jacob.

Ephraim and Manasseh provide a model for us. As believers in Christ, we are led by the Spirit of Jesus and we humbly receive what God the Father wants to give, in an attitude of trust.  

Conclusion:

In his letter to the Romans, Paul reminds us how we are adopted by God. From Romans 8, verse 14, we read…

14 For all who are led by the Spirit of God are sonsand daughters of God. 15 For you did not receive the spirit of slavery to fall back into fear, but you have received the Spirit of adoption as sons and daughters, by whom we cry, “Abba! Father!” 16 The Spirit himself bears witness with our spirit that we are children of God, 17 and if children, then heirs—heirs of God and fellow heirs with Christ,   

Let’s sit with that for a little bit. Through your faith in Jesus, you are adopted into God’s family. You stand to inherit the kingdom of heaven. Your identity is in Christ. Your place of belonging is the kingdom of God. You are royalty. You are special. You were bought with a price. You are loved more than you can imagine.

As those who have put their faith is Jesus, our everlasting possession is not an acreage of dirt in the middle east. Our everlasting possession is an inheritance in the kingdom of heaven.

Like Manasseh and Ephraim, we have done nothing to earn or deserve this.

It is only by the amazing grace of God. All we can do is humbly accept God’s adoption of us through faith in Jesus and by the sacrament of God’s Spirit.

May God bless you with an awareness of his presence and power at work in your life every day. Amen.    

Questions for discussion or reflection:

  1. What stands out for you in reading this Scripture and/or in listening to the sermon? Why do you think this stood out to you?
  2. What is your attitude (or feeling) in relation to ceremonies? Are they a must have, or just an optional extra? Thinking of your own experience, what kinds of ceremonies have you found meaningful? Why was that?
  3. Why does Jacob adopt Joseph’s sons?
  4. Where does your sense of belonging and identity come from?
  5. What are some of the key elements in Jacob’s adoption ceremony?
  6. What is a sacrament? When are you aware of God’s presence and power at work in your life?
  7. What can we learn from Manasseh and Ephraim’s example?  

[1] Refer Bruce Waltke’s commentary on Genesis, page 597.

Tawa Baptist

Migration

Scripture: Genesis 46 and 47:9-10

Video Link: https://youtu.be/g5QAMDXeqms

Introduction:

Good morning everyone.

Over recent years there has been an increase in migration around the world.

Stats New Zealand estimate new arrivals to Aotearoa to be around 239,000 people, which is a 39% increase on the previous year. Departures are up by 31%, with nearly 128,000 people leaving. This equates to a net gain of over 111,000 people coming to live in New Zealand.   

These migration statistics represent a lot of movement. A lot of change.

But they don’t tell the whole story. Often people move countries because the situation in their homeland has become intolerable and they want a better life for their family.

Whatever the reason for migrating, it is not easy to leave loved ones and all that is familiar to establish yourself in a new land, where the language and culture are different. It takes courage and faith. Many of you here know that from your own experience.

Today we continue our series in the life of Joseph. This week, in Genesis 46, we read about the migration of Jacob’s family from the land of Canaan to Egypt. From verse 1 of Genesis 46 we read…

So Israel set out with all that was his, and when he reached Beersheba, he offered sacrifices to the God of his father Isaac. 2 And God spoke to Israel in a vision at night and said, “Jacob! Jacob!” “Here I am,” he replied.

3 “I am God, the God of your father,” he said. “Do not be afraid to go down to Egypt, for I will make you into a great nation there. 4 I will go down to Egypt with you, and I will surely bring you back again. And Joseph’s own hand will close your eyes.”

5 Then Jacob left Beersheba, and Israel’s sons took their father Jacob and their children and their wives in the carts that Pharaoh had sent to transport him. 6 So Jacob and all his offspring went to Egypt, taking with them their livestock and the possessions they had acquired in Canaan. 

May the Spirit of Jesus illuminate God’s word for us.

Over the past few months, the Deacons and I have been giving careful thought to the church’s insurance policy. Back in February we received an enormous insurance bill. Tens of thousands of dollars more than we were expecting.

At our church meeting next week, we plan to present a proposal for restructuring our insurance cover to bring the premium cost down.

[If you want to see the proposal before the meeting, then we have left copies on the foyer table or you can ask me and I’ll email you the information.]

On one level this is a financial decision. But at a deeper level, it’s also a spiritual decision. Our enormous insurance bill raises some fundamental questions about where our attachments lie. As a church, where do we place our security? In what (or whom) do we put our trust?

Kiwi culture values land. We like to own a piece of dirt and put a building on it. We don’t like to rent. Ownership of land and buildings make us feel safe, secure.

This being said, the church is not the buildings. The church is the people. The church is the quality of our relationships together, in and through Christ.      

Yes, the church’s buildings are useful. They provide a place to gather for worship and fellowship. And yes, we want to take care of the buildings. We want to be good stewards and manage our risk as best we can.

But if our attachment to the land and buildings becomes greater than our attachment to Jesus and one another, then we have lost our way. As followers of a Messiah who had nowhere to lay his head, our trust and our security needs to be in the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ.

As important as the land of Canaan was to Jacob, he was more attached to God and his family. Jacob’s trust and security was in the Lord of all the earth.

But it had not always been that way. As a young man Jacob coveted the land. He wanted to possess the land so badly that he cheated his twin brother, Esau, out of the birthright and blessing. In the process he destroyed trust with his brother and was forced to flee for his life to Haran, to work for his uncle Laban.

On leaving Canaan the first time, the young Jacob had a dream at Bethel in which he saw angels ascending and descending on a stairway. In the dream God promised to give Jacob and his descendants the land of Canaan. God’s promise gave Jacob hope and enabled him to leave the land he loved knowing he would be back one day with a family of his own.

Some twenty years later, when Jacob returned with wives and children, he wrestled all night with a man at the boundary to the land of Canaan. In the morning the man asked Jacob to let him go but Jacob refused saying, “I will not let you go unless you bless me”.

Jacob did not let go easily. The man said to Jacob, “Your name will no longer be Jacob, but Israel, because you have struggled with God and with men and have overcome”. Then the man blessed Jacob. Afterwards, Jacob realised he had been wrestling with God.

Now, in Genesis 46, a much older Jacob is leaving Canaan again and it is no small thing. So much of Jacob’s life has been wrapped up in the promised land. Now Jacob is needing to let go of the land and letting go is not easy for Jacob. There is risk involved. What if he loses the land?   

Feeling the gravity of the situation, Jacob offers sacrifices at Beersheba, once again near the boundary. He is seeking God’s blessing before he crosses over to Egypt. Is it okay for me to leave?

And God responds with a vision in the night, telling Jacob not to be afraid.

God reassures Jacob of his presence saying, “I will go down to Egypt with you”.

God is not restricted by geography. He is Lord of all the earth.

God goes on to say, “I will make you a great nation there”. Jacob’s family, at this point, is not really a nation. It’s more like the embryo of a nation. It was God’s purpose for the nation of Israel to live and grow in the womb of Egypt for around 430 years, before returning to the promised land.

With the reassurance that God travels with him, Jacob leaves the land of Canaan and goes with his family to Egypt. This is an act of faith on Jacob’s part. It demonstrates that Jacob’s security is in the Lord. As important as the land is to Jacob, he has a greater attachment to God and his family.

God is Jacob’s insurance. Jacob believes God will restore the promised land to his descendants one day.       

Jacob’s experience reminds us of Jesus. In Matthew 2, Jesus’ earthly father, Joseph, had a dream in which an angel of the Lord told him to take Mary and Jesus and go to Egypt to escape king Herod. Like Israel, Jesus lived in Egypt for a while, before returning to Nazareth after Herod had died.  

Jesus knows what it is to be a migrant and a refugee. Jesus knows how it feels to be displaced, forced to leave your homeland. 

The kiwi band, Six60, have a song called, Don’t forget your roots.

It’s about the importance of remembering where you come from and taking care of your family relationships. The chorus reads…

“Don’t forget your roots my friend, don’t forget your family,

Don’t forget your roots my friend, the ones who made you,

The ones who brought you here, don’t forget your roots…”

It is important to remember our roots and to take care of our family relationships because if we don’t, we can lose our sense of identity, we can forget who we are and become lost, adrift from what is true.

Whakapapa is the Maori word for genealogy. In English, it translates to something like, ‘place in layers’ or ‘create a foundation’. A person’s whakapapa links them to their ancestors, to their tribe and to their land.  

Whakapapa or genealogy is important in the Bible. Genesis is peppered with layers of names which create a foundation and make connections. Two of the gospels (Matthew and Luke) give Jesus’ whakapapa, linking our Lord to the tribe of Judah and even further back to Adam and therefore to all of humanity.    

In Genesis 46, verses 8-25, we are given the list of names of those descended from Jacob, who left Canaan and settled in Egypt for a while. This Hebrew whakapapa provides a kind of foundation for the nation of Israel.

