Streets

Scripture: Mark 7:24-37

Video Link: https://youtu.be/CPGMpA-D7v0

Structure:

  • Introduction
  • Leaving home
  • Finding faith
  • Sighing deeply
  • Conclusion

Introduction:

Good morning everyone.

Some of you may remember a TV show from the 60’s called The Addams Family, more recently made into a movie. One of the members of the Addams Family was a hand that walked around like a spider, separate from a body.

The hand was simply called ‘Thing’.

A hand by itself looks weird and a bit creepy. For a hand to make sense it really needs to be connected to the rest of the body. The Bible is like a body, it has different parts to it. But none of those parts makes sense or looks right if read in isolation from the other parts.

If you read Bible verses out of context you often end up with an interpretation that is weird and creepy. Scripture interprets Scripture.  

Last week we started a new series following the lectionary readings.

This morning’s lectionary reading focuses on the gospel of Mark, chapter 7, verses 24-37. This passage doesn’t make a lot of sense if taken in isolation from the verses around it. In fact, if you read Mark 7:24-37 by itself, Jesus appears like ‘Thing’ from the Addams Family.

As you listen to these verses then, keep in mind last week’s reading where Jesus talked about what makes a person clean (or right) before God. And if you can’t remember last week’s message, don’t worry. I will remind you as we work through the passage. From verse 24 of Mark 7 we read…      

24 Jesus left that place and went to the vicinity of Tyre. He entered a house and did not want anyone to know it; yet he could not keep his presence secret.

25 In fact, as soon as she heard about him, a woman whose little daughter was possessed by an impure spirit came and fell at his feet. 26 The woman was a Greek, born in Syrian Phoenicia. She begged Jesus to drive the demon out of her daughter. 27 “First let the children eat all they want,” he told her, “for it is not right to take the children’s bread and toss it to the dogs.” 28 “Lord,” she replied, “even the dogs under the table eat the children’s crumbs.” 29 Then he told her, “For such a reply, you may go; the demon has left your daughter.” 30 She went home and found her child lying on the bed, and the demon gone. 31 Then Jesus left the vicinity of Tyre and went through Sidon, down to the Sea of Galilee and into the region of the Decapolis. 32 There some people brought to him a man who was deaf and could hardly talk, and they begged Jesus to place his hand on him. 33 After he took him aside, away from the crowd, Jesus put his fingers into the man’s ears. Then he spit and touched the man’s tongue. 34 He looked up to heaven and with a deep sigh said to him, “Ephphatha!” (which means “Be opened!”). 35 At this, the man’s ears were opened, his tongue was loosened and he began to speak plainly. 36 Jesus commanded them not to tell anyone. But the more he did so, the more they kept talking about it. 37 People were overwhelmed with amazement. “He has done everything well,” they said. “He even makes the deaf hear and the mute speak.”

May the Spirit of Jesus illuminate God’s word for us.

Leaving home:

In 1987, the rock band U2 released an album called The Joshua Tree.

The opening track on that album is called Where the Streets Have No Name. Some of the lyrics read like this…

I want to run, I want to hide,
I wanna tear down the walls that hold me inside…
I wanna take shelter from the poison rain
Where the streets have no name…

Bono wrote these words in response to the idea that, in Belfast, you can identify a person’s religion and income based on the street they live on.

In other words, the name of your street determines other people’s perception of you. There is a wall between people on Old Kent Rd and people on Mayfair. 

Bono wrote the lyrics while in Ethiopia, which is a long way Belfast, Ireland. When you go to a foreign place, the street names don’t carry the same baggage of being rich or poor, protestant or catholic or whatever. 

Bono said: “The guy in the song… thinks about a world where there aren’t such divisions, a place where the streets have no name. …Maybe that’s the dream of all art: to break down the barriers and the divisions between people and touch upon the things that matter the most to us all.”

Perhaps you can identify with the feeling Bono is sketching here. It’s the feeling you get when you leave home for a place you don’t know, a place where the streets have no name (no reputation, no prejudice, no barriers). A place where no one really knows you, so you can transcend the baggage of the past.

