Mutual Humility

Scripture: Matthew 13:3-9 & 18-23

Video Link: https://youtu.be/iKs8MSu63cU

Structure:

  • Introduction
  • The seed of God’s word
  • The soil of our lives
  • Conclusion

Introduction:

Good morning everyone.

Can anyone tell me what the letters NZBMS stand for? [Wait]

That’s right, New Zealand Baptist Missionary Society. NZBMS is the overseas missions arm of our Baptist movement.

Today (and for the next two Sundays) we take a break from our series in Deuteronomy to focus on the New Zealand Baptist Missionary Society’s Renew Together campaign. ‘Renew Together’ is the new name for Self Denial.

The purpose of the Renew Together campaign is to raise awareness of and funds for the work of NZBMS. For three Sundays we will use the sermon time to focus on some of the core values of NZBMS. The first value is mutual humility

Listening is key to humility. To aid our understanding of mutual humility, let’s listen to Jesus’ parable of the sower in Matthew 13. This is a parable about God’s kingdom.  From verse 3 of Matthew 13, we read…

Then he told them many things in parables, saying: “A farmer went out to sow his seed. As he was scattering the seed, some fell along the path, and the birds came and ate it up. Some fell on rocky places, where it did not have much soil. It sprang up quickly, because the soil was shallow. But when the sun came up, the plants were scorched, and they withered because they had no root. Other seed fell among thorns, which grew up and choked the plants. Still other seed fell on good soil, where it produced a crop—a hundred, sixty or thirty times what was sown. Whoever has ears, let them hear.”

18 “Listen then to what the parable of the sower means: 19 When anyone hears the message about the kingdom and does not understand it, the evil one comes and snatches away what was sown in their heart. This is the seed sown along the path. 20 The seed falling on rocky ground refers to someone who hears the word and at once receives it with joy. 21 But since they have no root, they last only a short time. When trouble or persecution comes because of the word, they quickly fall away.  22 The seed falling among the thorns refers to someone who hears the word, but the worries of this life and the deceitfulness of wealth choke the word, making it unfruitful. 23 But the seed falling on good soil refers to someone who hears the word and understands it. This is the one who produces a crop, yielding a hundred, sixty or thirty times what was sown.”

May the Spirit of Jesus illuminate God’s word for us.

A parable is a story which teaches a spiritual truth. A parable uses something known and familiar to teach something unknown or unfamiliar. In this case, Jesus uses the familiar image of a farmer sowing seed to teach us about the kingdom of God which is unfamiliar to us. 

There are two parts to today’s message. The first part deals with the seed of God’s word and the second part looks at the soil of our lives. When you put the seed of God’s word together with the good soil of our lives, the Holy Spirit works to produce the crop of God’s kingdom.  

The seed of God’s word:

God’s kingdom is not the same as the kingdoms or governments of this world. Broadly speaking we might think of the kingdoms of this world on a spectrum, with democratic government at one end and dictatorships at the other. 

With dictatorships, one person makes governing decisions that affect everyone. The will of the one is forced on the many, whether people like it not.

With democracy, the majority rule. This means the will of the majority is forced on the minority, although the minority still have a voice and can protest if they wish. This is an over simplification but you get the general idea. 

Neither of these forms of government are perfect but people in the west, at least, generally prefer a democratic form of government.     

God’s kingdom is not on this spectrum. God’s kingdom is not like the kingdoms of this world. God’s kingdom is in a category all of its own. We find it hard to imagine God’s kingdom because it is so profoundly different from what we know and are familiar with.

When we consider the parable of the sower we see that God’s kingdom is organic. God does not force his kingdom on us. There is no coercion with God’s kingdom, no military conquest, no emotional manipulation, no media spin, no political manoeuvring.

God approaches humankind humbly, in the form of a man (Jesus), who speaks God’s word and embodies God’s word. Jesus is both the sower of the seed of God’s word and the seed itself.   