It helps Jacob’s descendants to remember who they are and where they come from. It strengthens their sense identity, so they don’t forget their roots or become lost in a foreign land.

Now you may be relieved to know that I don’t plan to read out all the names. You can do that later, at your leisure. But I will make a couple of observations.

Firstly, there are no illegitimate children in this list. All of Jacob’s children are named and given a place of honour. Those of you who know your Bibles will remember that Jacob fathered children to four women. He had two wives, Leah and Rachel. And they each had two handmaids who, at Rachel & Leah’s insistence, also had children by Jacob.     

The children of the handmaids are not treated as less, in any way. They are valued members of Jacob’s family and of God’s people. With God, there is no such thing as an illegitimate child.  

Now it needs to be acknowledged that Jacob practiced polygamy and

polygamy is not ideal. Just because some of the Bible’s heroes had more than one wife, at the same time, it does not follow that the Bible recommends it.

More often the Bible portrays polygamy as a cautionary tale, something to be avoided. Nevertheless, God in his grace accommodated it for a time. God worked with the choices human beings made to create the nation of Israel.

Verse 27 tells us that 70 members of Jacob’s family went down to Egypt. Seventy, in ancient Hebrew thought, is the ideal number symbolizing completeness. The nation of Israel, in miniature, is represented here as ideal.

When we look back at the dysfunction in Jacob’s family. The lies, the hatred, the envy and rivalry, we may wonder how the Bible can represent this messed up family as ideal.

Well, it seems the text is making a point. Despite a less than ideal past, a profound healing has taken place within the family so that they can be reunited again. Not just geographically reunited but restored in their relationships.

We might think of Jacob’s family as a patchwork quilt. Before the quilt is sewn together it looks like a bunch of random rags destined for the scrap bin. But when God brings all the different shapes and sizes and colours of human fabric together, it becomes a thing of beauty and usefulness.   

We catch a glimpse of the healing, restoring work of God in verses 28-30 of Genesis 46, when Jacob is reunited with his son Joseph…

28 Now Jacob sent Judah ahead of him to Joseph to get directions to Goshen. When they arrived in the region of Goshen, 29 Joseph had his chariot made ready and went to Goshen to meet his father Israel. 

As soon as Joseph appeared before him, he threw his arms around his fatherand wept for a long time. 30 Israel said to Joseph, “Now I am ready to die, since I have seen for myself that you are still alive.”

Although Jacob says he is ready to die, he actually goes on living for a number of years. Jacob is basically saying he is satisfied with his life. He has received his son back from the dead and it is well with his soul.

Joseph does not say anything at first. He weeps, for a long time. Joseph’s tears communicate more powerfully than words. Joseph’s tears speak to the depth of his suffering and love. Joseph has not forgotten his roots. He is at home in the arms of his father, even if they are in a strange land.

It’s interesting that the first thing Joseph attends to here is his emotions.

He has a good cry. After (and only after) he has attended to his emotions, does Joseph attend to the practical task of settling his family in Egypt and giving them security in Goshen.

Most men, in the time and culture I was raised in, did not give priority to their emotions. Feelings were this annoying thing that got in the way of being a man. The problem is, if we treat our feelings with contempt, they often return with a vengeance, in the form of anger. And so what you get is a lot of angry young men. Things are different these days, but there was a time when anger was the only acceptable feeling for a Kiwi bloke.   

In Joseph though we are given a different model, a better example. In Joseph we see a powerful and successful man who manages his emotions well. Joseph gets things done by wisdom and patience, not violence or force.

Joseph reminds us of Jesus. Jesus also gave priority to taking care of his feelings. Before Jesus raised Lazarus from the dead, he wept. Only after Jesus had faced his feelings did he get on with the practical task of bringing Lazarus back to life. We do well to remember that tears often precede new beginnings.

After attending to his emotions, Joseph makes arrangements for his family to settle in Goshen. Shepherding was the family business and Goshen was a region in Egypt that was suitable for shepherding. There is more than enough change migrating to a new country. Best (if possible) to keep some things familiar, like the work you do. Stick to the knitting, as they say. 

Joseph is careful to do everything above board. There is no deceit with Joseph. He doesn’t sneak his family into Egypt. He gets Pharaoh’s permission, instructing his brothers to be honest with Pharaoh about what they do for a living. Then Pharaoh will allow them to settle in Goshen.

Joseph’s approach is very different from that of his great-grandfather, Abraham. When Abraham went to Egypt, he lied to Pharaoh because he was afraid. Joseph has learned from Abraham’s mistake. Joseph is respectful of Pharaoh and his authority. He speaks the truth and trusts the outcome to God.   

The note, in verse 34, that all shepherds are detestable to Egyptians suits Israel well. It means the Egyptians will keep some distance between themselves and Jacob’s family. This will enable God’s people to preserve their identity and not be assimilated into Egyptian culture.   

It is similar with the followers of Jesus. We are to be in the world but not of it. We are to preserve our distinctive identity in Christ and not be assimilated by the prevailing culture. We are to keep our saltiness.

In Genesis 47, Joseph introduces his father to Pharaoh and Jacob blesses Pharaoh, twice it appears.

We are reminded here of God’s promise to bless the nations through Abraham and his descendants. God does, quite literally, bless Pharaoh and all of Egypt through Jacob and Joseph, the direct descendants of Abraham. 

Conclusion:

This morning we have heard how Jacob and his family migrated to Egypt. While the promised land of Canaan was important to him, ultimately Jacob’s security was in the Lord. Jacob was more attached to God and his family than he was to the land. 

But in migrating to Egypt, Jacob and his family did not forget their roots. They remembered who they were as God’s covenant people. By preserving their identity and staying true to God’s purpose for them, they blessed the people of Egypt.

Today is Pentecost, a special Sunday in the church calendar when we celebrate the gift of the Holy Spirit and the birth of the church. When Jesus’ disciples received the Holy Spirit 2000 years ago, they were mobilised to migrate from Jerusalem to the ends of the earth, blessing the nations as they took the message about Jesus with them.   

By the power of God’s Spirit, a new nation was born and has grown around the world. This nation of people, who are known as Christians, is not bound to a particular piece of land or to a particular ethnic genealogy.

Whether we were born here or moved here, as the people of God, we are all pilgrims (or migrants) in this world, connected across time and space by the Spirit of Christ. 

Let me finish now with a blessing for you. This prayer was written by Gustavo Santos, of Vancouver…

The Lord of the Nations has brought you here and he has protected you through many challenges. Even though you might be invisible to those around you, remember that the Creator sees you. And even though you might not be able to express yourself in a new language, remember that the Creator hears you. As you go into the world, extend his love through the work you do. Welcome those who don’t look like you. Serve those who may persecute you. Seek justice wherever God takes you. Keep your head high and your heart soft, knowing that you belong regardless of where you are. Because in God’s kingdom, nobody is a stranger. Amen.

Questions for discussion or reflection:

  1. What stands out for you in reading this Scripture and/or in listening to the sermon? Why do you think this stood out to you?
  2. Have you ever migrated from one country to another? (Or from one city to another, within the same country?) How did you feel? What was helpful to you in the process of migration?
  3. How do you imagine Jacob felt when he was leaving Canaan? How did Jacob deal with his migration?
  4. Discuss / reflect on God’s words to Jacob in Genesis 46:2-4. What do you need / want God to say to you?
  5. Why does Genesis contain genealogies?  What is significant about the genealogy of Jacob’s family in Genesis 46? What is significant about Jesus’ genealogy in Matthew & Luke?
  6. Why does Joseph weep when he is reunited with his dad? What happens if we don’t take care of our feelings? What practical things can we do to look after our emotions?
  7. What was the long-term consequence of the gift of the Spirit at Pentecost?       Why does Jesus send his Spirit upon people today?
Tawa Baptist

Release

Scripture: Genesis 45

Video Link: https://youtu.be/4dUdkpcGHH8

Structure:

  • Introduction
  • Release
  • Renewal
  • Conclusion

Introduction:

Good morning everyone.

Paul Tournier, the Christian physician, once said…

“Nothing makes us so lonely as our secrets.”

A secret prevents us from getting close to people. A secret makes parts of ourselves invisible to others so that we are misunderstood, not fully known, not fully loved or accepted. A secret opens our mind to fear and closes our heart to intimacy. Nothing makes us so lonely as our secrets.