Where the streets have no name feels like freedom. It feels like a fresh start.

Last week (in verses 1-23 of Mark 7) Jesus talked about what makes a person unclean before God. The Pharisees were convinced the problem was with those dirty Gentiles and the solution was ceremonial washing, to avoid spiritual contamination and maintain holiness.

Jesus was also concerned about holiness, but he made it clear that the Pharisees had the wrong end of the stick. The problem is not external.

The problem is internal.

What you eat and who you come in contact with does not defile you or make you unholy before God. Rather, it is what comes out of a person’s heart that defiles them: evil thoughts, sexual immorality, theft, murder, and so on.

It is with this conversation fresh in our minds that Jesus (and his disciples) walk 80 kilometres north into the region of Tyre. In doing this they leave the land of Israel behind and cross over into the land of the Gentiles.  

In the Old Testament, Tyre and Sidon were renowned as places of evil. Places the Jewish people expected God to destroy, like Sodom and Gomorrah. Tyre and Sidon were the historical enemies of Israel and considered by most Jews to be unholy places. The streets of Tyre and Sidon had a bad name.

For Jesus though, Tyre and Sidon were no more unclean than Galilee or Jerusalem. Because it’s not a person’s race or postal code that makes them unclean. It is what comes out of their heart. 

Verse 24 shows us a different side to Jesus. We are used to reading about an extroverted Jesus. A Jesus who is out in the world mixing with people, speaking truth to power, healing the sick and going to parties. Rock on. 

But what we see here is a more introverted Jesus. A Jesus who wants to remain anonymous. A Jesus who wants to keep his presence on the down low. This is not a short-term mission trip. This is more like a retreat.  

Jesus wants to run and hide. He wants to take shelter from the poison rain. He wants to go where the streets have no name. A place where he could be anonymous and transcend all the politics and divisions of his homeland.

Who could blame him. The religious leaders were actively opposing him.

The crowds wanted to use him for the all the wrong reasons. His own family doubted him and his disciples didn’t really understand him. No wonder Jesus wanted to get away from it all. But he is out of luck.

Finding faith:

As soon as Jesus arrived in town, a mother came to him asking for a favour. Unfortunately, she had three strikes against her. She was a woman. She was a Gentile. And her daughter was possessed by an unclean spirit. You cannot get much worse than that, if you are a Jewish man.

The woman knows what the Jews think of her. She understands full well the prejudice she is up against. I imagine at that moment she wishes she could go where the streets have no name. But she can’t escape the fact that the street she comes from has the worst name, the worst reputation.

It says something about her courage and character that she is willing to approach one of her enemies for help. Or maybe it is an indication of her desperation. ‘A mother is only as happy as her unhappiest child.’

The daughter is described as little. This might mean she was young but (in the original Greek) little can also mean beloved. This mother loves her daughter very much. 

The mother falls at Jesus’ feet. Again, there is a double meaning here. To fall at someone’s feet in this context can mean to humble oneself and show respect. But it can also be a sign of overwhelming grief and distress. Falling at Jesus’ feet is both an act of lament and petition.  

The daughter has an impure spirit, a demon in other words. Jesus had said previously (in verse 21) that evil comes out of the human heart. If you think of the heart as the well spring of the soul, that place deep within you where life and vitality spring from, then a demon poisons the well so that every thought, motivation and desire is contaminated, making your spirit sick.

The fact that the daughter has an impure spirit shows us that the human heart is not the only source of evil. There are other malicious non-human forces at work in the world which cause all sorts of harm and chaos.    

In verse 26 we read that the woman was a Greek, born in Syrian Phoenicia, roughly where Lebanon is today. This tells us the woman was not a worshipper of Yahweh. She was a pagan. She worshipped idols.

When the woman begged Jesus to deliver her daughter from the demon, Jesus does something a 21st Century audience find offensive. He says to her, “First let the children eat all they want, for it is not right to take the children’s bread and toss it to the dogs.”