A seed is a small thing, a humble thing. Likewise, the seed of God’s word appears quite unimpressive and easy to miss at first. A seed enters the ground quietly, gradually, gently. In fact, the seed won’t enter the soil unless the ground is open to receive it. 

But the soil needs the seed. Once the seed germinates and takes root it transforms the soil for good. Without the seed, the soil would erode and the land would turn into a desert. Likewise, without the seed of God’s word, the soil of our lives is at risk of being blown away. God’s word gives our lives coherence, meaning and abundance.

In verse 9, after giving the parable, Jesus says: Whoever has ears, let them hear. And in verse 18, before explaining the parable, Jesus says: 18 Listen then to what the parable of the sower means…

If God’s word is the seed and our lives are the soil, then hearing or listening is how we receive God’s word. True listening, listening with openness and a genuine desire to understand, is a sign of humility.

When we think of overseas mission we may have a picture of a European going to Africa or Asia or South America to tell the indigenous people there about the gospel of Jesus. Sort of like they are the ones in need and we have the solution.

But the landscape of the world has changed dramatically in recent years. The movement of mission is no longer ‘from the west to the rest’. Now mission is from everywhere to everywhere. Thousands of missionaries are being sent from places like Latin America, Africa, South Korea and the Philippines.

The church may be in decline in the west but it is growing in other parts of the world. Those in the global south and east are moving to evangelise the post-Christian west.

We, in the west, need to have the humility to acknowledge that we don’t have all the answers and to listen. It’s not that we have nothing to offer. Rather, we need to think of mission in terms of partnership and service.

Brian Smith, a former Principal of Carey Baptist College, was sent to Asia as a missionary many years ago. When he first got there he spent time simply listening to the locals. It was only after many months of listening that Brian began a translation of the New Testament into the local language.

When it comes to mission (whether that’s local mission or overseas mission) we need to be listening to what God is saying to us and we need to be listening to the society we live in as well. God is already at work in our land and in the lives of people who do not yet know him. So the question is, how do we join God in his work?

God’s kingdom comes on earth when the seed of God’s word is planted in the good soil of people’s lives. So what does Jesus say about the soil?

The soil of our lives:

Jesus’ parables function as a mirror. They show us what we are truly like. Having an accurate self-awareness, facing ourselves as we really are, is at the heart of true humility. In Matthew 13, Jesus describes four different types of soil. These soil types show us a mirror. They humble us.    

The four types of soil illustrate four responses to the gospel message or the seed of God’s word. The first three soils shine a light on why the kingdom of God doesn’t bear fruit in a person’s life. They equate to having a hard heart, a shallow commitment and divided attention.  

In the time of Jesus, when farmers scattered seed by hand, some of the seed would inevitably land on the path. The path was hard packed ground from having been walked over so much. The seed could not penetrate the path.

Some people are hard hearted when it comes to the gospel message. They refuse to understand. They either can’t or won’t let God’s word penetrate into their life.

People can be hard hearted for a variety of reasons. Sometimes it is because they have been hurt in the past or had too many people trample through their heart. As a consequence, they don’t want to let anyone or anything else in. It’s a self-protection thing.  

Other times though a hard heart is more the product of arrogance or prejudice. Like when a person thinks they know best and are not prepared to give God’s word a fair hearing.

Ironically, many of the Pharisees and religious leaders of Jesus’ time give us a picture of the hard hearted. They heard Jesus’ message but it bounced off. In their pride and prejudice, they refused to believe what Jesus was saying and so the seed of God’s word did not take root in the soil of their lives.

The hard heart needs softening if it is to receive the seed of God’s word. How exactly God may soften a person’s heart depends very much on the individual person and the reason for their hardness.

If someone has been hardened by a tough upbringing or through rough or unfair treatment, then they probably need to be shown kindness and grace. Like the priest did for Jean Val Jean in Victor Hugo’s story, Les Miserable. When Jean Val Jean stole the silver, the old priest gave him the candle stick too and that softened Jean Val Jean’s heart so the seed of the gospel could find a way in.