Today we continue our series in the life of Joseph, focusing on Genesis 45. Joseph’s brothers have been living with a secret for 22 years and the sense of loneliness and alienation has taken its toll. Joseph also has a secret, the weight of which has now become too heavy to bear. From Genesis 45, verse 1, we read…

1 Then Joseph could no longer control himself before all his attendants, and he cried out, “Have everyone leave my presence!” So there was no one with Joseph when he made himself known to his brothers. 2 And he wept so loudly that the Egyptians heard him, and Pharaoh’s household heard about it.  3 Joseph said to his brothers, “I am Joseph! Is my father still living?” But his brothers were not able to answer him, because they were terrified at his presence. 4 Then Joseph said to his brothers, “Come close to me.” When they had done so, he said, “I am your brother Joseph, the one you sold into Egypt!  5 And now, do not be distressed and do not be angry with yourselves for selling me here, because it was to save lives that God sent me ahead of you. 6 For two years now there has been famine in the land, and for the next five years there will not be plowing and reaping. 7 But God sent me ahead of you to preserve for you a remnant on earth and to save your lives by a great deliverance.  8 “So then, it was not you who sent me here, but God. He made me father to Pharaoh, lord of his entire household and ruler of all Egypt. 9 Now hurry back to my father and say to him, ‘This is what your son Joseph says: God has made me lord of all Egypt. Come down to me; don’t delay. 10 You shall live in the region of Goshen and be near me—you, your children and grandchildren, your flocks and herds, and all you have. 11 I will provide for you there, because five years of famine are still to come. Otherwise you and your household and all who belong to you will become destitute.’ 12 “You can see for yourselves, and so can my brother Benjamin, that it is really I who am speaking to you. 13 Tell my father about all the honour accorded me in Egypt and about everything you have seen. And bring my father down here quickly.”  14 Then he threw his arms around his brother Benjamin and wept, and Benjamin embraced him, weeping. 15 And he kissed all his brothers and wept over them. Afterward his brothers talked with him.

May the Spirit of Jesus illuminate God’s word for us. 

Release:

You have probably heard of the movie The Truman Show, about a man trapped inside a reality TV series in which he is the star, only he doesn’t know it. All the people in his life are actors, playing a part, keeping the secret, keeping Truman in the dark.

When the creator of the show is challenged about the morality of lying to Truman and keeping him captive on the show, he replies…

“[Truman] could leave at any time. If his was more than just a vague ambition, if he was absolutely determined to discover the truth, there’s no way we could prevent him… ultimately Truman prefers his cell.” 

We human beings often have a difficult relationship with truth. On the one hand, we don’t always want the truth to get out or maybe we prefer not to face the truth because it is too difficult.

On the other hand, we have a deep yearning for the truth and the freedom it brings. There is a part of us that longs to know and be known. We were made for intimacy.

One day, when Truman begins to suspect that his whole world is fake, he becomes absolutely determined to discover the truth. He can’t go along with the lie anymore and plans his escape. His desire for a life that is real and relationships that are true is stronger even than his fear of death.

Last week we heard how Joseph had his steward plant a silver cup in Benjamin’s sack. Joseph did this because he wanted to know if he could trust his brothers. He wanted a relationship with his brothers that was real and true.

The brothers passed Joseph’s test with flying colours. When Benjamin was found to have the cup, the brothers did not trade Benjamin for their own freedom. They stood in solidarity with him. In fact, Judah offered himself as a slave in Benjamin’s place.

When Joseph saw that his brothers had changed, he could no longer contain himself. The truth set Joseph free to take off his mask and reveal himself to his brothers saying, “I am Joseph”.   

The brothers are speechless. They can’t take it in. This is not what they were expecting. Not only was Joseph alive, when they thought he was dead. He has also become the Prime Minister of Egypt. Seeing Joseph was like seeing a ghost. They were terrified.  

The brothers here remind us of Jesus’ disciples, caught between hope and terror, when the risen Jesus appeared to them after his crucifixion and burial. 

Joseph invites his brothers to take a closer look. Then he proves his identity saying, “I am your brother Joseph, the one you sold into Egypt”.

This was a secret only Joseph could have known. Not even Benjamin was aware of what his other ten brothers had done.

Nothing makes us so lonely as our secrets. The brothers’ secret had forced them to lie to their father Jacob and probably also to their wives and children. They were not free to be honest with those closest to them. The brothers’ secret was like weed killer on their relationships. It kept them on the defensive and isolated them.

By letting his brothers know that he was alive and doing well, Joseph set his brothers free. After 22 years of secrets and lies, they no longer needed to pretend. They no longer needed to fear the worst. Now the brothers could draw close to those who loved them.

Joseph reminds us of Jesus here. The Spirit of Jesus is a Spirit of grace and truth. Joseph communicates the truth with a generous measure of grace. Joseph wants his brothers to know he holds nothing against them.

He wants to set them free, so he lets them in on a theological truth…

7 …God sent me ahead of you to preserve for you a remnant on earth and to save your lives by a great deliverance. 8 “So then, it was not you who sent me here, but God.

Three times in verses 5-8 of Genesis 45, Joseph says to his brothers that it was God who sent him to Egypt.

Now, in saying that it was God who sent Joseph to Egypt, we must be clear. God did not want or need the brothers to sell Joseph into slavery. God could have arranged for Joseph to get to Egypt some other way.

The point is: it was always God’s purpose to send Joseph to Egypt and nothing can defeat God’s purpose. We human beings make our choices, sometimes good, sometimes bad. And God, in his wisdom, works with the choices we make to achieve his sovereign goal.      

Walter Brueggemann puts it this way, “The freedom of the creature and the gracious sovereignty of God are not in conflict, nor are they to be equated. God makes use of all human action and is not domesticated or limited by human choice.”  

Knowing this sets us free to let God be God. It releases us from fear so we can trust God more.

Now when it comes to bursting the bubble of our secrets and revealing the truth we need to exercise thoughtfulness and discretion. We don’t just reveal our truth to any random person.

When Joseph realized some significant truths were about to be revealed and they were truths that would be frightening if not embarrassing for his brothers, he ordered all his attendants to leave.

Joseph does not want to shame his brothers publicly. He wants to foster trust with his brothers and keep them safe.  

The point of application for us is, be wise about how you share your truth. We don’t need to publicly confess our deepest darkest secrets before the whole congregation or to everyone on Tik Tok or Facebook. That would do more harm than good.

Ask yourself, what is going to set people free and foster trust in this situation? Don’t put your pearls before swine. Share your truth with people you know you can trust. And don’t share information that is not yours to share. Don’t gossip, in other words, because that won’t set people free or foster trust.

The brothers were not the only ones to be set free by the truth. Joseph also finds release from his isolation. Now he can drop the pretense and be himself. Now he can finally let go of all his pent-up emotions. Over 20 years’ worth. 

Joseph weeps as he embraces Benjamin. And then he weeps over each of his other brothers in turn. It’s not just the brothers who have received Joseph back from the dead. Joseph received his family back from the dead as well.

Joseph’s tears reveal the depth of his suffering and love. Joseph’s tears show his brothers that they are released from blame and accepted. For it is only after Joseph has wept on each one of his brothers that they are able to talk to him.

By God’s grace and Joseph’s wisdom all the brothers finally experience the release they had longed for. But what are they being released into? From verse 16 we continue the story…

Renewal:

16 When the news reached Pharaoh’s palace that Joseph’s brothers had come, Pharaoh and all his officials were pleased. 17 Pharaoh said to Joseph, “Tell your brothers, ‘Do this: Load your animals and return to the land of Canaan, 18 and bring your father and your families back to me. I will give you the best of the land of Egypt and you can enjoy the fat of the land.’ 19 “You are also directed to tell them, ‘Do this: Take some carts from Egypt for your children and your wives, and get your father and come. 20 Never mind about your belongings, because the best of all Egypt will be yours.’ ” 21 So the sons of Israel did this. Joseph gave them carts, as Pharaoh had commanded, and he also gave them provisions for their journey. 22 To each of them he gave new clothing, but to Benjamin he gave three hundred shekels of silver and five sets of clothes. 23 And this is what he sent to his father: ten donkeys loaded with the best things of Egypt, and ten female donkeys loaded with grain and bread and other provisions for his journey. 24 Then he sent his brothers away, and as they were leaving he said to them, “Don’t quarrel on the way!”  25 So they went up out of Egypt and came to their father Jacob in the land of Canaan. 26 They told him, “Joseph is still alive! In fact, he is ruler of all Egypt.” Jacob was stunned; he did not believe them. 27 But when they told him everything Joseph had said to them, and when he saw the carts Joseph had sent to carry him back, the spirit of their father Jacob revived. 28 And Israel said, “I’m convinced! My son Joseph is still alive. I will go and see him before I die.”

C.S. Lewis once wrote…

“It may be hard for an egg to turn into a bird: it would be a jolly sight harder for it to learn to fly while remaining an egg. We are like eggs at present. And you cannot go on indefinitely being just an ordinary, decent egg. We must hatch or go bad.”

Change may be uncomfortable and unwanted, but it is inevitable if we are to make progress in our life and relationship with God. There comes a point when we must all embrace the change God intends for us if we are to fly.

Truman needed to leave the safety of the TV studio, and venture into the unknown world outside, for the wellbeing of his soul. Likewise, Joseph’s family needed to change also. For their own survival and growth, they needed to leave Canaan and settle in Egypt for a while.

More than simply changing countries though, they needed a fresh start in their relationships. They needed to renew their thinking. Renewal is something God does. Yes, we need to participate in our own renewal, but renewal only happens at God’s initiative.    