The children, in Jesus’ parable here, are the people of Israel. And their food is the healing and life that Jesus brings. Jesus is the bread of life. Dogs is a reference to Gentiles generally. In ancient Jewish culture a dog was considered unclean. Dogs were despised.

So, what is going on here? Because it sounds like a racial slur, an insult, against this mother and her daughter. Well, Jesus is not being racist.

Jesus’ main point is that his mission is first and foremost to the people of Israel. Jesus cannot afford to take on the Gentile world just yet. Jesus’ outreach to the Gentiles will happen in due course (as we see in the book of Acts). But for now, Jesus must focus on Israel and going to the cross.

Jesus’ second point (by implication) is that the Gentile woman before him is unclean. This is not a racial slur. Jesus is making a theological statement.[1]

Drawing on what Jesus had said earlier in Mark 7, verse 21, (that we are defiled by what comes out of our heart) the woman is not unclean because she is a Gentile. She is unclean because she has worshipped idols and done the immoral things that go with that.  

You see, Jesus wants to cleanse the daughter from the demon and the mother from her idolatry. That meant getting the mother to face the truth about herself. Two for the price of one.

At this point the mother has a choice. She can take offence and walk away, insisting on the illusion of her own innocence. Or she can accept the truth that she is not right before God. 

To her credit, the mother responds with humility and insight saying, “Lord, even the dogs under the table eat the children’s crumbs.”  

The mother accepts Jesus’ point that she is like a dog, unclean, unholy, not right before God. No argument there. But what she won’t accept is that God does not have enough mercy and grace for her.

She is not asking Jesus to deviate from his mission to Israel. She just wants a few crumbs for her daughter. This woman has the faith to believe that God’s goodness and grace is greater than anything she has done wrong.

And for that response of faith, Jesus grants her request, healing her daughter from a distance. The woman returns home to find her daughter on the bed and the demon gone.   

Before we move on, let’s pause for a moment and make some observations.

Although this woman came from a pagan background, she was not all bad.

In fact, Jesus found considerable goodness in her heart.

The woman was genuinely humble, she was honest with herself. She was tenacious, she wouldn’t give up. She was motivated by love for her daughter, and she had great faith, she trusted Jesus.

The essence of her faith was this: she believed God was generous enough to extend grace to pagans. She believed God’s mercy was greater than her sin.

Her spiritual dirt was no match for Jesus’ soap. She put no limits on God.

Last week we heard how evil comes from the human heart. This week we see that goodness also comes from the heart. We are complex creatures, fearfully and wonderfully made.

We may think Jesus was a bit rough or rude in the way he spoke to this woman, but Jesus’ approach brought the best out of her.

The woman rose to a place where the streets have no name. She transcended the prejudice, politics and divisions that get in the way of right relationship. She was in touch with the things that matter most to us all.

Sighing deeply:

After this Jesus went further north to Sidon before heading back down the eastern side of the sea of Galilee into the region of the Decapolis. This journey would have taken weeks, if not months. What happened during that time? We are not told.

The Decapolis was mainly occupied by Gentiles. So, it was similar in some ways to Tyre and Sidon, despised by the Jewish establishment.

While in the region of the Decapolis some people brought a man to Jesus who was deaf and could hardly talk. They begged Jesus to place his hand on the man (to heal him).

The laying on of hands was a Jewish thing, so these people are most likely Jewish. They were interceding for the man, similar to the way the mother interceded for her daughter. Neither the man who was deaf nor the daughter who was possessed were able to ask for help themselves.

Is there someone you know who can’t pray for themselves? Who needs you to intercede for them? 

As we imagine this man, who was deaf and could hardly talk, standing in the presence of Jesus, we are reminded of some verses in Isaiah 35, which read…

Then will the eyes of the blind be opened and the ears of the deaf unstopped. Then will the lame leap like a deer, and the mute tongue shout for joy…

Isaiah 35 is a message of hope to the Jews in exile. It’s about God redeeming and restoring his people.

Mark is showing us that Jesus is more than a wandering miracle worker. Jesus is not a creepy hand walking around in isolation from the rest of the body. Jesus’ ministry is connected to God’s bigger plan of salvation. Jesus is the Messiah who fulfils the prophecy of Isaiah 35. 