But if someone’s hardness of heart is due to their own pride or prejudice, then it may be necessary for God to challenge their prejudice and undo their pride. Nothing removes the stain of prejudice like walking in the shoes of the person you had prejudged. And nothing undoes pride like weakness and failure.  

At the height of his power and success, we read how king Nebuchadnezzar’s ‘heart became arrogant and hardened with pride’. As a consequence, 21 He was driven away from people and given the mind of an animal; he lived with the wild donkeys and ate grass like the ox; and his body was drenched with the dew of heaven, until he acknowledged that the Most High God is sovereign over all kingdoms on earth and sets over them anyone he wishes. [1]

God undid Nebuchadnezzar’s pride and softened his heart through weakness and failure.  

Perhaps the most pleasant way God softens the human heart though is through the presence of children. There is something about small children which makes us want to be better.

The second soil type relates to the seed that fell on rocky ground. These people respond enthusiastically to the gospel message at first. They listen to it with an open mind, they believe and receive it with joy but their roots don’t go down very deep. Then, when trouble or persecution comes, they fall away.  The roots of their commitment are shallow.

Near the beginning of Jesus’ ministry, people flocked to see the Lord. He was popular with the crowds because of his teaching and his miracles. Many of those same people would later turn on Jesus at the end of his ministry, calling for his crucifixion.

They had false expectations. They believed in a kind of prosperity gospel. They thought following Jesus would make their life easier, giving them wealth, health and victory over the Romans. But Jesus did not promise that. Jesus was very clear that identifying with him would bring suffering in this life and glory in the next. 

The only way to deepen commitment to Jesus is by sticking with Jesus.

Coming to faith in Jesus is a little bit like falling in love. At first you have this idealised picture of the one you love. You see only what you want to see, the good stuff. They can do no wrong. The feeling is wonderful and you think it will last.

But then, when some of your expectations are not met, the feeling wears off and you go through a stage of disenchantment or disorientation. It might feel like God is distant and you start to question much of what you believed to be true.

This process of questioning our faith needs to happen if we are to grow. Some of the beliefs and consequent expectations we adopted when we first received Christ may be false and need to be put aside. While other beliefs need to be refined and held on to.

The temptation at this stage is to give up on Jesus altogether, but that won’t help you in the long run. In this process of editing our faith (discerning what is true and what is false) we need to be careful not to throw the baby out with the bath water. When we hold to Christ and his resurrection we come to realise these three remain: faith, hope & love.

The first impediment to God’s kingdom growing in the soil of our lives is a hard heart. The second impediment is shallow commitment and the third impediment is divided attention

In verse 22 Jesus explains…

22 The seed falling among the thorns refers to someone who hears the word, but the worries of this life and the deceitfulness of wealth choke the word, making it unfruitful.

These people have received the seed of God’s word into the soil of their lives. They have maintained their commitment to Christ but their attention is divided. They (or perhaps I could say ‘we’) are distracted and our energy is syphoned off by worry over material things. 

C.S. Lewis said, “If Satan can’t make you sin, he will make you busy”.

The thing about thorns is that we don’t go out of our way to choose them. Worry about how we are going to make a living and the fruitless busy-ness this creates, spring up by themselves. To get rid of these thorns we have to be quite intentional and careful, so we don’t cut ourselves on the sharp bits. 

When we are young, we are inclined to try and do everything. As we get older we realise we can’t do everything. Humility involves accepting our limitations and making choices (sometimes quite difficult choices) to prioritise God’s purpose in our lives.

There are so many voices clamouring for our attention. We need to listen for and heed the still small voice of God’s Spirit. Making room in our lives to listen to God and obey him might mean changing our job. It might mean taking a pay cut.

If those with a hard heart need softening and those with shallow commitment need deepening, then those with divided attention need decluttering; they need space in which to centre their lives on Christ. How do you make room to listen to God? Do you set aside a regular, daily time for prayer and Bible study?