We see one clear sign of renewal in verse 22, where Joseph gives new clothing to each of his brothers. The brothers had (in their envy and hatred) stripped Joseph of his special cloak. Now Joseph repays evil with good by giving all his brothers new clothes.

The new clothes are an outward symbol of the brothers’ inner renewal. They have been through the crucible of conversion and emerged as new people. Previously, the brothers had clothed themselves in shame. Now Joseph clothes them in righteousness. Just as Jesus clothes us in His righteousness when we are baptized.

However, when we read that Joseph gave far more to his brother Benjamin than to any of the others, we may start to feel a bit nervous. Is this repeating the mistakes of the past? 

Well, probably not. The brothers have proven their loyalty to Benjamin.

Joseph may be challenging the culture of his time. Normally the eldest son was given preferential treatment, but Benjamin is the youngest.

By giving Ben 300 shekels of silver & five sets of clothes, Joseph is turning the tradition upside down.

Like Jesus said, the first shall be last and the last shall be first. This is a sign of gospel renewal.

The mention of Joseph sending his brothers off with 20 donkeys all laden with provisions is an interesting touch. Previously the brothers had worried that Joseph wanted to steal their donkeys. Now Joseph corrects that kind of catastrophic thinking through his generosity.

Joseph’s parting word about not quarrelling on the way home would be better translated as, “Don’t get worked up or agitated. Don’t get carried away or over excited. Stay calm.” Renewed mind, renewed emotions.

Perhaps the most significant sign of renewal is seen in the closing verses of Genesis 45. When the brothers return to Canaan and tell their father Jacob the good news that Joseph is still alive and that he is the ruler of Egypt, Jacob has difficulty believing it at first. It sounds too good to be true.

But as his sons tell the story and as he sees the royal carts provided for their transport, Jacob believes the truth and his spirit is revived. Jacob is finally released from the pattern of grief that he has been trapped in all this time and his soul is renewed.    

There was a time, in Jacob’s youth, when he grasped for wealth and was willing to deceive his brother and father to steal the birthright and the blessing. But now we see a very different Jacob.

The thing that revives Jacob, the thing that renews his life, is not the wealth sent by Joseph, but rather believing the good news that his son is alive and well.

Conclusion:

Last Thursday was Ascension Day. Ascension is a day in the church calendar when we celebrate the risen Jesus’ exaltation to the right hand of God in heaven. It is a special time to bask in the light of the good news that Jesus is alive and well, interceding for us with the Father.

Jesus’ ascension is good news indeed because it means Jesus is in charge of the universe. It means we are released from our guilt and shame and clothed in righteousness. By the grace and power of the risen and exalted Christ, we will be transformed and renewed. We will soar on wings like eagles.   

May the grace and truth of our Lord Jesus Christ set us free to walk in freedom and righteousness. Amen. 

Questions for discussion or reflection:

What stands out for you in reading this Scripture and/or in listening to the sermon? Why do you think this stood out to you?

  • Can you keep a secret? What affect do secrets have on our soul and our relationships? What affect does truth have on our soul and relationships?
  • Discuss / reflect on the theological significance (and practical implications) of Joseph’s belief that God sent him to Egypt?
  • Can you think of a time in your own experience when God used something bad to serve His good purpose? What happened?
  • Why do we need to hold grace and truth together? How does Joseph manage to do this with his brothers?
  • What signs of renewal do we see in Genesis 45? What signs of renewal are you conscious of in your own life?
  • What connections do you see between Genesis 45 and the work of Jesus?     
Tawa Baptist

Second Chances

Scripture: Genesis 44

Video Link: https://youtu.be/fZVV72MlMpM

Structure:

  • Introduction
  • A second chance
  • A substitute
  • Conclusion

Introduction:

Good morning everyone.

Many of you will remember, from childhood, the nursery rhyme about Humpty Dumpty.

Humpty Dumpty sat on a wall.

Humpty Dumpty had a great fall.

All the king’s horses and all the king’s men

couldn’t put Humpty together again.

It’s such a sad nursery rhyme. Why would you say that to a child? For years I have wondered what the point of it is. Humpty Dumpty raises so many questions.  

Is the nursey rhyme a kind of health and safety warning, before health & safety became a thing, teaching kids to be careful how high they climb? Or is it saying that people who are indecisive and sit on the fence (aka the wall) end up worse off than those who pick a side?

Who is Humpty Dumpty anyway and what does he (or she) represent? Did Humpty fall by accident, or was he pushed? And if he was pushed, who pushed him and why? (Robyn says I tend to overthink things. She may be right.)  

Whatever the answers to these important questions, I just wish the consequences for poor old Humpty Dumpty were not so fatal and final.

I wish Humpty Dumpty was given a second chance.

Today we continue our series in the life of Joseph. Joseph’s brothers certainly needed a second chance. They pushed their father Jacob off the wall by selling Joseph into slavery and lying about it. And they cannot undo what they have done.

But through Joseph, God gives them a second chance to make things right and put Jacob together again. From Genesis 44, verse 1, we read…

1 Now Joseph gave these instructions to the steward of his house: “Fill the men’s sacks with as much food as they can carry, and put each man’s silver in the mouth of his sack. 2 Then put my cup, the silver one, in the mouth of the youngest one’s sack, along with the silver for his grain.” And he did as Joseph said. 3 As morning dawned, the men were sent on their way with their donkeys. 4 They had not gone far from the city when Joseph said to his steward, “Go after those men at once, and when you catch up with them, say to them, ‘Why have you repaid good with evil? 5 Isn’t this the cup my master drinks from and also uses for divination? This is a wicked thing you have done.’ ”  6 When he caught up with them, he repeated these words to them. 7 But they said to him, “Why does my lord say such things? Far be it from your servants to do anything like that! 8 We even brought back to you from the land of Canaan the silver we found inside the mouths of our sacks. So why would we steal silver or gold from your master’s house?  9 If any of your servants is found to have it, he will die; and the rest of us will become my lord’s slaves.” 10 “Very well, then,” he said, “let it be as you say. Whoever is found to have it will become my slave; the rest of you will be free from blame.” 11 Each of them quickly lowered his sack to the ground and opened it. 12 Then the steward proceeded to search, beginning with the oldest and ending with the youngest. And the cup was found in Benjamin’s sack. 13 At this, they tore their clothes. Then they all loaded their donkeys and returned to the city.

May the Spirit of Jesus illuminate God’s word for us.

A second chance:

When Thomas Edison and his staff were developing the incandescent light bulb, it took hundreds of hours to produce the first one. After finishing the bulb, Edison handed it to a young errand boy and asked him to take it upstairs to the testing room.

As the boy turned and started up the stairs, he stumbled and fell. The bulb shattered on the steps. The boy felt terrible. He knew how much work had gone into it and he felt the disappointment of everyone in the room.

He turned to face the famous inventor. But instead of tearing strips off the boy, Edison reassured him. And then told his staff to start working on another bulb.

When the second bulb was completed several days later, Edison did something unexpected. He walked over to the boy, handed him the bulb and said, “Please take this up to the testing room”.

Thomas Edison knew it was a risk, both to himself and to his staff. But he also knew the boy needed another chance. He needed the opportunity to redeem himself. And the boy did just that, delivering the second bulb without incident.

You may remember, from a few weeks ago, that Joseph needed to test his brothers to determine whether they were trustworthy. Well, so far, they have been passing the tests. When Simeon was held hostage, the brothers returned with Benjamin and Simeon was released. Also, they were honest about the silver found in their sacks.

However, these tests didn’t really prove whether Joseph’s brothers had changed. It was in the brothers’ interests to bring Benjamin to Egypt and return the silver. They would have starved if they hadn’t.

Joseph needed a test that replicated the situation (as close as possible) from 22 years earlier, when his brothers had sold him into slavery.

Benjamin, the youngest son and the only other child born to Rachel, was now Jacob’s favourite. What would the brothers do if they had to choose between saving Benjamin and saving themselves?

There was risk in Joseph’s test, to be sure. Just as there was risk in trusting the errand boy with the light bulb a second time. But, like the errand boy, Joseph’s brothers needed a second chance, a chance to redeem themselves.   

Joseph set Benjamin up to look guilty by instructing his steward to place a special silver cup in the mouth of Benjamin’s sack. Then, when Benjamin was found out, the steward gave the brothers a choice.

They could trade Benjamin for their own freedom. They could go home if they gave Benjamin up as a slave.

This was a similar scenario to the one 22 years earlier when they gave Joseph up to slave traders. Only now the stakes are higher.

When the cup was found in Benjamin’s sack the brothers tore their clothes as a sign of grief. It rips them up on the inside to think that harm might come to him.

To their credit all the brothers stand in solidarity with Benjamin, even though he appears guilty. The brothers’ calloused hearts have softened.  

The brothers would rather go into slavery with Benjamin than return home to Canaan without him. This was a pretty big call. The brothers didn’t know if they would ever see their wives and children again.