Being deaf in a hearing world is isolating. If you can’t communicate well, you tend to be misunderstood more than usual. Life can be very lonely. Jesus’ experience was similar in some ways to this man’s experience. Much of what Jesus said was misunderstood. Jesus knew what it was to be alone in a crowd.

In verses 33-35 we read how Jesus heals the man. There is something quite winsome and personal in Jesus’ approach here. Jesus heals the man in private, away from the crowds. He doesn’t make a spectacle of the man or the miracle.

Jesus communicates with the man using sign language. By putting his fingers into the man’s ears and touching his tongue with spit, Jesus was showing the man what he was about to do. By looking up to heaven Jesus was indicating that the power to perform this healing comes from God.

And with a deep sigh [Jesus]said to him, Ephphatha!” (which means “Be opened!”). And the man was healed.

What is the sigh about?

A sigh is when we exhale loudly. A sigh is an emotional response to something we feel deep inside. When we sigh it’s like we are releasing a feeling. Usually, it is a feeling of frustration or sadness. A feeling that things are not right. We sigh when no words will do justice to the feeling. Deep calls to deep.

I am reminded of Paul’s words in Romans 8, where he writes…

Likewise, the Spirit helps us in our weakness; for we do not know how to pray as we ought, but that very Spirit intercedes with sighs too deep for words.      

It’s not that Jesus didn’t know how to pray in this situation. Rather, he was praying in the Spirit. He was interceding with sighs too deep for words.

The sigh indicates the level of Jesus’ emotional engagement. This healing (like every healing) cost Jesus something.

What is it that makes you sigh?

There is more than one way to be deaf. When Jesus commanded the people not to tell anyone, they kept talking about it. Apparently, the people did not hear Jesus or weren’t listening. Did they see the connection with Isaiah 35?

Or was this just entertainment for them?

It wasn’t entertainment for the man who was healed, it was freedom and a fresh start.

Conclusion:

Today we have heard how Jesus performed two miracles. Although Jesus’ approach in each case was quite different, both signs show us a God of creative power and love. Both signs show us what God intends for his creation. They give us a glimpse of the kingdom of heaven.

Can you imagine a place where the streets have no name? Jesus wants to lift us above the parochial concerns and prejudices that divide us. Will we go there with him?

Questions for discussion or reflection:

  1. What stands out for you in reading this Scripture and/or in listening to the sermon? Why do you think this stood out to you?
  2. What does it mean to go where the streets have no name? What is this song describing?
  3. Why did Jesus refer to the woman and her daughter as dogs? What made them unclean?
  4. What does the woman’s response, in verse 28, show us? What can we learn from her?
  5. Is there someone you know who can’t pray for themselves? Who needs you to intercede for them? 
  6. Discuss / reflect on the way Jesus heals the man in verses 33-34. How is Jesus’ approach similar / different from the miracle in vv. 24-30? What does this show us about Jesus?
  7. What is it that makes you sigh?  

[1] Refer Tim Keller’s comment in a sermon he preached, December 1996.

How He Loves

Scripture: Deuteronomy 5:6-9, Nahum 1:2-3, Matthew 10:37-39, Luke 15:1-7, Romans 8:18, Psalm 85:10-12

Structure:

  • Introduction
  • Jealousy
  • Transcendence
  • Conclusion

Introduction:

Good morning everyone.

Today we continue our ‘Anthems’ series. In this series we are looking at the lyrics of one hymn or Christian worship song each week to see how that song informs our thinking about God and how it connects with Scripture and the heritage of our faith.

The song we are looking at this morning is called How He Loves, written by John Mark McMillan. It was released in 2005.

We don’t sing How He Loves in our Sunday worship services very often, probably because it is difficult for a smaller congregation to sing. It works better with a larger gathering. I quite like the song though. It has some salty, bold lyrics. God’s love is not pedestrian.

As usual we don’t have time to unpack every line of the song but I do want to focus our attention on two themes: jealousy and transcendence. First let us consider jealousy.