I know that’s easier for some than others. If you care for young children, then it can be difficult finding five spare minutes let alone 30 minutes for a quiet time with God.

Likewise, if you are a doctor or a teacher or a high flying executive, then it will be hard for you too. Having the minister, who only works one day a week, say you have to add something else (like a devotional time) to your already over full schedule probably isn’t helpful. I get that.

As important as a regular devotional time is, you need to have grace for yourself. Making Jesus the centre of your life and work does not necessarily mean quitting your job and joining a monastery.

You can make Jesus the centre by seeing your job as God’s calling on your life, one of the ways he ministers his grace through you. One of the ways you bear fruit for his glory. One of the ways his kingdom comes on earth as it is in heaven.

For example, if you are a stay at home parent, then you are not just making meals and doing the washing. You are raising your children to know God and love him. You could make space for God by doing your devotions with your kids, in a way they can relate with.               

Or if you are a health professional or a teacher working 60 plus hours a week, then you are not just making scientific diagnoses or teaching reading and maths. You are God’s hands and feet caring for your patients and students. You might make space for God by quietly praying for those in your care, seeking God in the situation while you are on the job.

Or if you are a high flying corporate type, then you aren’t just making deals for financial gain. You are thinking, how can I be generous with people and if I can’t be generous, then how can I at least be fair? Perhaps you make room for God by using your travel time to listen to sermon podcasts or reading the Bible.

Whatever we do with our time, we need to be open to conversations about our faith with those who welcome it. Humility requires us to listen more than we speak in those conversations. And faith invites us to consider, how is God already at work in that person’s life?

Conclusion:

In contrast to the hard soil, the shallow soil and the thorny soil, there are those whose lives are like good soil.

23 …the seed falling on good soil refers to someone who hears the word and understands it. This is the one who produces a crop, yielding a hundred, sixty or thirty times what was sown.”

This is a parable about the kingdom of God and so the crop being produced here is God’s reign on earth. The crop of God’s kingdom is obedience to God’s will. It is acts of justice and mercy. It is love, joy, peace, patience, generosity, faithfulness and self-control. It is transformation to greater Christ-likeness.

Jesus’ parables are a mirror. They show us what we are really like. What do you see when you look in the mirror of this parable? What type of soil best fits you?

Bringing this back to the core value of mutual humility, we need to cultivate a lifestyle of listening well, because it is through listening to God’s word and obeying it that God’s kingdom comes on earth as it is in heaven.

Next week’s message focuses on what it means to listen.  

Let us pray…

Father God, you are the gardener. Cultivate humility in the soil of our lives we ask. Soften our hearts to receive the seed of your word. May the roots of our commitment to Christ grow deep. Gently remove the thorns of worry and busy-ness. Help us to make room to obey your call on our lives. Through Jesus we pray. Amen. 

Questions for discussion or reflection:

What stands out for you in reading this Scripture and/or in listening to the sermon? Why do you think this stood out to you?

  • How does God’s kingdom come on earth as it is in heaven?
  • Where is God at work in your neighbourhood? How can you join God in what he is doing in your local neighbourhood? (If you are not sure, how might you find out?)
  • Jesus’ parables function as a mirror. They show us ourselves as we really are. When you look into Jesus’ parable of the sower, what do you see in the mirror? What soil type do you sense might best describe you? Why do you think this?
  • What does it mean to be hard hearted? What do the hard of heart need? How might God soften a person’s heart? What does your heart need?
  • How deep do the roots of your commitment to Jesus go? Do you have false expectations of Jesus (or erroneous beliefs about God) that need to be amended? Is there someone who can walk with you, listen to you and guide you in this process? 
  • On a scale of 1-10, what is your life schedule like? (With 1 being very quiet and 10 being super busy.) What would it look like to centre your life / work around Christ? How do you make time / room for God’s purpose?

[1] Daniel 5:20-21