A substitute:

So what happens next? From verse 14 of Genesis 44, we read…

14 Joseph was still in the house when Judah and his brothers came in, and they threw themselves to the ground before him. 15 Joseph said to them, “What is this you have done? Don’t you know that a man like me can find things out by divination?”  16 “What can we say to my lord?” Judah replied. “What can we say? How can we prove our innocence? God has uncovered your servants’ guilt. We are now my lord’s slaves—we ourselves and the one who was found to have the cup.” 17 But Joseph said, “Far be it from me to do such a thing! Only the man who was found to have the cup will become my slave. The rest of you, go back to your father in peace.” 18 Then Judah went up to him and said: “Please, my lord, let your servant speak a word to my lord. Do not be angry with your servant, though you are equal to Pharaoh himself. 19 My lord asked his servants, ‘Do you have a father or a brother?’  20 And we answered, ‘We have an aged father, and there is a young son born to him in his old age. His brother is dead, and he is the only one of his mother’s sons left, and his father loves him.’  21 “Then you said to your servants, ‘Bring him down to me so I can see him for myself.’ 22 And we said to my lord, ‘The boy cannot leave his father; if he leaves him, his father will die.’ 23 But you told your servants, ‘Unless your youngest brother comes down with you, you will not see my face again.’  24 When we went back to your servant my father, we told him what my lord had said.  25 “Then our father said, ‘Go back and buy a little more food.’ 26 But we said, ‘We cannot go down. Only if our youngest brother is with us will we go. We cannot see the man’s face unless our youngest brother is with us.’ 27 “Your servant my father said to us, ‘You know that my wife bore me two sons. 28 One of them went away from me, and I said, “He has surely been torn to pieces.” And I have not seen him since. 29 If you take this one from me too and harm comes to him, you will bring my gray head down to the grave in misery.’ 30 “So now, if the boy is not with us when I go back to your servant my father and if my father, whose life is closely bound up with the boy’s life, 31 sees that the boy isn’t there, he will die. Your servants will bring the gray head of our father down to the grave in sorrow. 32 Your servant guaranteed the boy’s safety to my father. I said, ‘If I do not bring him back to you, I will bear the blame before you, my father, all my life!’  33 “Now then, please let your servant remain here as my lord’s slave in place of the boy, and let the boy return with his brothers. 34 How can I go back to my father if the boy is not with me? No! Do not let me see the misery that would come upon my father.”

There’s a story from Japan about a man called Hamaguchi. Hamaguchi was a highly respected leader of a fishing village.

One day, as Hamaguchi looked out from his house on the top of the hill, he saw the tide receding quickly. The villagers below were running to the beach to look at what was happening.

Hamaguchi realized it was a tsunami. There wasn’t time for him to run down the hill to warn the people of the village, so he set his own crops on fire. When the people saw the smoke, they ran up the hill to help Hamaguchi put out the fire.

They were too late to save Hamaguchi’s crops but, by showing solidarity and coming to his aid, they saved themselves, for the entire village was devastated by the incoming tidal wave. Hamaguchi’s sacrifice brought people together and saved many lives.

Joseph is secretly pleased to see his brothers standing together in solidarity and not abandoning Benjamin. But he doesn’t show this, for the final test is not yet complete.

Joseph says to his brothers, What is this you have done? Don’t you know that a man like me can find things out by divination?”

Some ancients believed they could reveal secrets and predict the future by pouring oil into water and watching the pattern it makes. Kind of like some people today think they can reveal mysteries by looking at tea leaves or reading horoscopes or tarot cards.

The Bible forbids divination. But Joseph doesn’t practice divination in any case. He is just saying this to disguise his true purpose. In a way though, Joseph is using the cup to find out the truth.

Judah takes the lead and responds to Joseph. But it is a different Judah to the one that Joseph once knew. For this Judah, has been through the crucible of conversion. This Judah has lost his wife and two sons. He has humiliated himself with Tamar and been bullied by regret at what he did to Joseph and Jacob 22 years earlier.

This Judah doesn’t try to force his own way and he doesn’t try to deceive Joseph. Instead, he acknowledges God’s justice in their situation saying…

“What can we say? How can we prove our innocence? God has uncovered your servants’ guilt. We are now my lord’s slaves….”

Judah is making a confession. Even though Benjamin was the one found with the cup, Judah remembers his own sins and stands in solidarity with Ben.   

To which Joseph replies…

“Far be it from me to do such a thing! Only the man who was found to have the cup will become my slave. The rest of you go back to your father in peace.”

Joseph is letting the brothers off the hook. It’s like Joseph is saying,‘Go on – you don’t need to stay. No one would blame you for leaving’.

This is the second time the brothers are tempted to abandon Benjamin. But they won’t budge. They stay loyal to Ben at great risk to themselves.

Judah takes the lead again. Calling himself a servant, Judah intercedes for Benjamin with a speech, the longest speech recorded in Genesis. Much of the speech is a retelling of the plot so far.

What we notice though, in Judah’s speech, is the three things that God requires of people. To do justly, to love mercy and to walk humbly.

Judah does not beg for leniency from Joseph. He doesn’t ask to avoid punishment. He accepts that justice must be done and offers himself as a slave in Benjamin’s place. As a true leader, Judah takes responsibility.

At the same time, Judah performs mercy for his brother Benjamin. The Hebrew word often translated as mercy is hesed. You may remember that hesed is a life-saving action done for someone you know who cannot otherwise help themselves.

Judah is doing hesed for Benjamin and his father. Judah is preserving Benjamin’s freedom and saving Jacob from further grief.

Thirdly, Judah walks humbly. He approaches Joseph with utmost respect, naming himself in a lower position as Joseph’s servant. Judah is honest, without being rude, and he does not presume upon any entitlement.         

The other thing we notice in Judah’s speech is his affection for his father, Jacob. Fourteen times in these verses, Judah mentions his father.

Judah is motivated by deep compassion for his dad. Judah is willing to sacrifice himself not just for the sake of Benjamin, but also for Jacob.

Judah, the same brother who once convinced the others to sell Joseph into slavery, now offers to become a slave himself, in Benjamin’s place. The transformation in Judah is miraculous. Only God can bring about that sort of change.

By God’s grace (and Joseph’s wisdom) Judah gets a second chance and he makes good on the opportunity for redemption.  

As Bruce Waltke observes, Judah is the first person in Scripture to willingly offer his own life [as a substitute] for another. His [self-giving] love, to save his brother for the sake of his father, prefigures the vicarious atonement of Christ, who by his voluntary sufferings heals the breach between God and human beings.  

Or to put it more simply, Judah points to Jesus by being willing to sacrifice himself to save his family.

Except, Jesus did something far greater than Judah. Jesus actually went through with the sacrifice, even unto death on a cross. And the Lord did it to save not just his family and friends but also his enemies, those who hated him.

Conclusion:

Have you ever done something you regret? I’m not talking about getting a bad haircut or ordering the wrong thing off the menu. I’m talking about serious regret. Regret that haunts you for decades.

Have you ever pushed Humpty Dumpty off the wall and not been able to put him back together again? Have you ever wished you could have a second chance and do things right this time?

Jesus came to show us the way of forgiveness, to release us from our regret and self-hatred.

Have you ever felt like Humpty Dumpty after his fall? Your life, your family, the things that really matter to you, all in pieces, perhaps through no fault of your own.

Jesus came to put our Humpty Dumpty lives and this Humpty Dumpty world back together again. Jesus came to make all things new.

May the Spirit of Jesus give us eyes to see the second chances God provides and the faith to put things right. Amen.

Questions for discussion or reflection:

  1. What stands out for you in reading this Scripture and/or in listening to the sermon? Why do you think this stood out to you?
  2. What thoughts and feelings does the Humpty Dumpty nursery rhyme put you in touch with?
  3. Why did Joseph frame Benjamin by putting a silver cup in his sack?
  4. What stands out for you in reading Judah’s speech of intercession for Benjamin?  
  5. Have you ever done something you seriously regretted? What happened? Did you experience God’s redemption in this situation? If so, how?
  6. In what ways does Judah remind us of Jesus?
  7. How might we recognise when God is giving us a second chance?   
Tawa Baptist

Longing

Scripture: Genesis 43:15-34

Video Link: https://youtu.be/d_b3nIfRQfM

Structure:

  • Introduction
  • The brothers’ longing
  • Joseph’s longing
  • Conclusion – our longing

Introduction:

Good morning everyone.

There is a lovely line on the opening page of Kenneth Grahame’s book, The Wind in the Willows, which reads…

“Spring was moving in the air above and in the earth below and around him, penetrating even his dark and lowly little house, with its spirit of divine discontent and longing.”

I like the way Kenneth Grahame puts that. Springtime does carry a spirit of divine discontent and longing. Discontent with the winter and longing for the summer.  

Divine discontent is a kind of holy dissatisfaction with the way things are. We experience divine discontent when we are not living according to the deepest longing of our soul.