Jealousy

Okay, here’s a quiz for you. What was the name of the rock band who wrote the song Mr Brightside?     

That’s right, The Killers. You’re on to it. They almost have a cult following. The Killers wrote Mr Brightside around the end of 2001. It’s a song about jealousy. One of the band members had a funny feeling that something wasn’t right in his relationship with his girlfriend and sure enough, when he turned up at the pub, he found her there with another guy. Mr Brightside describes the feeling of jealousy provoked by cheating.

So what has this got to do with John McMillan’s worship song, How He Loves? Well, John McMillan’s song is also about jealousy, but jealousy of a different kind, divine jealousy. The opening lines of How He Loves read… 

He is jealous for me, loves like a hurricane, I am a tree,
Bending beneath the weight of his wind and mercy.
 

Jealousy is not a word we usually associate with God. It tends to be a word that carries negative connotations for us. Jealousy often makes us think of envy and people behaving badly, as with The Killers’ song Mr Brightside. So what is jealousy and in what sense can we say God is jealous?

Well, jealousy is a very strong, very intense emotion. We might call jealousy a passion or a zeal or a fury. Jealousy is triggered by an affront to our rights or our honour. If we believe something belongs rightfully to us but is then given to another we will instinctively feel jealous. For example, a husband or wife may feel jealous if their partner in marriage is unfaithful in some way. By its very definition marriage is an exclusive relationship. There are some things in marriage that should not be shared with anyone else. Both husband and wife have every right to expect faithfulness from their partner. So a jealous reaction (a feeling of intense fury or passion) in the context of unfaithfulness in marriage is fair and understandable. In fact, the more you love your husband or wife the greater the potential for jealousy.  

But not all jealous reactions are fair or right. Some jealousy is misplaced. For example, if you don’t like your hair (or if you don’t have hair) you might look at someone who has perfect hair and feel jealous. That is, you might believe that the hair on their head should belong to you. Clearly, that kind of jealousy (which we might more accurately call ‘envy’) is not fair or justified. We have no right to the hair on someone else’s head. This is a frivolous example of misplaced jealousy – I’m not meaning to get at anyone who may be bald.

Another example of jealousy is when someone gets the praise or the promotion or the prize that we believe belongs to us. In that situation we may feel quite justified in our jealous indignation (our anger), but really we are seldom in the best position to judge. Sometimes life is unfair. Sometimes things don’t go our way but God, who is jealous for justice, has a way of making things right, if not in this life then in the next.

The point is, jealousy is that strong feeling we get when something we believe rightfully belongs to us goes to someone else. Sometimes our human jealousy is appropriate and other times it is not.

But God’s jealousy is always righteous and justified because God is the creator of all there is, so everything rightfully belongs to him anyway.

Now you might be wondering if this idea that God gets jealous is just a human notion, something we have projected onto God. Let me assure you it’s not.

God describes himself as jealous in the Bible. For example, in Deuteronomy 5:6-9, while giving the ten commandments, God says to his people Israel…

I am the Lord your God, who brought you out of the land of Egypt, out of the house of slavery; you shall have no other gods before me. You shall not make for yourself an idol, whether in the form of anything that is in heaven above, or that is on the earth beneath, or that is in the water under the earth. You shall not bow down to them or worship them; for I the Lord your God am a jealous God…

The specific context for God calling himself jealous is the command to not worship any other God and to not make an idol. We might not bow down to actual statues, like people in the ancient world did, but we do sometimes place a higher value on things that are created, things that are less worthy than God. For example, we may worship money or our career or our reputation or our family or our own pleasure.

God is saying he has every right to insist upon our absolute loyalty and obedience. If we give our worship to something that is not God, then we are denying God what rightfully belongs to him and we will trigger God’s jealousy. 

God does not insist that we worship him exclusively because he needs it. God is not insecure. He doesn’t need to have his ego propped up with praise every five minutes. God doesn’t actually need anything from us.

No. God insists that we worship him exclusively because we need to. Worshipping God is good for us – it gives our lives value and meaning.