In The Wind in the Willows, Mole has been doing his spring cleaning and can’t stand it any longer. He must go above ground and roll in the grass and warm sunshine. Spring answers his longing for winter to end and summer to begin.

Today we continue our sermon series in the life of Joseph focusing on Genesis chapter 43, verses 15 to 34. In this passage we see the deep longing of Joseph and his brothers rising to the surface. From verse 15 of Genesis 43 we read…

15 So the men took the gifts and double the amount of silver, and Benjamin also. They hurried down to Egypt and presented themselves to Joseph. 16 When Joseph saw Benjamin with them, he said to the steward of his house, “Take these men to my house, slaughter an animal and prepare dinner; they are to eat with me at noon.” 17 The man did as Joseph told him and took the men to Joseph’s house. 18 Now the men were frightened when they were taken to his house. They thought, “We were brought here because of the silver that was put back into our sacks the first time. He wants to attack us and overpower us and seize us as slaves and take our donkeys.” 19 So they went up to Joseph’s steward and spoke to him at the entrance to the house. 20 “Please, sir,” they said, “we came down here the first time to buy food. 21 But at the place where we stopped for the night we opened our sacks and each of us found his silver—the exact weight—in the mouth of his sack. So we have brought it back with us. 22 We have also brought additional silver with us to buy food. We don’t know who put our silver in our sacks.” 23 “It’s all right,” he said. “Don’t be afraid. Your God, the God of your father, has given you treasure in your sacks; I received your silver.” Then he brought Simeon out to them. 24 The steward took the men into Joseph’s house, gave them water to wash their feet and provided fodder for their donkeys. 25 They prepared their gifts for Joseph’s arrival at noon, because they had heard that they were to eat there. 26 When Joseph came home, they presented to him the gifts they had brought into the house, and they bowed down before him to the ground. 27 He asked them how they were, and then he said, “How is your aged father you told me about? Is he still living?”  28 They replied, “Your servant our father is still alive and well.” And they bowed low to pay him honor.  29 As he looked about and saw his brother Benjamin, his own mother’s son, he asked, “Is this your youngest brother, the one you told me about?” And he said, “God be gracious to you, my son.” 30 Deeply moved at the sight of his brother, Joseph hurried out and looked for a place to weep. He went into his private room and wept there. 31 After he had washed his face, he came out and, controlling himself, said, “Serve the food.” 32 They served him by himself, the brothers by themselves, and the Egyptians who ate with him by themselves, because Egyptians could not eat with Hebrews, for that is detestable to Egyptians. 33 The men had been seated before him in the order of their ages, from the firstborn to the youngest; and they looked at each other in astonishment. 34 When portions were served to them from Joseph’s table, Benjamin’s portion was five times as much as anyone else’s. So they feasted and drank freely with him.

May the Spirit of Jesus illuminate God’s word for us.

The brothers’ longing:

David Augsburger, the late Anabaptist theologian, once wrote…

“Ontologically, chocolate raises profoundly disturbing questions: Does not chocolate offer natural revelation of the goodness of the Creator just as chilies disclose a divine sense of humour? Is the human born with an innate longing for chocolate? Does the notion of chocolate preclude the concept of freewill?”  

As a chocolate lover this quote makes me smile. It’s not often you find a theologian with a sense of humour. David is basically saying that chocolate is hard proof that God exists and God is good.

The reality is, we human beings have many desires and longings which often seem to compete for our attention. Some of those desires we might judge as wrong or evil and others as virtuous or good.

For example, we might judge eating chocolate as bad. I don’t think that, but some people carry a great deal of misplaced guilt about chocolate. Whether you deem chocolate to be good or evil, you have to ask yourself, what deeper longing is my desire for chocolate pointing to?

The very fact that many people love chocolate shows that human beings have a deep longing for God. For if we long for the goodness of chocolate, it logically follows our longing can only be satisfied through a right relationship with the one who made us to enjoy chocolate.

Or, to put it another way, it doesn’t matter how much chocolate you eat, your longing will never be fully satisfied except through an encounter with the living God.

Back, in Genesis 37, you may recall how Joseph’s brothers plotted to get rid of Joseph. They hated Joseph because he was Jacob’s favourite.

The brothers’ desire to kill Joseph was not good in itself but we have to ask ourselves, why did they want to do that? What deeper longing was driving their desire to destroy Joseph? 

Maybe it was the desire to be loved. Maybe, on some level, they thought if we get rid of Joseph, then our Dad will have more love for us. But that is not how love works. Love multiplies with giving. Love does not grow by taking. When the brothers sold Joseph into slavery, they only reduced their father’s capacity for love.

Perhaps the greatest impediment to love is fear. And Joseph’s brothers know all about fear. They have lived with it for over twenty years. In Genesis 43 verse 18 we read…

Now the men were frightened when they were taken to his house. They thought, “We were brought here because of the silver that was put back into our sacks the first time. He wants to attack us and overpower us and seize us as slaves and take our donkeys.”

It’s amazing how fear can distort our thinking. Fear tends to disconnect us from our deepest longings. It makes our thinking smaller somehow, so that all we can imagine is our own harm.   

Why would someone as rich and powerful as the Prime Minister of Egypt be interested in their scrawny donkeys? Surely the ruler of the land has bigger fish to fry.

Moved by a longing for peace of mind, the brothers front up to the steward of Joseph’s house and tell him the truth. We did not steal the silver last time we were here. Somehow it ended up back in our sacks. We don’t know how. Here it is. And the Joseph’s servant says in reply… 

“It’s all right, don’t be afraid. Your God, the God of your father, has given you treasure in your sacks; I received your silver.”

The steward’s opening phrase, “It’s all right”, is just one word in the original Hebrew. Shalom. Shalom means peace, wholeness and well-being in all aspects of your life, especially your relationships.

The brothers are afraid. They long for peace and the steward answers that longing saying, God has given you treasure in your sacks.

One of the deepest longings of the human soul, is the longing to know that God is with us and for us, that he loves us. Joseph’s brothers did not believe that God was with them. They thought God was against them because of what they did to Joseph. They thought God was out to get them. They had been looking over their shoulder in fear for decades.

The brothers have become so alienated by their guilt that they don’t really believe the God of their father Jacob, is also their God. But their wrongdoing does not stop God from being God. The God of their father is still their God.

It’s the same with us. Our moral failure does not stop God being God. Our straying off track and getting lost, in a spiritual sense, does not prevent God from pursuing us with his love. Nor does it derail God’s purpose.

When the steward says, God has given you treasure in your sacks, he is not just talking about silver. The silver is a metaphor for something far more valuable than mere money.

It’s like the steward is saying, God has put treasure in the sack of your soul. The treasure is in you and in your relationships. And the treasure is God’s grace.   

Joseph was Jacob’s favourite. Perhaps that made the other brothers feel less valuable, less loveable, in some way. But they are not less to God. The brothers have divine treasure in them as well, even if Jacob, their earthly father, does not see it or acknowledge it.  

The message to the brothers and to us is clear. No matter how worthless you might feel (because of what you have done or what has been done to you), you are intrinsically valuable because God has made you that way.

Like the apostle Paul says in his letter to the Corinthians…

But we have this treasure in jars of clay to show that this all-surpassing power is from God and not from us.

It is not your looks or your charm or your achievements or your reputation or your bank balance or anything you do that make you rich. You are rich because you are loved by God. The treasure is in you.

Okay, so Joseph’s brothers had some deep longings. Longings for peace and love. Longings that could only really be satisfied by God. What about Joseph himself, what did he long for?  

Joseph’s longing:

John Ortberg (another Christian author) says this about longing…

“The human longings that are deep inside of us never go away. They exist across cultures; they exist throughout life. When people were first made, our deepest longing was to know and be known. And after the Fall, when we all got weird, it’s still our deepest longing – but it’s now also our deepest fear.”

What John Ortberg is talking about here is intimacy. To know another human being deeply and to be known and accepted by them in turn, is the definition of intimacy. Into me see.

Each of us has a deep longing for intimacy. The desire for physical intimacy points to a deeper longing for emotional intimacy. Intimacy of soul, mind and spirit. A genuine sharing of oneself with another.

Sadly, fear gets in the way of developing intimacy. We get hurt in this life and our hurt makes it harder to risk making ourselves vulnerable. If fear is left unchecked it shuts us down and closes us off from knowing others and revealing our true selves. What if others don’t like who I am.

The longing for intimacy runs deep in all of us but some are more in touch with their longing than others. Certainly, Joseph longed for intimacy. He wanted to know his brothers and he wanted them to know him. The question was, could he trust them or not.

We see something of Joseph’s desire for intimacy in the way he asks after his brothers and father in verse 27…

27 He asked them how they were [shalom], and then he said, “How is [shalom] your aged father you told me about? Is he still living?”

Twice more the Hebrew word shalom pops up, this time on the lips of Joseph. In asking after his brothers and father, Joseph is actually inquiring after their shalom, their wellbeing, their peace.

This is more than a simple, ‘How’s it going’. Joseph genuinely wants to know his family is okay. He cares about them. He loves them.