When we worship things that are not God we devalue and demean ourselves. We make ourselves less than whatever it is we bow down to and we empty our lives of any sort of lasting meaning.

The Bible often depicts God as a husband whose wife (Israel) has been unfaithful to him by worshipping other gods (with a little ‘g’). If God didn’t experience intense jealousy over infidelity, then that would indicate he didn’t care at all. The fact that God rightly feels jealous when we worship other things proves that he cares a great deal.

Returning to the first line of the song for a moment…

He is jealous for me, loves like a hurricane, I am a tree,
Bending beneath the weight of his wind and mercy.

Putting the image of a hurricane alongside the idea of God’s jealous love is perfect. It’s so Biblical. In the book of Nahum chapter 1 we read…

A jealous and avenging God is the Lord, the Lord is avenging and wrathful; the Lord takes vengeance on his adversaries and rages against his enemies. The Lord is slow to anger but great in power, and the Lord will by no means clear the guilty. His way is in whirlwind and storm, and the clouds are the dust of his feet.  

They are strong words.   

The thing about a hurricane or a whirlwind is that we can’t tame it. We can’t domesticate it. A hurricane is a powerful and dangerous force.

Sometimes we forget how dangerous God can be. The jealous love of God is like a hurricane – we need to make sure we are on the right side of it.

Sometimes Israel got on the wrong side of God’s jealousy, but in the reading from the prophet Nahum, it was Israel’s enemies, the Assyrians, who were on the wrong side of God.

To say that ‘God is jealous for me’ is to say that God is on my side and he is going to deal to my enemies with the rage of a hurricane.

Now, as I alluded to in our responsive prayer (earlier in today’s service), our enemies are not flesh & blood (our enemies are not other nations). Our enemies are unseen; things like pride, resentment, fear, loneliness and depression. But even though our enemies are unseen, they are still very real and just as dangerous as bullets and bombs. God’s love is greater than those things.

The other thing I need to make clear about the hurricane image is that it is a metaphor for God’s jealous love. We shouldn’t take it too literally. If an actual hurricane passes over a country and wreaks havoc, that doesn’t mean God is angry with that nation. The survivors of an extreme weather event need compassion, not condemnation.

Now some of you may be thinking, ‘Okay, fair enough, the Old Testament does describe God as jealous. But what about the New Testament. How does God’s jealousy fit with the person of Jesus? After all, isn’t Jesus supposed to show us what God is like on the inside?’

Good question. Thank you for asking it. Yes, Jesus does show us what God is like on the inside. And yes, Jesus does reveal God’s jealousy. Let me give you some examples…

In Matthew 10:37-39 Jesus says, “Whoever loves his father or mother more than me is not fit to be my disciple; whoever loves his son or daughter more than me is not fit to be my disciple. Whoever does not take up his cross and follow in my steps is not fit to be my disciple. Whoever tries to gain his own life will lose it; but whoever loses his life for my sake will gain it. [1]

These verses are difficult for us and yet in them we find an example of divine jealousy. Jesus is not saying we shouldn’t love our family. We need to honour our parents and not turn away from our family when they are in need. But, at the same time, Jesus is saying that he is entitled to a greater loyalty from us than our own family is. So if our family give us an ultimatum and ask us to choose between them or Jesus, then we need to choose Jesus. If Jesus were just a man, then he would have no right to say this. But because Jesus is also God, he has every right to say it. 

A.T. Luter observes how the Biblical words that are used for jealousy are closely associated with zeal and zealousness. Zeal represents intense emotional effort and energy focused toward a goal. Jealousy is the relational counterpart to zeal, primarily a focusing of emotion toward a person in the desire for a closer, better relationship. [2] 

Thinking of jealousy in this way (as an intense desire to be closer to a person) reminds me of Jesus’ parable of the lost sheep in Luke 15. Jesus said…

“Suppose one of you has a hundred sheep and loses one of them—what do you do? You leave the other ninety-nine sheep in the pasture and go looking for the one that got lost until you find it. When you find it, you are so happy that you put it on your shoulders and carry it back home. Then you call your friends and neighbours together and say to them, ‘I am so happy I found my lost sheep. Let us celebrate!’ In the same way, I tell you, there will be more joy in heaven over one sinner who repents than over ninety-nine respectable people who do not need to repent.

This parable is an example of the jealous love of God. We rightfully belong to God. He is our creator, our heavenly Father. If we are lost or carried off by something else, then God jealousy pursues us with his love to find us and bring us home. God’s jealous love will not abandon us or share us with the evil one. Jesus is the good shepherd who restores the lost sheep.

Perhaps the clearest example of how Jesus reveals God’s jealous love was in going to the cross. God was so jealous for us, he felt so strongly that we belong to him, and not to sin or death, that he redeemed us back for himself through Jesus’ crucifixion and death. Indeed, God’s act of raising Jesus from the dead also demonstrates the power of God’s jealousy. God’s jealous love is stronger than the grave.

Okay, so that’s one of the themes of the song, divine jealousy. The other aspect of the song I want to highlight is transcendence

Transcendence

By transcendence I mean ‘rising above’ our circumstances, being lifted out of our troubles. (This has nothing to do with transcendental meditation by the way.) A transcendent experience is one which is extraordinary, incomparable, matchless, second to none. The song How He Loves describes the kind of transcendent experience one can have through the love of God.   

In the movie Forrest Gump, Forrest and Lieutenant Dan are out one night on their boat, fishing for shrimp, when a huge storm hits. It’s the worst storm in that area for decades. Lieutenant Dan is angry with God. He’s up in the rigging yelling insults at God, ‘You call this a storm…’ He’s practically goading God to sink their ship. Forrest is more circumspect, more humble. He’s got his hand on the wheel navigating the boat through the waves.

Lieutenant Dan’s fury is a jealous sort of rage. He believes he was destined to die a hero’s death in battle (in Vietnam) but God spared his life through Forrest Gump and now Lieutenant Dan feels cheated. Dan thinks God has taken something from him that wasn’t his to take. But God’s jealous love for Lieutenant Dan is greater than Lieutenant Dan’s jealous rage at God. In fact, God’s love lifts Lieutenant Dan out of his hurt and resentment.    

They survive the ordeal at sea and when they come into port the next morning they see all the other boats in the harbour have been smashed to pieces. Prior to the storm they couldn’t catch a cold. Now, after the storm, all their competition has been taken out and they catch tons of shrimp.

Eventually Lieutenant Dan makes his peace with God. He breaks off his romance with death and transcends his troubles, he rises above his self-pity and rage, to embrace a new life.        

John Mark McMillan, the author of How He Loves describes how his song came about (and I paraphrase here)…

Some of my friends were in a car crash. One of them (Steven) died later in hospital that night. I was angry and confused and hurt. Steven was a youth group leader and had been in a prayer meeting earlier that day. I process things through music. The song ‘How He Loves’ is not about a pretty, clean, Hollywood, ‘hot pink’ type love. It’s the kind of love that is willing to love things that are messy and difficult. Gross things. God could still love me in my anger and frustration and resentment. He could love me through that. God wasn’t offended that I was angry at him. ‘How He Loves’ is a song that celebrates a God who wants to hang with us through the mess.       

John McMillan’s song describes something of the extraordinary, incomparable, matchless, transcendent experience of God’s love. Sometimes in worship we become so absorbed in God that we transcend our troubles. Whatever mess we are in fades away and we lose ourselves in awe and wonder and delight at the goodness of God. It’s like our soul is granted a Sabbath rest from its pain and struggle and we are actually able to heal.

We notice transcendence in verse 1 of the song when we sing…   

When all of a sudden, I am unaware of these afflictions eclipsed by glory, And I realize just how beautiful You are, and how great Your affections are for me.

Afflictions eclipsed by glory reminds us of Paul’s words in Romans 8:18…

“I consider that our present sufferings are not worth comparing with the glory that will be revealed in us.”

As I’ve said on other occasions, suffering and glory go hand in hand in the Bible. If we share in Christ’s suffering, we will also share in his glory.