Notice also how verse 27 is framed. In verses 26 and 28, all eleven brothers bow down to honour Joseph. They don’t know it’s Joseph at this point but we, the readers, can see that Joseph’s dream all those years before (of his brothers bowing to him) is being fulfilled.

The interesting thing here is that Joseph does not care about his brothers’ bowing and scrapping. He cares about them and their shalom, their wellbeing. What Joseph really wants (and always wanted probably) is a lifegiving connection with his brothers. Joseph longs for intimacy.

Being Jacob’s favourite had isolated Joseph. It alienated him from his brothers. They hated him for it. Joseph longs for warmth, belonging, acceptance and understanding from his brothers. Most of all though, Joseph longs for his brother Benjamin.

When Joseph sees Benjamin, his only full-blooded brother, he gives Ben a blessing saying, God be gracious to you, my son.  In the Hebrew culture of the time this was no small thing. This blessing carried real weight. It had gravity. But it is also full of affection.

Rather tellingly, in verse 30, we read how Joseph was deeply moved at the sight of his brother Benjamin. Joseph is moved to tears in fact and must run out of the room to compose himself.

Has that ever happened to you? Have you been ambushed by tears in the same way? Quietly going about your day only to be triggered by a familiar sight or smell that somehow puts you in touch with a deeper longing.  

Our spiritual life (to use Ignatian language) is characterized by times of desolation, times of consolation and times of normality.

In times of desolation, we feel like God is absent and our lives seem empty but also heavy at the same time. My God, my God, why have you forsaken me? Joseph certainly had his times of desolation.

But then come the times of consolation, when we feel God’s presence so close and tender. In those moments of intimacy with God, something shifts inside us and we may be moved to tears. It is difficult to know whether the tears are releasing pain or joy or both.

We only know we don’t want the consolation to end. But we cannot control it. Consolation is visited on us by God’s grace. All we can do is make space for it. Treasure it for the gift that it is. And remember it, especially in the times when feelings of desolation return.    

Joseph’s tears bear a close resemblance to the tears of consolation. He is so in touch with his deep longing for intimacy that he can feel God’s presence and it undoes him in the best way possible.     

Genesis 43 finishes with the brothers feasting and drinking freely with Joseph and each other. Even though Joseph has shown favouritism to Benjamin, by giving him five times as much food as anyone else, there is no hint of envy or resentment.

This is a picture of shalom, the kind of peace which makes room for intimacy. The kind of easy companionship they had all been longing for.

Conclusion:

A few days ago, I felt like eating some vanilla wine biscuits. It happens every once and a while. It wasn’t so much that I was physically hungry. I had chocolate biscuits in the cupboard, but strangely I didn’t feel like chocolate biscuits that day.

I put it down to missing my grandparents. You see, when I was kid, my nana and pop would give me vanilla wines, alongside home baking, whenever I went to visit. My hankering for vanilla wines was really a longing for them in a way. 

What do you long for?

Most of the time we are too busy, too pressured or too focused on a screen to be in touch with our inner longings. If that’s you, then perhaps a better question to ask might be, what’s your vanilla wine?

What simple, ordinary thing do you hunger for? What movie do you keep watching again and again? What place do you daydream about when life feels soulless and draining? What memory do you keep on repeat? What comfort food do you find sanctuary in?

Those seemingly superficial desires may be pointing to a deeper longing within you. Be gentle with your longing. Don’t judge or condemn it.    

When I think about it, my longing for my grandparents is really a holy discontent with death. Deep down we each have a yearning for resurrection. We want the springtime of abundant life to prevail over the winter of loss. We long for the summer of God’s kingdom to come on earth as it is in heaven.

God understands that about us. God knows our longing, which is why he sent Jesus. In and through Christ, our deepest human longings are fulfilled. What do you long for?

The heart of prayer is longing. Perhaps longing for wholeness. Longing for atonement. Longing for peace. Longing for redemption. Longing for intimacy. Longing for love. Longing for resurrection life. Longing for God.

When the apostle Paul says, pray without ceasing, he doesn’t mean, talk to God non-stop. He means, be honest about your longings. Stay in touch with what really matters to you because that is where you will find God’s purpose. That is where God will answer the longing of your soul with his presence.

May the Lord give you the desires of your heart. Amen.     

Questions for discussion or reflection:

What stands out for you in reading this Scripture and/or in listening to the sermon? Why do you think this stood out to you?

  • What does divine discontent feel like? Why might we experience divine discontent? What can we do about it?
  • What do Joseph’s brothers long for? 
  • What treasure has God put in the sack of your soul? Why is it there?
  • Why does Joseph weep when he sees his brother Benjamin? What is Joseph’s longing?
  • Can you think of a time, in your own experience, when you were deeply moved? What happened? What longing were you in touch with?  
  • What is your equivalent of wanting a vanilla wine biscuit? What deeper longing do your surface desires point to? 
Tawa Baptist

Attachment

Scripture: Genesis 42:25-43:14

Video Link: https://youtu.be/qdL_nTpVw54

Structure:

  • Introduction
  • Fear and attachment
  • Faith and attachment
  • Conclusion

Introduction:

Good morning everyone.

When children are young, they often form an attachment to a soft toy, a teddy, a blanket or something else they cannot part with. The attachment gives the child a feeling of security.

Eventually though, the child forms other attachments. They make friends or get a pet and the toy or the teddy is put away. Although the kinds of attachments we make change through the various stages of our life, the basic reason for forming attachments remains the same, security. 

Attachments are important. We need healthy attachments to survive and thrive, much like a plant needs an attachment to good soil. Sometimes though we become overly attached to the wrong things. Things which might make us feel good in the moment but provide no real or lasting security and are actually harmful to our wellbeing, causing us to wither and die.

This morning we continue our sermon series in the life of Joseph. Previously, Joseph’s brothers had travelled to Egypt to buy grain. They did not recognize Joseph but Joseph recognized them and decided to test them to see if they had changed for the better. 

Joseph needed to know the quality of their attachments. Were they still attached to the wrong things? Or had they formed more healthy, life-giving attachments? We pick up the story from Genesis 42, verse 25…

25 Joseph gave orders to fill their bags with grain, to put each man’s silver back in his sack, and to give them provisions for their journey. After this was done for them, 26 they loaded their grain on their donkeys and left. 27 At the place where they stopped for the night one of them opened his sack to get feed for his donkey, and he saw his silver in the mouth of his sack. 28 “My silver has been returned,” he said to his brothers. “Here it is in my sack.” Their hearts sank and they turned to each other trembling and said, “What is this that God has done to us?” 29 When they came to their father Jacob in the land of Canaan, they told him all that had happened to them. They said, 30 “The man who is lord over the land spoke harshly to us and treated us as though we were spying on the land. 31 But we said to him, ‘We are honest men; we are not spies. 32 We were twelve brothers, sons of one father. One is no more, and the youngest is now with our father in Canaan.’ 33 “Then the man who is lord over the land said to us, ‘This is how I will know whether you are honest men: Leave one of your brothers here with me, and take food for your starving households and go. 34 But bring your youngest brother to me so I will know that you are not spies but honest men. Then I will give your brother back to you, and you can trade in the land.’ ” 35 As they were emptying their sacks, there in each man’s sack was his pouch of silver! When they and their father saw the money pouches, they were frightened. 36 Their father Jacob said to them, “You have deprived me of my children. Joseph is no more and Simeon is no more, and now you want to take Benjamin. Everything is against me!” 37 Then Reuben said to his father, “You may put both of my sons to death if I do not bring him back to you. Entrust him to my care, and I will bring him back.” 38 But Jacob said, “My son will not go down there with you; his brother is dead and he is the only one left. If harm comes to him on the journey you are taking, you will bring my gray head down to the grave in sorrow.”

May the Spirit of Jesus illuminate God’s word for us.

In these verses we see how fear affects attachment.

Fear and attachment:

Imagine yourself in a room full of gold. The gold is yours to keep if you want it. And you do want it. You’ve got bills to pay and having some money tucked away would give you peace of mind, or so you think.

The problem is this room you are sitting in with the gold is on a ship far out at sea.  And the ship is sinking fast. If you stay with the gold, you will go down with the ship and if you try to take some of the gold with you, in your pockets, the weight will drag you under the waves.

The choice is clear. If you want to live, you must abandon your attachment to the gold.    

Many of us have an attachment to money, although we may not like to admit it. We like having money because wealth gives us a feeling of security. It puts some of our fears to bed and makes us feel safe.

The problem is, having money also awakens other fears. Specifically, the fear of losing our money. Too much wealth can be as bad as too little. Riches, like poverty, tend to isolate us.

But when faced with a crisis, a choice between life and death, most of us would sacrifice the money to save ourselves. The fear of death is usually greater than the fear of poverty. You can always make more money, but you can’t make more time.

Joseph had suffered much at the hands of his brothers. They had sold him into slavery for 20 shekels of silver. By doing this the brothers had demonstrated a greater attachment to money than to Joseph.