What strikes me about Paul’s words in Romans 8 is that the glory will be revealed in us. It’s like we are vessels or containers for God’s glory. As Paul says in 2nd Corinthians 4:7, we have this treasure in jars of clay to show this all-surpassing power is from God.

Verse 2 of the song continues the theme of transcendence where it says…

And heaven meets earth like an unforeseen kiss, And my heart turns violently inside of my chest, I don’t have time to maintain these regrets, When I think about, the way that He loves us,

We are reminded here of Psalm 85:10-12…

Love and faithfulness meet together; righteousness and peace kiss each other. 11 Faithfulness springs forth from the earth, and righteousness looks down from heaven. 12 The Lord will indeed give what is good, and our land will yield its increase. 13 Righteousness goes before him and prepares the way for his steps.

Jesus is heaven’s kiss on the earth. In and through Christ heaven meets earth.

Back to the song, …my heart turns violently inside of my chest suggests a deep internal heart change, repentance in other words.

Or perhaps it’s more like the way our heart races or skips a beat when we come near to the one we love.

We may regret some of the things we have done in our life. We may keep going back in our mind rehearsing our past mistakes, feeling bad and playing the ‘what if’ game with ourselves.

But when we think about the way God loves us we don’t have time to maintain these regrets – we transcend our past. We rise above ourselves. We realise it’s not about us. It’s about Jesus.

Conclusion

God loves us jealously. His love is transcendent, extraordinary, incomparable, second to none. In God we find our rest.

Let’s sing in our bubbles now, How He loves us…

How He Loves

He is jealous for me, loves like a hurricane, I am a tree,
Bending beneath the weight of his wind and mercy.
When all of a sudden, I am unaware of these afflictions eclipsed by glory,
And I realize just how beautiful You are,
And how great Your affections are for me.

And oh, how He loves us oh
Oh how He loves us,
How He loves us all

And oh, how He loves us oh,
Oh how He loves us,
How He loves us all

He loves us,
Oh how He loves us,
Oh how He loves us,
Oh how He loves.

And we are His portion and He is our prize,
Drawn to redemption by the grace in His eyes,
If His grace is an ocean, we’re all sinking.
And heaven meets earth like an unforeseen kiss,
And my heart turns violently inside of my chest,
I don’t have time to maintain these regrets,
When I think about, the way that He loves us,

Oh how He loves us,
Oh how He loves us,
Oh how He loves.
Yeah, He loves us…

Questions for discussion or reflection:

Listen to the song ‘How He Loves’.  What are you in touch with as you listen to this song? (What connections, memories or feelings does the song evoke for you?) 

What is jealousy?

How might we handle (process) our jealous feelings in a healthy way? 

Why is God’s jealousy always right and good? In what sense is God’s jealousy an expression of his love?

Why does God insist that we worship Him exclusively?

In what ways does Jesus reveal divine jealousy? Can you give examples from the Bible?

What is transcendence?

What is your experience of God’s transcendent love? What is your response to His love? (If you are not aware of God’s love for you personally, you might like to ask Him to show you.)

Outtakes

One another occasion in the gospels we read how Jesus fell asleep in a boat during a hurricane. Imagine that, Jesus is so at home in the middle of a storm that he is able to sleep like a log. Why is Jesus so relaxed? Because he is God and his way is in the whirlwind and storm.

God’s jealous love isn’t just contained in the first line of the song. Verse 2 also implies God’s jealousy for us where it says,

we are His portion and He is our prize…
Deuteronomy 32:9 tells us the Lord’s portion is his people.

The apostle Paul talks about ‘thinking of others as better than ourselves’ (Philippians 2:3). When we do that we prevent feelings of jealousy in the first place. For example, if someone else gets the praise, the promotion or the prize, then we are happy for them because we believe they (and not us) are rightly entitled to it.

John McMillan also wrote the song King of my heart, which we sang earlier today during our on-line service.


[1] Refer M. Erickson, ‘Jealousy’, The Zondervan Pictorial Encyclopedia of the Bible, page 410.

[2] Refer A.B. Luter, Jr. ‘Jealousy, Zeal’, DPL, page 461.