When Joseph’s brothers leave Egypt to return to Canaan, Joseph orders his servant to put the silver they had paid back in their sacks. Why does Joseph do this? Is the silver a subtle reminder of his brothers’ crime? Or is Joseph being generous and repaying their wrongdoing with good?

Whatever Joseph’s motivation, when the brothers later discover the silver has been returned, their hearts sink and they feel terribly afraid.

They know this is not a good look. It makes them appear dishonest and gives the lord of the land more reason to distrust them.

In fear the brothers say to one another, “What is this that God has done to us?” Their guilty consciences see the returned silver as a punishment from God.

Although guilt doesn’t feel good, it is not always a bad thing. Guilt acts like bolt cutters for an unhealthy attachment. When we are attached to something that is harmful, like drinking too much for example, then (if our conscience is functioning properly) we will feel guilty about it and the guilt will motivate us to break our harmful attachment to alcohol.   

The brothers’ fear and guilt is a necessary step in the process of their redemption.

When the brothers get home to Canaan and explain to their father Jacob what happened, how the lord of the land wants them to return with Benjamin, Jacob is fearful also. He won’t have a bar of it saying…

38 “My son will not go down there with you; his brother is dead and he is the only one left. If harm comes to him on the journey you are taking, you will bring my gray head down to the grave in sorrow.”

Clearly, Jacob’s attachment to Benjamin and to his own grief is greater than anything he feels for the rest of his family.

Benjamin is no longer a child. He is a young man in his 20’s. Jacob’s attachment to Benjamin is not healthy. It keeps Jacob in a prison of fear and threatens the survival of the whole family.

While it is natural for parents to feel a strong attachment to their children, there comes a point when we need to trust God and let our children go. Not all at once, but gradually and with the support they need. Our attachment to our kids needs to flex and adapt as they grow.

It is difficult for Jacob to do this though because he has lost his favourite son, Joseph, and he is still living with the pain of that loss.

In his book, God of Surprises, Gerard Hughes (a Catholic priest and spiritual director) says this; “The answer is in the pain. We fear whatever causes us pain and try to escape, but in escaping we are running away from the answer… Face the fears that haunt you.” (page 101)

Jacob needs to face his fear of losing Benjamin. But will he find the faith he needs to do this?

Faith and attachment:

We continue the story from verse 1 of Genesis 43…

1 Now the famine was still severe in the land. 2 So when they had eaten all the grain they had brought from Egypt, their father said to them, “Go back and buy us a little more food.” 3 But Judah said to him, “The man warned us solemnly, ‘You will not see my face again unless your brother is with you.’ 4 If you will send our brother along with us, we will go down and buy food for you. 5 But if you will not send him, we will not go down, because the man said to us, ‘You will not see my face again unless your brother is with you.’  6 “Israel asked, “Why did you bring this trouble on me by telling the man you had another brother?” 7 They replied, “The man questioned us closely about ourselves and our family. ‘Is your father still living?’ he asked us. ‘Do you have another brother?’ We simply answered his questions. How were we to know he would say, ‘Bring your brother down here’?” 8 Then Judah said to Israel his father, “Send the boy along with me and we will go at once, so that we and you and our children may live and not die. 9 I myself will guarantee his safety; you can hold me personally responsible for him. If I do not bring him back to you and set him here before you, I will bear the blame before you all my life. 10 As it is, if we had not delayed, we could have gone and returned twice.” 11 Then their father Israel said to them, “If it must be, then do this: Put some of the best products of the land in your bags and take them down to the man as a gift—a little balm and a little honey, some spices and myrrh, some pistachio nuts and almonds. 12 Take double the amount of silver with you, for you must return the silver that was put back into the mouths of your sacks. Perhaps it was a mistake. 13 Take your brother also and go back to the man at once. 14 And may God Almighty grant you mercy before the man so that he will let your other brother and Benjamin come back with you. As for me, if I am bereaved, I am bereaved.”

In these verses Jacob finds the faith to face his fears. Faith plays an important part in the formation of healthy attachments. 

In the movie, The Sound of Music, Captain von Trapp does not enjoy a close or warm attachment to his children. Then along comes Maria who, through love and music, restores the father to his family.

In the middle of the film, the Captain and Maria start to form a romantic attachment. And, as is often the case with romantic attachments, neither of them is really that aware of their feelings at first.

Maria is confused and, after a quiet word from Baroness Schraeder, decides to return to the convent where she stays in seclusion and prepares to take vows to become a nun.

When the mother superior learns that Maria is actually afraid and hiding in the convent, to avoid her feelings for the Captain, she wisely encourages Maria to return to the von Trapp villa to face her fear and look for her purpose in life.

As it turns out, the Captain’s feelings of love for Maria have not changed, except now he has found the courage to admit his feelings to himself and to Maria. Baroness Schraeder sees the reality of the situation and gracefully leaves. Maria and the Captain are then married.

Faith plays an important part in forming healthy attachments. Faith helps us to face our fears and our pain. At the same time, faith enables us to hold things loosely, so we can let go in trust.

By faith Maria was able to put her romantic attachment to Captain von Trapp in God’s hands. She was willing to let God be God.

In Genesis 43, Jacob finds that he must face his fears and let go in faith, or else lose everything. The famine is so severe that the brothers must return to Egypt to buy more grain, or else they will starve. But they can’t return without taking Benjamin with them.

Reuben, the eldest brother, had tried persuading his father by saying that Jacob could put both of his sons to death if he doesn’t bring Benjamin back with him. But Jacob refuses.

If Reuben is that careless with his own sons, why would Jacob trust him with Benjamin. What good would it do to destroy more innocent lives? Reuben’s proposal is not the letting go of faith. It is the reckless letting go of desperation. It shows that Reuben’s attachments are not healthy.

Later Judah tries persuading Jacob by offering himself as guarantor for Benjamin saying, “I myself will guarantee his safety; you can hold me personally responsible for him…”

You may remember from Genesis 38 that two of Judah’s sons had died. Judah understands his father’s pain all too well.

Unlike Reuben, who was risking his sons’ lives, Judah is taking the risk on himself. Judah is saying that he will take the blame if he fails to bring Benjamin back safely. Judah’s proposal is more like the letting go of faith.

This reveals a real transformation in Judah’s character. Earlier, in Genesis 37, it was Judah who had led the others in selling Joseph into slavery. Now Judah takes the role of leader again, only this time he is not serving his own interests. This time Judah makes himself vulnerable and let’s go of his power in order to help others.   

We see a change in the other brothers too. Twenty years earlier they might have ignored Jacob’s wishes and kidnapped Benjamin in order to get him to Egypt to buy grain.

But now, having witnessed the suffering of their father, the brothers let go of their attachment to violence and power in order to honour their father and allow him to decide.

In the end Jacob realises his options are limited. If he does not let Benjamin go, they will all die. So, Jacob finally allows Benjamin to travel with his brothers to Egypt.

But notice Jacob’s advice to his sons. “Take the best products of the land as a gift… Take double the amount of silver with you… And may God Almighty grant you mercy… As for me, if I am bereaved, I am bereaved.”

In faith, Jacob faces his fear of being bereaved. He does what he can to prepare his sons (sending them off with gifts for the man) and then trusts his sons and the success of their mission to God’s mercy. This is the letting go of faith. Jacob is learning to let God be God.

Letting go in faith requires thoughtfulness and courage. We do what is in our power to do and we trust God with the rest.

Conclusion:

Unhealthy attachments can reveal themselves in many ways. The accumulation of wealth, the compulsion to try and control everything, an obsession with what others think, an affair of the heart, overworking, a destructive habit, self-righteousness, becoming too dependent on one person for our security, and so on. These are all signs of an unhealthy attachment to something.   

If we find ourselves holding onto something so tightly that we cannot let go and leave it in God’s hands, then it has probably become an unhealthy attachment. A millstone around our neck. Something that weighs our soul down and will eventually kill us.

What fears do you need to face?

What attachments do you need to hold more loosely?

Or perhaps let go of altogether?

Jesus understood our need for attachment. He also knew the human tendency to form attachments to the wrong things. The Lord says…

‘For whoever wants to save his life will lose it, but whoever loses his life for me will find it. What good will it be for a man if he gains the whole world, yet forfeits his soul?’  

In the end, the only thing that really matters is the quality of our attachment to Jesus.

Questions for discussion or reflection:

What stands out for you in reading this Scripture and/or in listening to the sermon? Why do you think this stood out to you?

  • Why do people form attachments?
  • How does fear affect our attachments? Why do we need to face our fears? What fears do you need to face?
  • What role does guilt play in breaking unhealthy attachments?
  • What role does faith play in the formation of healthy attachments? Can you think of ways that faith has helped you in forming attachments?
  • How might we know when an attachment has become unhealthy? What unhealthy attachments do you need to let go of? Ask God for his grace in doing this.
  • What can you do to strengthen your attachment to Christ?